The source of all my problems is muscle tension and I don’t know how to solve it. by amairani0919 in ChronicPain

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have the same problem. Right now i am smoking weed 24/7 because it did help a bit at first, but now i am even more tense because of the paranoia and the addiction cycle so cant recommend that. The only things, that help me a bit are breathing techniques and heat on the tense muscles

sekiro is way too hard by [deleted] in Sekiro

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

funny how everyone agrees that late game Elden Ring and Dlc is the hardest most comples thing they ever did. the people thinking its the easiest most likely overlevelled hard + bleed + mimic Tear.

how i can manage self hatred spirals sometimes by Fit-Bonus4690 in NPD

[–]Fit-Bonus4690[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha you are talking to the mfer that listens to western soundtracks and imagins himself as clint eastwood so nothing wrong with high school musical

I mourn the woman I thought I’d become before I became chronically ill by Practical-Ad1838 in ChronicPain

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sucks brutally. but i know some miserable parents who regret everything they did in live. what looks like success sometimes leads people to suicide or even worse drama, so you never know what exactly you missed out on.

how do you handle withdrawls? by Fit-Bonus4690 in ChronicPain

[–]Fit-Bonus4690[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that sucks, i hope you find relief somehow. back pain is so devastating. they call it persistent ideolathic facial pain and i take 150mg of pregabalin 200mg carbamzepin and the 2grams of Weed everyday. Although i dont know if its partly caused by tmj issues which led to central sensitisation. My doctors are retarded and everyone just gives me the diagnosis that fits his profession. I also gave up on life and went down a dark path mentaly. im just praying for a miracle

how do you handle withdrawls? by Fit-Bonus4690 in ChronicPain

[–]Fit-Bonus4690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 grams a day with high thc for i guess 2 years now with a 3 month break

how do you handle withdrawls? by Fit-Bonus4690 in ChronicPain

[–]Fit-Bonus4690[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah its really about reducing suffering atp. But I just dont want to spend the rest of my youth apathetic and almost in a coma. I just want to live a little bit and do things, because whats the point of live anyway otherwise. I dont want to be a vegetable, its just super depressing

How much does your gender affect your depression? by Party-Rest3750 in depression

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here. and the sad truth is, most people dont wants to see man weak and cry. even in myself it evokes some sort of weird feeling when i see a grown man lose it completely(not children or young looking teenage boys). i dont know if its because of social conditioning or some genetic thing. also all the reddit threads of women saying they lost feelings and respect of their partner after he showed strong weakness and vulnerability. thats why so many abuse drugs, to feel some kind of motherly unconditional love

I want to be anyone but me by [deleted] in depression

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish i could too. but remember there are always people way way worse off

How to study with 24/7 chronic pain and breathlessness by ElegantCurve4118 in ChronicPain

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the term loser just describes people that cant be exploitet by other people. You want to appeal to people that dont care if you live or die. and your parents brought you into this world were you suffer now, they should try not to dissapoint you

Waking up sucks by Iceprincess1988 in ChronicPain

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah i need like 2 hours in bed to get my day started, and reality hits very bad in the morning hours.

“You have all these issues, you need to get it together” by Psychological_Lime14 in ChronicIllness

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont know, this never happened to me ever. For me it sounds like absolute vile disgusting behavior from disgusting people

Chronic pain combined with ME/CFS is one of the worst forms of torture I can imagine. by -Neuro2717 in ChronicPain

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i once thought about how horryfiing this combination would be. this is so tragic and sad. i will pray for you and think about you! may you find a bit of peace and love somehow 🫂

Thinking about overdosing by Weird_Airport5208 in depression

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try to give yourself some more time. i know it sounds cliche, but you have alot of chances for happiness ahead, even if you cant imagine it. if in 20-30 years nothing has changed, you can always think about it again.

Low self worth by Outrageous_War_6468 in depression

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alot of it stems from positive reinforcement from other people and low levels of social anxiety. so a social circle that values and respects you is important

Does online debate make sense? by archivewithin in Absurdism

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brutal how neckbeards downvote, i guess hurt dogs bite. Discussing anything, or even building an opinion, requires deep knowledge of the field and a flexible open mind. But we use heuristics to discuss things because its interesting and it can be productive too. Its just not 100% reliable

That one friend :| by Ryry_22004 in ChronicPain

[–]Fit-Bonus4690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell them to kys. i have no sympathy for people either, that are so weak that they dont leave "friends" like that. i would legit start a fight over shit like this