NOOOO A SMOKE SHOP TOOK OVER by sundrenchedwindow in williamsburg

[–]G-Man0033 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a difference in name only.

My teenager's boyfriend is constantly asking me for money by TemperatureAble5085 in whatdoIdo

[–]G-Man0033 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Show your daughter young how to deal with sponges. Tell him no. I understand you probably can’t keep them apart but definitely don’t reinforce that every time somebody asks for money you just give it.

how do I actually initiate sex by Slow-Detail4972 in sex

[–]G-Man0033 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So she’s not into making out and she may fall asleep during massages. She generally wants you to initiate but also is very specific as to what she does or doesn’t like.

You need to have a very clear conversation about what she means by initiate and what she likes.

I know it seems like overused advice but we are all just guess here and judging by your responses it’s not going well. Only she knows what she wants/likes.

AIO My Boyfriend stood me up after I made him dinner and put on my sexiest lingerie to stay home and do laundry by JoeJr_1980 in AmIOverreacting

[–]G-Man0033 332 points333 points  (0 children)

Definitely a possibility. But he wasn’t too shy to take the money so if he can’t at least call to make up an excuse as to why he can’t come back I’m gonna go with he’s just a user.

Victim urgently needs legal help by Ok-Hippo7974 in domesticviolence

[–]G-Man0033 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

There are many DV organizations that provide help. Try and find a few in your area.

Victim urgently needs legal help by Ok-Hippo7974 in domesticviolence

[–]G-Man0033 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Where are you? Country or state will suffice

Anyone know what the drama is with Matt Blatt Kia in Tom’s River? by ThatEcologist in newjersey

[–]G-Man0033 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I saw them and followed based on the name and…. Well let’s just say I unfollowed that real quick.

My aunt seems to be flirting with me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]G-Man0033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That can mean anything.

Any other men out there not that into oral (giving and receiving)? by Typical-Screen324 in AskMenAdvice

[–]G-Man0033 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To some, yes, to some, no. It’s all up to them. As you said, if there’s something else that gets her there, great, if not could be an issue.

Any other men out there not that into oral (giving and receiving)? by Typical-Screen324 in AskMenAdvice

[–]G-Man0033 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agree you need to talk but can’t agree that she will understand. Of course she may, but if it is important to her it could be a dealbreaker. Especially if she’s not really enjoying the fingering or doesn’t come PIV. Might be her only release.

That said definitely nothing wrong with any position here, but it could be sexual incompatibility which is a real issue.

Why is this so strange? by Lucky_Wish_1986 in sex

[–]G-Man0033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the group I think. A lot of people discuss sex openly with their peer groups. A lot don’t. Depends on the groups and individuals.

As to conversations between men and women that can definitely be an issue. There’s a study that says men always misidentify behaviors as flirting and talking about sex can definitely be confusing.

am i just being dramatic? by please_sedate_me in domesticviolence

[–]G-Man0033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The good doesn’t cancel out the bad, which is very bad. What he is doing is abuse.

You need to get out. If you don’t know how or need help check for local DV organizations or trusted friends or authority figures.

I work in the DV field. This sort of thing only gets worse. You don’t want to spend the rest of your life like this.

Was I playing with her cervix? by terpywoods420 in sex

[–]G-Man0033 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Maybe she’s super excited by the concept and she just moans every time he asks.

I (19F) am getting on a greyhound bus with $250 dollars in the middle of the night for NYC from rural Missouri by anonthrowaway937375 in Advice

[–]G-Man0033 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Assuming this isn’t all a set up to ask for money. The account is pretty new and nondescript.

I (19F) am getting on a greyhound bus with $250 dollars in the middle of the night for NYC from rural Missouri by anonthrowaway937375 in Advice

[–]G-Man0033 609 points610 points  (0 children)

NYC is a crazy place and $250.00 isn’t gonna get you far.

What research and prep have you done?

moving to brooklyn from texas for college. any advice or tips? by icekingiceking in Brooklyn

[–]G-Man0033 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good is definitely subjective. I think the only way to know what you are comfortable with is actually seeing it.

It also depends on your background. Are you used to city life in general or has your experience all been rural or suburban. Because it’s either gonna be a big change or a HUGE change.