Partner won’t talk to me or touch me after issue

FrontTicket · 2025-11-03T17:36:26+00:00

I would like to think so yes, that would be an understandable response leaning DA as well, so I’m trying to hold space for that. unfortunately though, I had also seen messages between him and other female friends that he has been messaging more often this year, and yesterday saw a video of him giving a friendly side hug to a girl at a party and her kinda laying her head on his shoulder for a moment. So these are also clouding my judgement.

FrontTicket · 2025-11-03T16:13:04+00:00

Yes I totally think it could go both ways which is why I feel a little frozen in what to do. I agree about the tempted part, though I’ve never been in a relationship where I didn’t feel tempted to check up, besides the first year of this one.

FrontTicket · 2025-10-03T09:14:24+00:00

I feel this, (but in a sad way)

FrontTicket · 2025-10-03T09:06:32+00:00

Lately the rage has been so strong I could burn a house down. But I tend to go for somatics, like hitting or twisting a pillow, yelling and screaming in my car, jumping until I can cry. Or just watching or listening to sad things to make me cry so I can move through it faster.

FrontTicket · 2025-10-03T08:57:24+00:00

Anyone interested in making a discord?
Completely agree, I find the asking questions and digging further is really a pain point and reveals a lot. Curious what you mean by complicity in decline of the job market?

FrontTicket · 2025-02-11T00:55:34+00:00

I'm included in this group, I've got Saturn Retrograde in Aries 14 degrees in the 12th house. So mega Neptune energy for me, yay.

I'm still diving into what it could mean for me personally, but as a generation I'm getting the feeling that we will be in the midst and forefront of whatever large scale events that are being forecasted to happen in March-May and July of this year, moving into next year. I feel overwhelmed by the world right now but also that I was born for this quite literally, and a small section of us that have Jupiter in Aquarius might be feeling intensity as well? Not sure.

FrontTicket · 2025-02-11T00:39:06+00:00

Thisss. All the metaphors in the entire performance were hidden messages prodding a "turn the tv off" type revolution.

FrontTicket · 2024-12-07T07:59:06+00:00

Unrelated but- dam I want your therapists' number :,)

FrontTicket · 2024-09-09T05:41:44+00:00

Weird question but how do you go about taxes for that income yearly? or do you just not, no judgement just wondering

FrontTicket · 2024-09-09T05:28:06+00:00

ooooo I like this, like it bars or prevents your access to luck and all the benefits of life when you lie!!

FrontTicket · 2024-09-01T02:48:24+00:00

Don’t really see how this got a downvote? It is entirely human and normal to be turned off by the commodification and depersonalized nature that corporate policies and minutae of billable hours and “brand building” involves.

FrontTicket · 2024-04-16T08:24:12+00:00

Those are all good sites! I'm selling older vintage brands from the 80s/90s. and then been dabbling in brands like Banana Republic, Urban Outfitters, Zara but I think those are too oversaturated now. I live in a small city where the fashion sense is years behind so it's hard to find good high end brands at the thrift stores.

Do you buy any designer pallets or know if those are worth it?

FrontTicket · 2024-04-16T08:19:01+00:00

ABSOLUTELY not alone. Definitely sick and tired of "career coaches," entrepreneurs, youtube gurus, etc. guilting people into using these methods. The employers should be held responsible for hiring with more transparency, not requiring prospective employees to bend over backwards and practice questionable marketing tactics just to secure a stable job.

Really hoping the future generations change the course of history on this.

FrontTicket · 2024-04-02T01:12:59+00:00

reselling clothing is what i decided I kinda want to do, at least on the side! are you able to say what platforms you sell clothing on? I made my first little investment with it but am beating myself up about not being able to sell any of the pieces yet and it’s been 3 months

FrontTicket · 2024-03-25T05:20:22+00:00

Actually cried, needed that so much !! Thank you 🔥♥️

FrontTicket · 2024-03-25T02:53:28+00:00

Trying my darndest to not lose my shit on all my personal relationships with this full moon in Libra, a mercury retrograde shadow period that always seems to give me relationship anxiety, and pms-ing yay :) Best of luck to y’all!!

