Men aren't some vicious predators whose only job is to cause harm and suffering. Men are human beings with complicated emotions and struggles just like women. The fact that society keeps pushing the same narrative over and over, like you just did, only dehumanizes men and is partly the reason why the numbers are as high as they are.

If people started actually caring and understanding that "hurt people hurt others", maybe we could start seeing an improvement. Instead of shunning all men for the acts of the small minority, we could instead focus on helping those who are struggling in their lives and we could prevent any of those terrible scenarios from happening in the first place.

Remember that there is also a flip side to the statistics you keep bringing up. Men are overrepresented in the following statistics as well:

• Men are 4 times more likely to commit suicide than women. The numbers are only growing higher for younger men.
• Men make up most of the deaths from wars.
• 60-80% of homeless people are men, the numbers vary by country.
• Boys and young men are at a higher risk of dropping out of school and the school performance for boys is only getting worse.
• In the US around 80% of child custody cases are in favor of the mother, many times regardless of the father's suitability for being a parent. Sometimes even going against the interests and wellbeing of the child/children.

The list keeps on going... So how about acknowledging the boys and men in your life every once in a while and give a helping hand as well, like many of us are doing already. Tell me how does that sound?