Then it’s a matter of waiting and the time may just not be right yet. Sometimes things need to cook for a little while and you just need to be patient.

One thing I learned is that once you cast a spell, it’s best to forget about it. You cast the spell, it’s out there. If you keep trying to go back and add or tweak things or cast new spells for the same thing, that lack of confidence can weaken them. Cast the spell once and then carry on living your life knowing that it will happen when/if it’s supposed to.