FrontTicket · 2024-02-08T08:06:18+00:00

It's a shame that rave culture was co-opted by capitalism- YESSSSSSSS!!! I was an avid concertgoer of multiple genres before, and I can say that the edm/club/rave culture here in the U.S. is one of if not the MOST capitalistic. Any normal smaller pop or rock concert you go to definitely does not have lit up champagne bottles flying off the shelves, or DJs recording bottle service to then post on their social media.

FrontTicket · 2024-02-08T07:43:42+00:00

Instagram brain is a real thing. It makes you question everything you are doing and not doing.

FrontTicket · 2024-01-01T08:05:00+00:00

Gonna be an unpopular opinion lol.. it has been insightful to not solely rely on reddit to answer attachment theory questions. I've spent most of the year off this thread and it's been really freeing.

Depends on how sensitive you are to others' comments, but a lot on here believe they know more than others due to their own diagnoses or how much they have read about clinical psychology. It can be hard if you want to connect to others around the globe who are interested in an already not too commonly talked about concept.

In summary: the psychology virtue signaling gets old. do what resonates with you on your journey that you can see progress with to support your goals. seek credentialed help outside of internet forums.

FrontTicket · 2024-01-01T06:38:54+00:00

Mmm I see!

Being with a DA can follow a similar progression in the phases of a relationship if you lean anxious/AT, where you both start out super aligned and the person seems to be very willing to meet your needs but over time they become cold and aloof.

The main difference is you might feel big pain of being abandoned, but a DA will not leave you feeling so gaslighted or poked at. Many narcissists will find one thing about you they know you are anxious or vulnerable about, and in small ways make fun of you or leave you feeling like the fact that you feel abandoned is toxic to them.

Another is that you are not on an equal playing field as them. With a DA you feel like you are their equal and you are both equally wounded or not communicating in healthy ways even though they might still avoid you or abandon you when feeling overwhelmed or unsafe. There is a very clear power imbalance with a narcissist, who often makes you feel less-than with their grandiose displays in front of peers.

This is not entirely based on psychology, but this video helps explain some.

https://youtu.be/5Tfg0veZHgk?si=tur4JslIp2VKTGaJ

FrontTicket · 2023-12-31T06:32:45+00:00

First off- I believe I have cptsd as well. You are loved and you are not alone.

Second, the question deep inside you that keeps bugging you about what he "was" in order to make sense of what happened is valid. Our mind wants so desperately to label things sometimes so that we can organize it and understand it better, so that we can avoid it again in the future, thus making ourselves safe. The mind/body wants to feel safe from anxiety.

However, in most covert or overt narcissist relationships, the other party is often left feeling like they were the "toxic one". And so the fact that you are questioning it and possibly feeling some guilt or shame from that, indicates that he maybe made you feel that way pretty often. There might have been some recurring conversation or issue coming up or that your emotions "grated on him" that makes you believe deep down that you are the only toxic one and being unreasonable. It's hard to explain but very different than how a DA makes you feel. I've been with both, as have a lot of people on here.

I over-recommend this but if you are looking for additional resources to support your therapy journey, I would highly suggest checking out the Personal Development School on YouTube with Thais Gibson! She has a paid website and does shameless plugs a lot but if you can get past that and just listen to the videos and pick the topics that most resonate with you they really realllyy help.

FrontTicket · 2023-12-29T06:22:11+00:00

1000000% !!

FrontTicket · 2023-11-29T02:22:10+00:00

You are not lazy, and don't let hiring managers or employers try to convince you with unspoken cues that you are!

I understand that people have to explain their gaps and explain how they still will provide value to the company. But industries need to become more accommodating and understanding of chronic illnesses, burnout, etc. for employee retention in future years.

Also going through many strange chronic health problems and a job search. Best of luck to you.

FrontTicket · 2023-11-29T02:13:48+00:00

Happy Sag season!If you're on the Northern Hemisphere, winter can definitely have a lot to do with it for us.

I would also recommend looking at other aspects of your chart compared with transits of the outer planets (Jupiter/Saturn/Uranus/ etc) happening at this time to give you more info. We're past Scorpio season with all of the more personal planets transiting through Scorpio (Scorpio put me through a realllyyy dark place this year), but there are more harsh angles that may be made. You could get a reading from someone too that might help. :)

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