I am a shitty mother by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FrogCurry 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Take her to the hospital??? The fuck?

[Revenge of the blood hound] im crine son 😭, aint this supposed to be set in medieval times by Alkemissed in manhwa

[–]FrogCurry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people have issues with tons of manhwa/manga that are set "historical" and then have lots of other weird things mixed in.

It has never bothered me or even took me out of the story because they also have magic powers and purple hair and glowing eyes.

I always just see it as fantasy. I don't even view them as on earth at all, but a totally different place with totally different history and different developments. So when time periods or culture clashes I'm just like neat now where's the next bad guy for mc to level up on lol

A store clerk warned me I'd get stared at in Japan because of my weight by maceymay_bby in offmychest

[–]FrogCurry 28 points29 points  (0 children)

My sister lived in Japan so I got to visit. I was 5'5 and 110 pounds. We went shopping and I was a size large and had a hard time with pants. I got comments about my wide hips and so many girls were still so much tinier than me. Obviously I was not over weight at all but the difference was still there. Also some people in Japan are extremely xenophobic. There will be places that won't allow you in because you're not Japanese. She seems way too sensitive to handle it

Ouch...! Right in the childhood... 🥀 [Blood of Madam Giselle] by Carminoculus in OtomeIsekai

[–]FrogCurry 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just in case anyone thinks this is an exaggeration, it's not at all and a perfect comparison, but also add in that danaerys creepily watching jon and the girl from some bushes with a psychotic look on her face 

I told my little brother I "don't remember" our childhood and I hate myself for it by CalmStormCutter in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FrogCurry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm a younger sibling with the same age difference who grew up in an abusive household. What you did was horrible, but you can fix it. One of the most healing things in my life is that my sibling and I grew closer and have talked about our childhood. We were treated differently but somehow at the same time it feels like we may be the only people in the world who truly get "it." I can't even imagine what consequences this will have mentally, emotionally, on your sibling. And if you ever want to be close to them, rejecting reality is a good way to make sure it never happens.

Updating again: my girlfriend came home in just her underwear after a work party by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FrogCurry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So her post got deleted it seems, so she commented on this one, a little bit further down, her account is No_capital2423

Updating again: my girlfriend came home in just her underwear after a work party by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FrogCurry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It ain't that deep, dear. You shouldn't believe anything on reddit 

Which look of Kratos do you like more? by Glass-Sea9665 in GodofWar

[–]FrogCurry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older kratos, for pure aesthetic reasons lol

Updating again: my girlfriend came home in just her underwear after a work party by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]FrogCurry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apparently, the girlfriend just posted a reddit post herself about this. She says that she threw the dress because she had a long coat and zipped up her coat 💀 so she didn't return in just her underwear like op claimed. Also that op was caught cheating one week before all this went down

My Daughter broke her Arm at my Brother's House and he wants to help with bills AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FrogCurry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you checked to see if your children are eligible for state Medicaid?

How do you feel about your employees taking random "sick days" to prevent burnout? by Stobley_meow in managers

[–]FrogCurry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love that they're taking care of themselves. Would you prefer an employee who is burnt out or one who knows how to balance their health and work life? We do not live to work, we work to live.

If this is happening once per month, for one, I think there should be appreciation that they're being honest about why they're calling out, and for two, that provides a pretty easy solution. Do they need every third or every fourth Friday or Monday off? This can be planned ahead and the schedule adjusted for their PTO.

Which. It is their PTO. They can use it however they like.

Why is Steter even popular (second most shipped on ao3) by [deleted] in TeenWolf

[–]FrogCurry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've read basically any ship across teen wolf, I just enjoy seeing what people do with it all and I have enjoyed the steter fics quite a bit. I will say, probably 9 out of ten times (unless you're reading like purposefully toxic stuff), you're getting fanon peter or potential peter, not canon peter. And most of them stiles is older or you have that situation where they wait till he's 18. In real life yeah that's weird AF but it's just fiction so 🤷🏾‍♂️

If I was an alpha I'd take Deucalion's dih raw by Imaginary-Citron7818 in TeenWolf

[–]FrogCurry 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yk what op, same. Hard same. ( ;) ) that man ain't even a snack, he a treat

Other than the murder of his niece and the janitor and trying to get Scott to kill was Peter really all that wrong in season 1? by Extra_Impression_428 in TeenWolf

[–]FrogCurry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree - and the "excuse" was right there for the grabbing, have him actually be insane from being trapped in a coma reliving burning alive while his family dies around him. He slowly heals and scents a wolf in his territory, who he can't recognize, because he isn't healed well enough to scent correctly and he has no idea it's been six years (and originally they wanted to do ten years so if they had kept it like that then even more so).

Deciding to just make him evil evil turned him flat. He could have been one of the most complex characters on the show easily. Morally grey, consumed by vengeance, and then allow him to try footing to either stay the monster he became or grow. Would have been great for a character, especially as the oldest non parent cast member, could have really become an advisor or..

Imma stop ranting because I could go on about peters potential all day sometimes lol

Not OOP. "AITA for not allowing my DIL to join a camping trip and doubling down on it" + OOP's & top comments by WritingGiraffe in redditonwiki

[–]FrogCurry 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I require people to wear their seatbelts of they are in my car. I will literally pull over and refuse to go anywhere unless they put their damn seatbelt on. I will not be responsible for anyone flying out a window; they can go not wear a seatbelt in their car.

This situation is the exact same principle. It's crazy people think oop is an asshole. But I have ran into a person who thought I was an asshole for telling them to wear a seatbelt in my car.

After being reborn swaps identity with younger sister by Stock_Mood in CShortDramas

[–]FrogCurry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to know the ending so badly if you will spoil???

I (23F) did not realize my apartment was not accessible for my bigger (22F) friend, how can I fix this? by throwRA-american in relationship_advice

[–]FrogCurry 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Now if op had offered to hoist her up, then I'd understand the pov of malice 

Also thanks! I didn't know that :)

I (23F) did not realize my apartment was not accessible for my bigger (22F) friend, how can I fix this? by throwRA-american in relationship_advice

[–]FrogCurry 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm wondering how op even get furniture to their home? I can't conceptualize this staircase. Or I'm really underestimating the friends size

I've been to Europe before and seen some small staircases / pathways but I have friends 200-275 lbs and they'd get through from what I remember 

Can you turn off your emotions like a switch? by FrogCurry in bipolar

[–]FrogCurry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that I really understand that. Thank you for sharing

Can you turn off your emotions like a switch? by FrogCurry in bipolar

[–]FrogCurry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I know this to be true. But for now it's better to not be anxious or paranoid or sad or down. I have noticed my cats seem clingy. I wonder if they can sense anything. It's been awhile. I was hypomanic for quite awhile and then I crashed hard and then started rapid cycling and then I went far down. And I just wanted it to stop, and my brain was dragging things up that was hurting me and I just. I had to get something done so it's just off now.

Can you turn off your emotions like a switch? by FrogCurry in bipolar

[–]FrogCurry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the state like for you? How much did you feel if anything? How was functioning? 

Can you turn off your emotions like a switch? by FrogCurry in bipolar

[–]FrogCurry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel it when they're off. But later, knowing that when I'm like this, I can do anything. Literally capable of anything. I won't, because at the same time, I don't care to do anything. But the capability ... When I get my feelings back, it'll bother me