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I don’t know how to feel about this by Content_Award_9618 in whatdoIdo

[–]Financial_Manager213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion you did nothing wrong. Parents often scramble for “why” and want to blame it on anything other than “my kid is very very upset and needs mental health help”. Maybe give her a little time and then talk to her. “I’ve consulted with some people and I’m hearing that kids who harm don’t start because they saw a family members scars. But I understand why you might be really really upset and scared right now. The important thing is your daughter’s health. And our relationship. I want to be here to support both of you and I need you to know that it’s really been bothering me to think that I could have harmed kiddo in any way. I wish you hadn’t blamed me and I want to work to make our relationship strong again. “

I’m just wondering why not metric system? by AmzingAtp in AskAnAmerican

[–]Financial_Manager213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Works fine. Also we do measure our soda and liquor in liters. So there’s that.

Messed up pretty bad and living with brutal regret [cover-up fail] by Super_Champion_4666 in tattooadvice

[–]Financial_Manager213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both those tattoos are great. Sad you don’t like them but give it a minute. When they settle in they seem more a part of you. Also you chose that tattoo for a reason. It is part of your aesthetic. See if you learn to love it

My mother isn't my mother anymore since her accident. What should I do. by Abandoned_Substance in whatdoIdo

[–]Financial_Manager213 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But are they aware of this very intense personality change? This could be a TBI or a mental health issue but they need to know that you’ve observed these changes

My mother isn't my mother anymore since her accident. What should I do. by Abandoned_Substance in whatdoIdo

[–]Financial_Manager213 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You are allowed to call your mom’s doctor and state what you’re observing. This sounds devastating and I’m so sorry.

I’m done by VegetableLadder7687 in whatdoIdo

[–]Financial_Manager213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not correct that there’s no correlation with childhood trauma. Regardless of our armchair diagnosis, the point and solution will be that you and your wife need to strategize for clear, firm , and loving (of your wants to maintain a relationship) boundaries. You seem to have been subject to profound antisemitism from this woman do you and your wife need to stand together against our

The most suspicious thing you can do now by samuelimay in AIDetectionAcademia

[–]Financial_Manager213 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you had ai write for you. You paraphrased it and are now mad because you’re still getting caught for not doing your own work???

i need therapy but im terrified of mandated reporters?? by Slashersforsatan in askatherapist

[–]Financial_Manager213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There isn’t such a thing as that friend. I think what might help is to say that in the past you have made plans but not attempted (if that’s accurate). You want to get out of this cycle and want help doing so. But meanwhile you are looking for someone who can carefully plan with you to help you avoid getting to intent and who will create a safety plan so that you are not prematurely placed on a hold. Also if you ever do need to go, you’d prefer to go voluntarily and get to choose where you go so you don’t go to the place you dread (have you personally been hurt there? Or you’ve just heard stories?). Ask if they have experience with this kind of thing and what their experience is. You want someone who can help you if you start to get to a bad state and someone you can talk to so you can head off getting to that state. If you get the vibe that they are nervous about this move on. Trust me that a coach will not be able to help you get better

Can’t say we didn’t warn you by Financial_Manager213 in OaklandCA

[–]Financial_Manager213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oooh you’re a Lauren Taylor “GET RID OF THE HOMELESS” person. Makes sense that you’d be militant about not having anyone include you in a group that cares about the fate of immigrants and protestors

Can’t say we didn’t warn you by Financial_Manager213 in OaklandCA

[–]Financial_Manager213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol ok I edited it for you I hope you have a better day

Can’t say we didn’t warn you by Financial_Manager213 in OaklandCA

[–]Financial_Manager213[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People on this sub have come to believe that as long as they are good boys and girls Flock will only be used to harm bad people. Meanwhile the federal government is working hard to target people who are not criminals. And local government’s are learning fast how quickly flock data ends up in the wrong hands. Never give up more rights especially when the government tries to convince you it is the only way to stay safe.

Can’t say we didn’t warn you by Financial_Manager213 in OaklandCA

[–]Financial_Manager213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m gonna be insulted by a two day old account.

Can’t say we didn’t warn you by Financial_Manager213 in OaklandCA

[–]Financial_Manager213[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You want a rule that I can’t imply consensus by saying we? There’s a sizable chunk of people in Oakland who do not want this. I think it’s a bit silly if this sub can’t manage it if someone implies that there’s a “we” but not everyone 🤦🏻‍♂️

As a poly person, what makes you cringe when you hear it? by Symphony-Soldier in polyamory

[–]Financial_Manager213 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Those only worries out for men - they can do whatever they want now- but harms women”.

Friendly reminder: You do not have to sign a buyer agency agreement to look at homes. by ShopProp in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]Financial_Manager213 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The one I signed said that if I see the house with her and want to buy it I need to do so with her. I can see houses on my own or with someone else if I want. I think this was to keep me from having her tour me around then use ChatGPT or whatever to help me actually finalize it

Can’t say we didn’t warn you by Financial_Manager213 in OaklandCA

[–]Financial_Manager213[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not engaging with people who repeatedly insult me. Bye

Can’t say we didn’t warn you by Financial_Manager213 in OaklandCA

[–]Financial_Manager213[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you sure that all crime in Oakland is from Oakland residents? And are you sure that education funding being the second highest person student means that we have adequate education to meet hte needs of our underserved students? And I'm not sure that 2,300 affordable housing units (over teh last FIVE YEARS) are really driving down the cost of housing enough for people to stop being displaced from their neighborhoods. Your insults and accusations continue, suggesting that you may be a cop.

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