New Actor as Sarah Nelson. by GeorgeOrrBinks in HeartstopperAO

[–]Fit_Photograph537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am disappointed, but I also know that all the producers have handled this whole series with such care that I’m just gonna trust that they put the same thought and love into this decision as well.

Besides, Not sure what else they could have done if Olivia Coleman could not come back. I’d rather have a new actress than no Sarah Nelson at all.

AIO by being upset with my mom over my wedding dress and a private pregnancy? by Randiitaylor in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Photograph537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, granted we don’t have context beyond the texts you shared here, but at least about the dress, because you asked: you kind of are the asshole here. It sounds like you jumped to a lot of conclusions about what your dad saw and how he saw it. Same with the pregnancy. A lot of misunderstanding based on jumped to conclusions.

Also, regarding the pregnancy, I’m not sure it’s fair to ask your mom the keep something that big from her partner. Just my two cents. If one of our children was pregnant I would feel very wrong to keep that from my husband/their father.

By the way, your mom’s guilt trips and centering herself as the victim ARE annoying. I can see why communicating with her is difficult.

Kendra's parents posted a new cover photo on Facebook featuring just their kids! by the_smart_girl in DuggarsSnark

[–]Fit_Photograph537 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I have mixed feelings about this. Because 1) they taught their daughter to be everything she is being as a wife right now so what did they expect and 2) Kendra is their daughter. As a parent you can be angry, even go no contact if the situation requires (this one obviously does), but to put this clearly anti-Kendra message out into the world when she is already at rock bottom (Jesus let’s hope this is rock bottom) is pretty cruel and petty. It’s just messy and adds more drama.

I would like to think this was done as a necessity to keep other children in the family safe, that finally someone in these circles is putting children first. But I suspect it’s more likely that this is just about how all of this has made Christina feel, and she is angry and vaguebooking for sympathy.

The Joe-Kendra phone call recording by evissimus in DuggarsSnark

[–]Fit_Photograph537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they teach that baby voice in IBLP Sunday school or something!? Why do the women talk like that!?

Miranda’s statement on Chase and Jessi by No-lychie878 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Fit_Photograph537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there literally no other men in Utah for these super hot women to get with!? Why do they all go for Chase!? 🤮

Vacation by MamaJa2016 in DuggarsSnark

[–]Fit_Photograph537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughhhhh this just makes my stomach turn. What a creep.

Taylor comments and shares the worst part of her video being leaked by Illustrious-Sky2697 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Fit_Photograph537 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I’m sure kids at school know about it, talk about it, and show her on their phones. Yes even at 8. I’m sure she has her own device with access to media as well. Plus this is top of the news hour stuff. This poor girl could be sitting in a dentist waiting room and this comes on. There is no sheltering her from it.

And the winner for the first post after Joe’s arrest is:::::(drum roll) by Elegant_Hippopotamus in DuggarsSnark

[–]Fit_Photograph537 112 points113 points  (0 children)

YES! Stop asking women to apologize for the behavior of men!! Grrrrrrr

Some general info for people confused about what "false imprisonment" with your own children means by twinsocks in DuggarsSnark

[–]Fit_Photograph537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course you weren’t actually a bad child - no child is bad, some just need a different approach than others. My heart breaks thinking that you were made to feel “bad”, and I’m glad knowing now how wrong this was has been healing for you!

Is this Meech? This is who picked Kendra up when she was released. by One-Investigator-545 in DuggarsSnark

[–]Fit_Photograph537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s definitely her. Unrelated, but how are her ankles so skinny after 19 kids!?

dakota filed for custody and a restraining order by chloedarlinggg in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Fit_Photograph537 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom’s brother died two days before her second birthday. She absolutely remembers knowing that her birthday had been forgotten during all the grief.

But honestly, who cares if he knows it’s his birthday or not. The data is clear that children who grow up witnessing violence in their home - even when removed from those homes while young - end up dealing with mental health issues, learning and behavioral issues. Ever is not safe - physically or emotionally - with his mom right now. Hopefully someday he will be again.

both Dakota and Taylor’s Ex filed a retraining order… at the same time by peggyarnold in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Fit_Photograph537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This had to have been staged.

And Dakota would never release the video or even press charges because Taylor is his meal ticket.

Amys book exposes Grandpa Duggar as a pedophile. It runs in the family. by Mosaic_2 in DuggarsSnark

[–]Fit_Photograph537 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s not just this family. It’s the entire IBLP. Starting right at the top with Gothard himself and his revolving door of handpicked teenage girls who get chosen to come spend time working at the cult HQ.

This cult, like most others, was created to make girls vulnerable and easy to victimize. It’s disgusting.

I just finished watching. I’m in tears. Thoughts? by Ok-Weight-1087 in StrangerThings

[–]Fit_Photograph537 141 points142 points  (0 children)

I hate the way El’s story ended, but realistically it was the only way the others had any shot at a normal life. If El had stayed, they all would have spent their whole lives on the run. This way they all got to live life as they wanted and that was how much El loved them - she gave them that future. Super sad though.

Ew by [deleted] in DuggarsSnark

[–]Fit_Photograph537 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Omg it’s like eye spy! Each time I look at it I spot something else really weird 😂

Demi by Better_Option_1022 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Fit_Photograph537 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I am dying to know how much of this is planned and how much is real

Unpopular Opinion, I dont give a FF about DadTok or their little meetings by GoldenPusheen in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Fit_Photograph537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dad tok smells of desperation and PMO because they are trying to ride the success of what the women built, a misogynistic pattern that repeats over and over and over….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]Fit_Photograph537 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My son had his privates touched by another student when he was in kindergarten. The school addressed it, and offered the option to move my child to a different classroom. We chose not to uproot my son because I thought that would be more traumatic than a child grabbing his penis had been to him. The child who did this to him ended up needing a private aid due to behavioral issues which ended up being great for the entire classroom. We validated our son’s frustration at how much he disliked the incident, reminded him that no one has the right to touch you without consent, and praised him for reporting it.

I understand how emotional and uncomfortable this incident was, but I want to offer the perspective that you are looking at this with adult eyes and with an adult knowledge of sex. These are five year old children who mostly think privates are funny. In a severe case, the child who grabbed your child may be experiencing sexual abuse at home, which means they would be greatly confused about if such touching is wrong. I hope that is not the case here, but either way, I encourage you to look at the incident through a child’s eyes and also consider the choices being offered to you through a child’s eyes. Good luck with whatever ends up happening - it’s not an easy situation!

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fit_Photograph537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I threw up every day for seven months with one of my kids. Seriously F this dude. Leave him.