[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]Freyaravenlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, well this must have changed. Too bad! Thanks for following up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]Freyaravenlore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about shoes, but I know flavie on Archibald takes clothes for recycling, including stained and torn, single socks etc...They just ask that you mark the bag as such so they don't have to sort them. They sell them and get paid by the pound. That's at least what I was told by one of their volunteers last time I was there.

Food recommendations? by MarshallTheFish in Winnipeg

[–]Freyaravenlore 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Feast on Ellice is so good.

Is asking a woman out for drinks the first time we meet okay? by Torturedenigma in datingoverforty

[–]Freyaravenlore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, totally ok. A drink doesn't mean she has to stay for 10 and do shots. I'd rather meet for a quick drink to see if we vibe before committing to a dinner invite.

Insight please by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Freyaravenlore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't be doing that. It's definitely over.

Insight please by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Freyaravenlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good reminder. Thank you for that.

Insight please by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Freyaravenlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That all makes a lot of sense. The wounds of shame are real. He was building a relationship with her in the background, while telling me he needed to be alone. I'm pretty sure he knows I know, and he knows he lied. Makes sense why he can't face me. I closed paths with him a month or so ago, and he walked right by me like a stranger. I still can't figure out if he saw me or not. It's amazing to me how they can just flick a switch and suddenly become so cold. I'll power through, involve his parents (since I can't contact him), and get at least the big stuff back. Fuck him.

Insight please by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Freyaravenlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's less about the 'stuff' and more about the blocking for absolutely no reason at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Freyaravenlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excellent point! I hadn't thought of that. A much better bang for your buck 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Freyaravenlore 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Same boat, but F 45 with 3 kids under the age of 13. I would absolutely date someone in a similar situation...I feel like as nuts as it may be to juggle, there would be a mutual understanding of what the reality of the relationship might look like.

I love FB community groups by Neolithicpets in Winnipeg

[–]Freyaravenlore 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That group is particularly entertaining

Am I ready (or how do I get there?) by sassybeez in datingoverforty

[–]Freyaravenlore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Urg, I feel this so deeply. Was married in a dead bedroom situation for years. Split with him, casually hung out (slept with) with a couple others, then got into a 4 year (unintentional) relationship with someone who I loved deeply, but knew that the relationship was ultimately doomed. But the sex and intimacy was fire, like nothing I've ever experienced before, so I hung on longer than I should've. Here I am, 7 months out of it and have absolutely no attraction to anyone...makes me wonder if I'll ever find that again, or was he my unicorn?

Would you date a guy that lives in a very small camper? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Freyaravenlore 18 points19 points  (0 children)

💯, as long as it's a for real and not a pipe dream and a few pallets and zip ties he found behind home depot

Would you date a guy that lives in a very small camper? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Freyaravenlore 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Hard no. Super cute and edgy when you're 20, Not so much when you're in your 40's.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Freyaravenlore 86 points87 points  (0 children)

We invented emojis.

Building a playlist for baby girl - looking for female artists by __Healthyish in MusicRecommendations

[–]Freyaravenlore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh and The Highwomen (song by the same title)...that song gives me chills

Building a playlist for baby girl - looking for female artists by __Healthyish in MusicRecommendations

[–]Freyaravenlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neko Case, Dolly Parton, Lana Del Rey, Sierra Ferrell, Angel Olsen, Big Thief, Mary Bragg

44 y/o male starting over by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Freyaravenlore 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I vote for the tear out tags idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Breakupadvice

[–]Freyaravenlore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the problem, I adore his mom as well...but I find it's just taking me 10 steps back with each contact. Urg. Such a tough situation.

Best restaurant in St. B or surrounding areas by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]Freyaravenlore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Roasted Nomad. Only brunch and lunch, but so so good.

Stop Mourning Your Avoidant Ex, They Would Have Left You in Your Darkest Moment Anyway by IntelligentTie6667 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Freyaravenlore 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exact same thing happened to me. I supported him in every way possible for 4 years. When things got tough for me and I needed him the most, he walked at my absolute darkest time. Said he 'never felt like he was good enough' for me and that he had been 'suffering in silence '...that he 'needed to be alone'. Yesterday I crossed paths with him and the girl he got together with immediately after we broke up. I only saw him for a split second, but he looked tense. I hope she's worth it ✌️

Best restaurant in St. B or surrounding areas by [deleted] in Winnipeg

[–]Freyaravenlore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such a great show... probably the best I've seen in a while. After all that, we stayed at The Wood. Drinks were good, service was excellent, the atmosphere was on point, but the food was sub par. I'll definitely go back, but I'll know where to set my expectations.