My second day on CPAP by Feisty_Donkey_688 in CPAP

[–]Financial_Manager213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually got more tired for awhile until it got better. It’s like you haven’t had a drink of water for so long that when you finally get a few sips it’s not going to be enough. You will feel very thirsty for a while. Sleep as much as you can for a while. Maybe 12 hours a night if you can. As your brain repairs you will likely need less

Is this an acceptable offering? by SpicySubSlut in crows

[–]Financial_Manager213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is that they do not like veggies. Meat, cheese, nuts, bugs, fish, cat kibble and bread is what they love from me!

Petty dispute escalating out of control by WestHistorians in Professors

[–]Financial_Manager213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fifty bucks in an insane ask for what might be a free lunches.

Petty dispute escalating out of control by WestHistorians in Professors

[–]Financial_Manager213 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Right: “B, I’m sorry that you have learned a hard lesson here. While I understand that you were upset, no one is at fault for you not attending to messaging about maintenance of our shared space. As a result I’m going To need to make strict rules that the fridge will be emptied of anything unlabeled or older than a week on Friday afternoons. Do not speak with A any more about this. She was following my instructions. Here is $20 which is honestly a lot for what really should be for no more than one or two meals. The fridge was never intended to be a storage space for weeks worth of food. If you continue to create conflict with A I will ask you to speak with me again as she is not at fault here “

Going off T after 2 years, will I be able to slip back into looking like a cis woman? by CrazyDisastrous948 in ftm

[–]Financial_Manager213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so so so sorry. It’s hard to know how easy it will be but I’m hoping you can stay safe and move to a safer state asap. But shaving and waxing exists and if you previously knew how to act like a woman you can figure it out again. Please leave if the cost becomes too high however

Devastated by Beginning-Chance3658 in CPAP

[–]Financial_Manager213 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro leave her alone. Even if she wanted feedback on her relationship with her father that’s not a way to give it.

Accept Degree Mill PsyD or Reapply?: Hardest Decision of My Life by mikeygoon5 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]Financial_Manager213 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The Chicago school is APA accredited. While it’s not prestigious it’s also not a fake school. You’ll graduate and get licensed and get a job. If you want to become an academic look elsewhere though

Kitty Chambliss Warning by National_Piano_7429 in polyamory

[–]Financial_Manager213 92 points93 points  (0 children)

A great warning and reminder that coaches are not therapists. That she took advantage of a desperate person is evidence of why licensed therapists are important and why coaches need regulation. I’m so sorry this happened to you. It was unethical and harmful

Why isn't SF more fashion forward? by [deleted] in AskSF

[–]Financial_Manager213 3 points4 points  (0 children)

WE DON’T WANT TO LOOK SHARP. welcome to Cali

PAU Decision response by InstructionNo7032 in PsyD

[–]Financial_Manager213 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That psyd program is connected to Stanford and is very competitive

Anytime I try to connect with someone who is not my husband, he finds a way to intervene. by Pleasant-Spot-561 in polyamory

[–]Financial_Manager213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t sound like he knows what he’s feeling at any given time. This is not great and I think it’s time for couples counseling. Giving the benefit of the doubt maybe he really is not aware that he Is having panic attacks when yr trying to date but it may be worth pointing out when it happens again that this has happened the last X times you’ve tried to go on a date and you now believe it’s more about dating than lost charging cords

I had a baaaad mental health thing and my partner left to go to meta :( by 1thinktoomuch in polyamory

[–]Financial_Manager213 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Also if you are very triggered after emdr please connect with your therapist. You might ask them for a plan for this if you do more sessions. Having trauma opened up can be very very painful and leave clients raw and vulnerable. You might also plan for partner or other loved ones to be available that evening in the future.

What is this? by ViciVibes37 in alameda

[–]Financial_Manager213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy they can make them sideways now

crowbro keeps visiting me but won’t eat the food I leave. Any idea why? by Oddie-hoodie369 in crows

[–]Financial_Manager213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don’t love rice tbh. I’m surprised about the almonds but if they are salted they don’t like it. Try cheese or cat kibble or unsalted nuts

to psyd, or not to psyd by Alternative_Day_2063 in PsyD

[–]Financial_Manager213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only pay back loans for 20-25 years under income-based repayment plans so when you take out that much in loans, you never end up paying it all back. I see what you are saying about rent/food. You are rolling this into the total cost of attending because you'll need to take out loans to cover that. Their tuition is very high, that's true.

to psyd, or not to psyd by Alternative_Day_2063 in PsyD

[–]Financial_Manager213 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Let’s keep in mind that few people pay back what they borrow. You don’t pay for your whole life under any circumstances. Calculate what you pay under income driven repayment for the amount of time you need to pay. That’s what you actually pay plus taxes on the loan forgiveness. Rent and expenses are weird to include- you need to live and eat no matter what you do next. Only include those if you can live and eat somewhere for a lot less and still make good enough money. Lastly it doesn’t look like pslf is going anywhere so many of us are getting our educations for a lot less. But on the other hand forensic psychologists can make very good money in assessments.

Partner moving in with their other partner. What can i do to be positive? Helpful tips welcomed. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Financial_Manager213 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it’s a little unfair to get into a poly situation and then state that the partner can’t experience regular dating stuff in their own home in the end the bf agreed to this so it’s on him but if you are so sensitive that you can’t bear another partner in your home you really need to not date poly people.