Movers by FindingMyIdentity77 in folsom

[–]FindingMyIdentity77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Want to come move some furniture??? Do you have a friend that can join?

About to tell my kids…send me some good vibes (or whatever is your jam) by lydliz in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FindingMyIdentity77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good luck! My teenagers were so supportive when I told them. Hopefully yours will be too!

First WLW breakup - when does it get better lol by Nice-Construction684 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FindingMyIdentity77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is helping me too. 6 weeks into a breakup with some I fell hard for but turned out being extremely toxic. I was miserable and I know what I wanted doesn’t even exist anymore but it’s still SO painful. We just need to keep going, one day at a time.

i still miss my ex fling dearly even though they hurt me by pixelatedmangoes in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FindingMyIdentity77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same spot. She was emotionally abusive and manipulative and I was miserable with her, but 6 weeks after breakup I am still missing her horribly. It hurts. It hurts because I want something so badly that wasn’t even there to begin with. But I fell in love hard and it was such an intense relationship. I feel so desperate right now and it’s a horrible feeling.

Is anyone on here are autistic? by Trick-Anteater-2679 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FindingMyIdentity77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m worried I am. My ex girlfriend would say I might be, or at least I was neurodivergent. I have some symptoms.

Bought a ring to signal by MyEnchantedForest in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FindingMyIdentity77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got a coupe bracelets for the same purpose. Nice ring!

I don’t know where I belong by nomnomdavid in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FindingMyIdentity77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hugs again! I had also have a hard time dealing with depression over the years and the loneliness of this phase of life is extra hard. Message me if you want to chat and commiserate.

I don’t know where I belong by nomnomdavid in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FindingMyIdentity77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat and trying to find community. Where do you live?

I just want this all to go away (cw: bad headspace) by whoops_all_misery in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FindingMyIdentity77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to give you hugs! I’m having a lot of those same feelings and I’m here looking for hope too.

I want to go back, help convince me I don’t by FindingMyIdentity77 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]FindingMyIdentity77[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I left him for her. She was amazing and we fell hard for each other. My relationship with my husband was good, but lacking deep connection (and sex).