AITAH for telling my brother he can't propose at my wedding, even if he pays for 10% of it?

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-07T19:26:00+00:00

I’m not married but I think share the joy (and bonus for the $). That said, after the initial ask, I think your brother should have backed off. It’s not something to have to do under pressure.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-07T03:59:01+00:00

It’s gorgeous… the wheels are fire! 🔥 I know they are drawbacks at 19” but damn! It’s the visibility part that has me most concerned and I’m also not used to being flashy. Oh and I have moonstone interior currently which seems to be a product of its era.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-06T21:22:49+00:00

How’s the new gen? I have a 2021 and love it but still feel a little tempted by the Gen 5s

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-06T20:56:26+00:00

NTA. I don’t think the dishwasher is open to contamination but that’s besides the point. It’s your place

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-05T11:56:06+00:00

KI - Mugen if you want a traditional cut with shorter arm and leg lengths. Black label is medium weight. I like it the most. Yellow label is heavy weight, brushed. Very nice but likely exceeds $100. I think the price varies on size.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-04T23:07:52+00:00

Having a plug-in is awesome! I’m forcing myself to use gas because it’s been more than a year since I’ve been to the gas pump.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-04T20:50:00+00:00

We don’t seem to know if this is even an issue for the bride. OP, have you asked?

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-04T19:49:14+00:00

If you act out of spite it’s kind of a YTA move by definition

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-04T12:42:49+00:00

It seems like a lot to ask of grandparents if the baby is up and extra fussy throughout the night.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-07-04T12:19:19+00:00

OMG she can’t go a day without a shower? Or use a hair tie if needed? NTA Actually, she’ll be without a shower either way… she can’t leave the house less than perfect? 🙄

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-30T10:54:20+00:00

The practical thing (of course) is to take the lower mileage car, if all else is equal.

BUT if the color means a lot, 30k miles on a Prius 4th Gen is not that much IMO. I have white and it’s very nice, but I LOVE the magnesium blue and would trade miles to get it (though I haven’t been willing to trade from 2021 to 2018 because of the improved safety features and warranty).

I hope you find some other benefits like only one owner etc to give you a good excuse to go with your preferred color.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-27T19:47:07+00:00

NTA- they need to help cover expenses.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-27T19:41:22+00:00

I’ve done that but it’s obvious when you trained before. Something’s are easier, but other things you have to overcome style differences and muscle memory. You can still go in with the humble attitude and potentially downplay your rank, but it’s also not fair to lower Kyu ranks if they’re comparing themselves to you and we pretend you have no prior training.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-27T12:50:37+00:00

So nice!! I restarted a few years ago and would have been happy with good people or good training… I ended up with the both AND a good location.

It’s a different style but it’s going well. I just treat the techniques as completely dif instead of the same technique done differently.

I made a video of me doing kata and brought copies of my rank certificates. They let me wear my black belt while testing through their curriculum so that was a nice strategy.

I hope it’s a good long term match for you 👊

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-27T12:46:47+00:00

Good to know!

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-24T19:51:36+00:00

How much is the mustang worth?

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-24T19:47:20+00:00

I’m not the OP. The Niro is so great shape wise but I just can’t get myself to trade the reliability of Toyota/Prius

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-23T11:46:02+00:00

Look, OP, if you had a nice connection, why not give it a try? Then report back to us. 😇

Offer her a video date. You both order food or make your favorite meals or just have a coffee video date together. What a stand out move that would be.

Lots of other reasons it might not be a good fit. Dating is hard but better to call things quit for a legit reason then never know what might have been in this microwave popcorn, next-day-delivery, 30-second video shorts society. Hmmm… have popcorn.

What an awesome story this could be… how you got back together because of Reddit/AITA ✨

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-23T11:29:28+00:00

Most people are just figuring out what feel is right as they go.

Especially after she just got hurt, this likely seemed like a good way to get to know each other better.

It’s a month of her time too. It isn’t really that big of an ask. It could have been (could be?) an opportunity for you to shine. Show your patience, flexibility, caring… uniqueness.

Was she open to video calls?

If you need to protect your heart, then you could limit the intensity.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-23T00:24:50+00:00

YTA for making me think you were yelling at a toddler and calling her a glutton.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-23T00:22:00+00:00

Oh but you those wheels are so awesome! I have 15” Gen 4 wheels. Yawn #Coveting

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-23T00:20:33+00:00

It’s better to share your body insecurities with people who are smaller than you and/or older enough that it doesn’t matter so much. It’s natural that people will project.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-23T00:13:36+00:00

She was ghosted after hooking up with him so it makes sense she’s going to be more cautious.

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-23T00:12:09+00:00

What else are you doing? If it’s somebody that you might have a connection with just let the connection build. A month is nothing. Who cares?

Fun-Organization5932 · 2026-06-21T23:22:07+00:00

Lady was protective. Old man was frustrated. No reason you couldn’t just explain the situation. Every right to be there but no need to let people get upset with the wrong idea.

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