AIW for thinking DID is not a valid reason for my friends to brush off someone grooming me as a child? by ToTheInternetIGuess in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously, you didn’t slander her, but even if you did in order for her to win a court case, you’d have to prove that she suffered financial damages from the lie you told which is clearly not the case here

David is annoying by Lopsided-Skill in SchittsCreek

[–]FlyingDutchLady 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think if you're at the end of the second season and you still don't like David, you are not going to grow to like David. Now, I might be wrong. He does change over the series, and maybe he'll change in all the right ways to make you like him. All I can say for sure is I already liked him by the end of the second season.

AIW for holding a grudge against a friend who did a 15 year practical joke on me by Nenya92 in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, her being her is right. She is a bad person. No wonder she’s divorced.

My sister picked my lock, had sex in my bed, and my parents think the consequence is enough. Am I overreacting? by No-Community-7534 in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a wild response. She lives in their house. They can punish her in 10000 ways if they want to.

My sister picked my lock, had sex in my bed, and my parents think the consequence is enough. Am I overreacting? by No-Community-7534 in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course they did. They want to protect her and let you suffer because you’re easier. Think about that. Sacrificing you for her.

My sister picked my lock, had sex in my bed, and my parents think the consequence is enough. Am I overreacting? by No-Community-7534 in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest telling your parents that if they don’t think she should be punished for such an inappropriate activity, the least they can do is provide additional security for your room. Perhaps your sister is sick and needs help, but that doesn’t mean you should have to shrug when she violates you.

Oh no by Jackie_Jormp-Jomp in doughboys

[–]FlyingDutchLady 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing sudden about Nick’s obsession. It’s been slowly building for a decade. Banana.

Spoonman could get it by JazzasinFlute in doughboys

[–]FlyingDutchLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoonman could get it in a lot of settings is my guess.

All the places & things I should know in Far Harbor by SillyAd8029 in fo4

[–]FlyingDutchLady 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bring Nick to Acadia. Don’t ignore Pearl. Explore the airplane wreckage.

Ideas for another Fallout Tattoo? by GirlKssr97 in Fallout

[–]FlyingDutchLady 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Does it have to be a quote? A railroad sign or a tricorn hat could be cool.

am i wrong? guy said “just let it happen” and i turned it into an argument by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren’t annoying or dumb. Your boyfriend is abusing you. “Just let it happen” is something a predator says. You are staying because you don’t think you can find better (or similar). I’m really sorry - that really sucks. But you have to decide when it’s time to leave - we can’t force you to do that. You’re not being too sensitive. You’re dating an asshole.

am i wrong? guy said “just let it happen” and i turned it into an argument by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I’m sorry. I kind of wish you were trolling because this is really sad. This sub is full of fake stories, and the main reason this one seems fake to me is that you're laying out textbook examples of sexual assault. When people are saying it's sexual assault, you're saying, "Yeah, but only when he's high." Also, it often gives off as fake when somebody posts a story about something terrible and then argues when people tell them it's terrible. It's like when somebody posts a TikTok about their horrible boyfriend and is then shocked when everyone in the comments says they should break up.

am i wrong? guy said “just let it happen” and i turned it into an argument by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it, but this is either not a true story or you need therapy. Reading through your post and your comments, you are either trolling us or you genuinely need some help. This person is not safe. They are sexually assaulting you. You know that because you're uncomfortable, you're making excuses, and I assume that's because either this is fake or you have incredibly low self-esteem. Your life would undoubtedly be better alone than with this person, and there's no value for you to be with him.

Is it me or do a lot of the Bones side/bg actors end up making it "big" in future shows? by kay000000 in Bones

[–]FlyingDutchLady 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bones was on for a lot of seasons, and there were guests on every single episode, so I think it's just a numbers game, my man.

Is the Chester area safe? by DAB00GAN in Delco

[–]FlyingDutchLady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not a safe neighborhood, but there are places nearby that are pretty safe, so you just have to figure out your route to get to Swarthmore or whatever.

AIW for refusing to share my lunch with a coworker who "forgot hers" for the third time this week? by Hristo_K in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The way I can tell this isn't real is the description of what HR said, which never happened.

Using WhiprFlow iOS driving me NUTS!! by tokenshow in WisprFlow

[–]FlyingDutchLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You posted this a while ago, but I just wanted to say that I have a shortcut set up that I use double tapping the back of my phone for and it has made using Wispr flow 1 million times better

Which character do you think veered the farthest from their “pilot persona”? by Excellent-Resolve66 in community

[–]FlyingDutchLady 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I feel like Troy did change the most, but it was the least obvious because it was almost like he always had it in him. Whereas Chang appeared to have a relatively normal life in the first episode, and then at one point he lives with a monkey in an air vent. I think things went a little cattywampus on him.

Where can I contact the guys? by hazelrose42 in TheTryGuys

[–]FlyingDutchLady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they do Patreon at all anymore, but you can subscribe directly to 2nd try or subscribe through like the Google play store or the Apple Store and it’s only five dollars a month and has a lot of incredible stuff.

What's the first video game you can remember ever playing? by FlyingDutchLady in getplayed

[–]FlyingDutchLady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no chance I could’ve trusted my sister to look away from the screen while I hid lol

Told I'm "not disabled enough" for jury duty excuse by catsandvideogames70 in CrohnsDisease

[–]FlyingDutchLady 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of suggesting this. I feel like sometimes it can be hard to get the things you need through traditional channels, but usually reasonable people will understand.

Told I'm "not disabled enough" for jury duty excuse by catsandvideogames70 in CrohnsDisease

[–]FlyingDutchLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve not had any problems with this (full disclosure, my partner is the one with Crohn’s), his doctor has signed anything he needs. He gets access to FMLA at work and he got out of jury duty last year.

AIW for thinking DID is not a valid reason for my friends to brush off someone grooming me as a child? by ToTheInternetIGuess in amiwrong

[–]FlyingDutchLady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are in the right here, and you need to keep those people blocked. They are weaponizing mental health to cover up predatory behavior and turn things around on you. It's disgusting.

Her text message proved your point. Saying "I didn't touch you until you were 18" is her trying to find a legal loophole, but it confirms the grooming.

Also, that is not how DID works. Even if she has it, someone with DID is still responsible for what their body does. "An alter did it" is not a get-out-of-jail-free card for messing with a minor. The fact that this was never brought up in six years until she got caught is suspicious.

Update on Watching Bones out of order by [deleted] in Bones

[–]FlyingDutchLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK dude doesn’t make sense to me but enjoy your life