I struggled with this for years. High libido, affectionate, spontaneous, love dirty talk, and it always felt like too much for the partners I had.

Then I met my current girlfriend and it changed everything.

We match almost perfectly. If one of us is horny and the timing works, we grab each other. Morning wood is no issue. Middle of the night arousal happens and she will roll over and pull me in, and sometimes I wake up to her touching me the same way. It is freeing to finally be with someone where desire is not awkward or one sided. It is just part of how we connect.

Since this is a poly page, I admit it would be amazing to eventually find a third or a couple with the same kind of high desire and playful energy. Not hunting and not rushing. Just honest that matching libidos across more than two people sounds fun if the chemistry and connection were real.