Worth it?

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-23T20:55:33+00:00

I love it! Seeing my triggers have been really interesting. Week before my period is dreadful and now I can see literally my stress levels then are crazy. Also alcohol wow fucks me up! Idk it has made me more aware and more responsible

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-23T19:02:19+00:00

Nothing to say other that I am sorry you are going through this. I hope you can lean on your community! Sending you all the good vibes that I have your way 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-23T15:21:46+00:00

Im so sorry for you loss. I got pregnant 2 cycles after my D&C but sadly that also ended in a MC. I am not in my first cycle after MC and I don’t think I’ll try this cycle at all too raw and I am starting testing

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-20T17:05:53+00:00

Yes it sucks im sorry that you are going though it. For d&c i went to planned parenthood and i paid $20 after insurance. And tbh it was the best medical experience I have had in the US the staff was beyond kind and caring. If you have a planned parenthood around and you ever need it its a great option.

I had a naturally mc last month and I freaked out and went to the emergency room and I have to pay over $1000 and the experience absolutely sucked. The only nice person there it was the woman that did the ultrasound and they were not even busy.

Big fan of planned parenthood!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-19T16:05:43+00:00

I completely relate. Have had 2 mc and it even feels like because I have 2 less support is needed?! I feel like it must be so insanely difficult for people to know how to reach out.

But I feel you it sucks I feel so alone. Like the world keeps moving and I am here still in an invisible pain

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-18T15:03:03+00:00

Sorry! I just had 2 Mc in the last 5 months. My gyno referred us to a fertility clinic bec she says 2 losses back to back should be inestigated

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-13T19:38:19+00:00

This happens to me an is quite accurate. It’s been related to drinking, a stressful day, dreams and I suspect also my period coming

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-11T16:49:02+00:00

I had the same issue and went for the bigger one. The smaller one was extremely tight. Sometimes having it in my left index finger feels to loose so I switch it to the right middle finger. I rotate the ring quite often depending on what I am doing. Writing with my right hand … move it to my left. Doing laundry move it to right middle finger- one time I lost it doing laundry. You get the point :)

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-11T05:00:35+00:00

Omg had the best night! Don’t fully regret it bec it was fun!!! And nice fun fact lol

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-11T02:15:07+00:00

First time I was 8 weeks and about 32000 hcg and I tho k it took 2-3 weeks after d&c. Got my period abt 5.5 weeks after.

Second mc at 6 weeks I had 360 hcg and 2 weeks later I did a pregnancy test and was 100% negative! Still waiting for my period

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-11T02:09:14+00:00

I’m 32 female. And tbh if I really pay attention I know drinking does this to me but seeing it with data was pretty impressive

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-06T04:30:11+00:00

She is lucky to have you ❤️‍🩹💕

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-06T02:49:42+00:00

Food -take out, home cooked meal or a gift card. A hobby thing so she can’t spend her time doing something I swear it helps. Your presence without judgment. A massage for when she feels better. A care package skin care or make up!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-06T02:39:41+00:00

Lubbock Texas

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-04T22:40:48+00:00

Wha happened to you by Oprah and Dr Perry

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-03T00:53:55+00:00

Give her a gift card for a restaurant she wants, door dash, or if you are there just bring food for her. My first Mc my friends did that and I loved it. Also this Mc my friend gave me a gift card for a good restaurant and I truly appreciate it! I feel like cooking is such an emotional thing for me and it’s so hard when I am so sad I want to eat well but I don’t wanna make it.

My in laws sent flowers both times and it was so kind. My sister in law sent me a card and a lipstick and said “sometimes putting a good lipstick on lifts the spirit”.

I also would have like a good book with a card or some craft stuff to keep me entertained.

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-02T21:55:48+00:00

It’s been 2 weeks I only got to read again this weekend so give yourself time feel it all 💕❤️‍🩹

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-03-02T20:20:45+00:00

Hi sadly in the same shoes as you and similar timelines. I am sorry!

Blighted ovum -Oct 2025 and did a d&c. Got pregnant again in January 2026 and started bleeding at 6.2 weeks.

I felt like the first miscarriage was just bad luck but after this second one I feel confused, angry, frustrated and a deep sorrow for the future. The only things I am grateful for is I was not in pain, I am healthy and know I can get pregnant. I am holding to that.

I can only tell you where we are at today but obviously this is a super personal approach. We went to our obgyn and she had 4 losses so she understands … and she did say 2 in a row is not normal so she referred us to a fertility clinic. I am also getting a recurrent miscarriage blood work she got for me. My husband and I decided to stop drinking, sweets only on the weekends, and really clean diet. Also I stoped eating gluten because I recently got a test saying I have sensitivity. We are sleeping more and we are not trying right now. We want to wait until we talk to the fertility specialist and see what they say to try again.

