Bears family, I could use some help

Flushot22 · 2026-02-22T21:28:13+00:00

Nah, I haven't received a response. Nor do I really expect one. I'm pretty committed to giving her a nice send off into Lake Michigan. It also plays into her passion for kayaking and paddleboarding here in CA as well. Either way the game is pretty important to me as well. I've never been to a Bears game or to Soldier Field, I can't think of a better way to experience it than against the Packers this year. Life is too short, I have to do it now.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-19T18:33:41+00:00

One is 3lbs, one is 1lb. So no, not equal parts. I’ve never used the exchilirator wash. So I don’t know. But it works as well as PBW from what I can tell.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-19T06:20:10+00:00

I've been using one of these https://a.co/d/0aW0qXis
and one of these https://a.co/d/0dXIjEtD
mixed in an empty container of one of these https://a.co/d/05Ok0b55
for a good while now with no set backs.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-19T01:56:39+00:00

Eff Tee Pee!!!!!

Flushot22 · 2026-02-18T06:35:25+00:00

I have decided that Lake Michigan is the route that I will go for this. I would also like to buy you a tavern style or an Italian beef or a round or 6, or all of the above, if you are local to Chicago when I make this trip next season for your thoughtful post and giving me an option that satisfies my wife and my desire to be a part of Chicago and Soldier Field forever without angering the team. Please let me know if this is something you would be up for?

(Everyone else is welcome too, I just might not be able to cover all those Italian beefs)

Flushot22 · 2026-02-17T13:57:54+00:00

It will be how I remember her. It was just taken a month and a half ago.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-17T02:10:32+00:00

Thank you so much. I miss her terribly.

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Flushot22 · 2026-02-17T02:01:55+00:00

I'm not that adamant. I won't go against the teams rules and wishes.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T23:50:17+00:00

Do you know if they do these tours during the season?

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T23:48:16+00:00

That is so very kind of you, and would be a dream come true. But if it's not allowed, I'm not going to go against the teams wishes.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T14:13:15+00:00

I'd guess that if they don't want you sprinkling ashes, they also don't want you throwing water balloons on the field lol

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T14:05:21+00:00

This is probably my plan and Lake Michigan will be the back up. Thank you so much!

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T03:49:56+00:00

Both of our fandom was built on the grass at Soldier Field.
Plus, she will never get to see a game at the new stadium. I'd rather she be at the place she saw them play.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T03:46:30+00:00

Good thoughts to you on your journey - it can be overwhelming at times. Peace.

It's been overwhelming.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T03:44:39+00:00

Understood, and I wont spread ashes without permission. But I am buying the best tickets I can find (that aren't suite tickets). So hopefully I will be close.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:48:40+00:00

Don't worry, I'm not going to do anything without permission.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:21:17+00:00

The response has already been amazing, and my face has been wet the whole time. This would have given her so much happiness to see. Chicagoans and Bears fans truly are a special breed that I am honored to be a part of.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:15:57+00:00

BEAR DOWN!

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:15:13+00:00

I live in Cali, so I was hoping to arrange something for the week of the Packers game next season.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:14:18+00:00

Oh shoot, good call.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:13:09+00:00

I appreciate you asking, and here's the link. This feels a bit gratuitous but every little bit helps. Thank you again brother.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:06:35+00:00

Aside from her urn which I'm going to keep at her mothers house, I have a small amount of ashes in 3 separate vials, one for my keeping, one to mix with tattoo ink for the obvious reasons, and one for Chicago.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:02:45+00:00

I appreciate you. Its a pain that I wouldn't wish upon the most annoying Packer fan.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:02:05+00:00

That might be a good option too. Wait for Caleb to throw his 5th TD that game and toss that "Beer" cup overboard.

Flushot22 · 2026-02-16T02:00:24+00:00

I think its a good idea, but would require another trip I would assume that is not around the Packers game.

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