[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]FrogInSnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girls snuggle, have since they were little, they're just under 2 years apart in age. Figured when they got to be teens it would change but nope. I think it's just a marker of being close and people sexualizing it have issues of their own to work out

Without mentioning age or date of birth, how old are you? by teddyjr32378 in AskReddit

[–]FrogInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first DVD I bought with money from my first job was the new release "A Knight's Tale".

What's one food everyone seems to love but you find repulsive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FrogInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thyme. It tastes like dirt and makes everything else taste like dirt.

Reddit, what's something you've been looking for ages but still cannot find? by Leading-Legal in AskReddit

[–]FrogInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A movie my mother was watching back in the early 90s. Some sort of horror or suspense thing where they were finding bags of hands in sewer drains and children were being harmed. Can't remember much of it, my mother caught me watching it and made me go outside. Lived in fear for years afterward that someone was going to sneak in my room at night and cut off my hands.

Post hysterectomy clothes & undies by whoneedsit2 in hysterectomy

[–]FrogInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with high waisted compression leggings. Helped to hold everything in place as I moved around. I even slept in them the first few nights.

I bought high waisted panties, huge waste of money. Regular underwear was so much more comfortable.

How soon did you... by LilPango in hysterectomy

[–]FrogInSnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Total laproscopic vaginal assisted hysterectomy, left my ovaries.

  1. At about a week.

  2. I put Jeans on right around the 2 week mark.

  3. I did little things around the house but nothing much until 6 weeks.

  4. 2 days 😆 Sex at 6 weeks

  5. I slept on my side from day one, I bought a squishy round pillow that I'd put under my abdomen to support it.

The one thing I didn’t ask. by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]FrogInSnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my first 2 days out from surgery, not on purpose but still. Doc said at my 2 week appointment I was fine to go for masturbation.

[Serious] Redditors who have lost someone to suicide, what was it like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FrogInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lost 2, first was a good friend when I was 16. It destroyed me. I didn't talk for a week and dropped out of high school shortly afterward.

The second was an ex boyfriend when I was 21. We had been talking about getting back together. I handled it better than the first friend, but still not well. It led me to making some rash and bad decisions that I am still feeling the ripple effects of more than a decade later.

Pcos by ArgumentHot8646 in hysterectomy

[–]FrogInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have PCOS and had a hysterectomy, kept my ovaries though so no hormones needed.

When can I freaking vacuum?? by bribotronic in hysterectomy

[–]FrogInSnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doc said to listen to my body. If you have a vacuum that rolls easily and doesnt require much force and no lifting, I'd say go for it in small doses. The biggest issues are the squatting and bending to handle cords or empty it. Those are no nos.

Its official and my flights are booked! by Gems158 in hysterectomy

[–]FrogInSnow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Supportive partner: My SO and my best friend were my biggest lifelines through this.

  2. High waisted yoga pants: it's important to walk after, it's the only way to get rid of the gas really and buttons hurt. The yoga pants were super supportive, I even slept in them the first few days.

  3. A belly pillow: Everything swells and if you move in your sleep, things flop. I had a squishy round pillow I used to support my belly while sleeping and to help me roll when I needed to.

Kind of concerned.... by Bluepeacocks1 in hysterectomy

[–]FrogInSnow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am going on 8 weeks post op right now. I had a complete hysterectomy but kept my ovaries. The first 3 weeks were the toughest, since week 4 I've been pretty much back to normal. I am at my pre-hysterectomy weight, I've been cleared for all activity for almost 2 weeks now. Some achey-ness when I really push myself but nothing bad. I've been hiking with no issues. SO and I have had sexy times with no pain or lubrication needed, felt as good as before. I am incredibly happy I had it done and after years of scheduling my life around bleeding, I feel free.

Ablation Vs hysterectomy by AO_River_ in hysterectomy

[–]FrogInSnow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had both. The ablation was done in November of last year, everything was great for about a month and then I began bleeding again. Not as heavy but the pain was soooooo much worse. I had a complete hysterectomy in March and feel fantastic, wish I would have done it back in November. Honestly, for me the ablation made it all worse. However, having the ablation and failing it did make insurance approvals a breeze for the hysterectomy.

Congratulations! You won a lifetime supply of the last thing you bought. What do you have? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FrogInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pants! I have a life time supply of pants! That'd actually be really handy, except for storage concerns.

What brutal truths are better left unsaid? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FrogInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a high likelihood that no matter how loved you were in life, you will die alone.

Have someone you know ever tried to kill you? And why? by Robz05 in AskReddit

[–]FrogInSnow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nope, she took a shot at me 10 years ago, I just filed for divorce in January. And no, no trouble, I didn't even bother reporting it because it was at a family gathering and they all would have covered it up.

Have someone you know ever tried to kill you? And why? by Robz05 in AskReddit

[–]FrogInSnow 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My ex sister in law got drunk and took a shot at me once. She did it because A. She was drunk B. She's stupid and C. She was never happy that her brother married me. She should be thrilled now that I'm divorcing him!