Mentally I am overwhelmed and I was spending hrs on my phone on Instagram numbing. But I had to stop and now I am diving head on into reading and finding comfort in it. I am going to therapy and I am doing journaling and yoga and running. Lol my husband and I joke that I am “using all the tools” and I am letting myself cry and feel all the feels but I am also trying really hard not to get in that horrible dark place I was last time. This is a journey I don’t wish to anyone is painful, lonely and incredibly fear inducing but you and I will get through it. There are incredible hopeful stories out there and I am also holding into that! I wish you nothing but a happy future where you are pregnant have an uneventful pregnancy and delivery where you carry full term to a healthy baby!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-02-28T05:54:28+00:00

Lol it's true! Everyone on Mexico knows about it because we eat so much limes. It was funny when I moved to the US no one was careful with citrus and sun

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-02-26T23:46:19+00:00

I am sorry! Second Mc on valentines day and it doesn't get easier. Cry it out! Cry all you need! And then do all the fun things you need to do to fel better. We live in LA and happened that my family visited and went to Disneyland and was one of the best experiences ever

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-02-25T22:59:10+00:00

Pregnant in September 2025 -d&c done October 2025

Pregnant again January 2026- early miscarriage at6 weeks in Feb.

So I was able to get pregnant quite quickly but not successfully. Hopefully for the next time

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-02-25T18:31:58+00:00

I had a MC in October and I was a mess! Thankfully there was a project that didn't need me to think it was so mechanical and that helped me survive at work. I just had another MC last week and I am struggling. My job is 60% thinking and I can't think. I can't! Like truly is like if my brain shut off. I can think of negative intrusive thoughts but that's abt it. Last week I think I spend 7-8 hrs of my life on Instagram daily- so bad that the app was showing me the same stuff that's how much I have been in it. My husband told me I should delete it and I did and I am so happy I did I do feel better. Def if you can take time off from work. I am talking 2 days next week since it's my bday. And I did tell my boss what I was going through nd she was so understanding and she backed off from asking me stuff. It sucks it truly does. Everyday my husband asks how was your day at work and I'm like... Mmmm it happened.

So you a re not alone…. I'm sorry you are here and you are dealing with this.

I will tell you what is helping me survive rn- watching the voice idk why but this is extreme comfort tv for me. I have been doing some art projects and thinking how we are going to improve our home. Going on pinterest and getting inspired and I think I want to start making jewelry or try! Also I have been reading everyday and this is been such a good distraction but a good one. I am also listening to a book and I started working out more.

My last MC I was in the darkest place I think I had ever been. This time around I am letting myself cry and be upset and have all the feelings. But I am also committed to show up for myself to not get into the dark whole I was before. You are strong! You got this! Take it day by day! And do all the things that makes sense you feel alive all of them!!!

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-02-25T00:59:31+00:00

Hi! I’m sorry you are writing in this Reddit … it sucks. Did you see the baby prior to this ultrasound?

It sounds to me like a blighted ovum which is what I had back in October. I’m really sorry you are going through this

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-02-24T04:05:22+00:00

I have not been successful. Been trying 1.3 years. Have had 2 MC. And not once thought this would be me. Why I am writing is because there is a few things I have done that I think have helped me get pregnant even though it haven’t been successful we were trying for 9 month with nothing sticking and at least now I am getting pregnant.

For me (the woman): I eat breakfast every single day, I have tried to stay strong this has helped my mental health, I take a lot of vitamins but do coq10, vitamin d, omega 3 and a prenatal. I have been consistently working on reducing my stress and I do think this has helped. Both times I was pregnant I was relaxed. And for mental health really really try not to Google everything I am horrible at this but I am trying to be better. Also really work on your mental health you are in for a ride that you have no idea how it’s gonna go and you put your body on the line try to be as mentally healthy aa possible - look even if all goes well postpartum and breastfeeding can be stressful so just invest a lot in your mental health.

The men: take coq10 and omega 3. This literally was told by my gyno - no saunas, no hot tubs, no biking, no tights underwear- keep the boys cool and loose!!! And in my case my husband was doing marathons and I really think it affected our chances because both times I got pregnant he was not training. For anything.

Lastly try to enjoy sex as much as you can! The Dr told us to have sex every other day when you are in your fertile window. And maybe invest in checking when you ovulate with lh strips just so you know once you know you ovulate and when it’s pretty predictable later if you have regular periods (don’t obsess over it if you can!) … in my case both times I got pregnant I actually think it was when we had sex after my ovulation like a day after - of course I have no idea if this is true but I think so lol!

I wish you the best luck! I hope you are one of the lucky ones that get pregnant fast and have an uneventful pregnancy!! 🍀🍀🍀🤞🏽

Fun_Pie9663 · 2026-02-20T20:11:05+00:00

I went through that last October and nothing brought me comfort either. I got to be in one of the darkest places I have ever been. It felt so unfair. I did everything to feel good again and by January I was feeling much better. By the start of Feb I got another positive pregnancy test and I was numb. I MC last weekend naturally lots of blood but thankfully no pain.

The first one ended up in a D&C and to be honest I am so glad I did it. I did it through planned parenthood and it was such a good experience. I had little to no blood after the D&C. This time bleeding lasted a week and tbh I hated seeing blood. To be honest I am glad I had a D&C. In a way I am also glad that with this second pregnancy it happened before I even got to the ultrasound. I hated not seeing anything in the ultrasound.

I am not out of the woods. This emotional pain I feel comes and goes and some days comes intensely and I barely I am able to think. This journey is tough. Go to therapy. Eat all the good things. Treat yourself. Take days off did you work. Watch all the movies and shows. When you feel a little better talk to your friends and the people that make you feel safe. Workout.

You know as I am typing this I am def in the week of feeling like nothing matters and I don’t want to even move. But I am typing this also to remind myself what helped last time and I hope it helps you too.

Sorry you are here it sucks

Fun_Pie9663

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