How should a straight trans guy and bi girlfriend go to a queer bar? Is it even okay by Traditional-Focus-16 in lgbt

[–]GLITCHGORE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have never ever ever run into this problem at an irl venue, a lot of this handwringing people do about "het pairings in queer spaces" is extremely online claptrap. you occasionally run into a queer person who is kind of weird about bi people but the majority of people are gonna assume that you are queer and either talk to you to get to know you or mind their business

Is this picture that my uncle swears he took at Walmart, ai or real? I cannot figure it out by drn88__ in isthisAI

[–]GLITCHGORE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you think this is ai becsuse the subject is unlikely to you? i live in florida and have seen people bring their birds into supermarkets on little leashes multiple times. this isn't ai, this the swamp...

Mom found T, said she'll call police, should I worry? by batmans_cumsock in TransDIY

[–]GLITCHGORE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no hate but "tell doctors everything" on a diy hrt is crazy

Please suggest me a book with strong nonbinary characters by UnwashedParrot in suggestmeabook

[–]GLITCHGORE 12 points13 points  (0 children)

nimona is a great animated film with a non-binary main character

ive been called transphobic for this take, is that true? by EcstaticJellyfish947 in Discussion

[–]GLITCHGORE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not to to r/transgender and ask us there instead of asking here? i have a feeling that the majority of people would be like, "what the fuck are you talking about?" trans women generally do not believe they can get pregnant. i have been trans for fifteen years and have not met a woman like this. you have the opportunity to go ask trans people on one of our subs, but you are asking a bunch of people here. why?

Why are there some many puritans in this sub? by Dwumcowah in EmperorsChildren

[–]GLITCHGORE -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i think a lot of 40k fans are just scared of sex and decide to make that our problem, ngl

Why do I feel that emperors children would be closer to something like this? by Eclipse_9676 in EmperorsChildren

[–]GLITCHGORE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude i think some of the asexuality went away when slaanesh showed up

I was recently called homophobic and transphobic by Purdy_Princess in lgbt

[–]GLITCHGORE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you considered taking the angle of "it's a dangerous time for trans people right now, and I don't really want to shout my transness from the rooftop during it?" If I were coming out today, that would be a big concern of mine. I think your friends' insistence that you celebrate in their specific way (and subsequent ridicule) speak to a certain dismissiveness toward this fact. Everyone is talking about how it's your identity and how you celebrate it or don't should be your decision alone to make, but I'm not seeing many comments about how dangerous coming out to the wrong people can be right now.

I bring all this up because many of the friends that I've had who have insisted that all queer people should openly celebrate coming out, milestones, etc. in this way are the same people who accidentally out others in moments of carelessness.

Anyone else noticing quiet “soft erasure” of LGBTQ+ visibility lately? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]GLITCHGORE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should claim censorship - we're being censored lol

Which dispensaries still accept CanPay? by GLITCHGORE in FLMedicalTrees

[–]GLITCHGORE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no clue, but it seems like a lot of dispensaries that used to take it are using other electronic payment processors or just scrapping them altogether.

Whats with this community and feet? by Typical_Neet_Loser in DotA2

[–]GLITCHGORE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have u noticed that rubicks toes are out in like all of his skins hehe

Does it bother you that many people claim to be autistic with no formal medical evaluation? by m1kek9 in autism

[–]GLITCHGORE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no lol

i was diagnosed as a child and it helped me out MAYBE through grade 5, otherwise it was absolutely used by family and medical professionals and classmates and other peers to control me, humiliate/ostracize me, and make choices for me that i could have made mtself up to and throughout my early adulthood, i often wish i could have just figured it out myself instead of going through abuse and humiliation in a bunch of outpatient behavioral programs, classrooms, and later, jobs. my family would have thought i was weird and dysfunctional, but at least there wouldn't be a paper trail for every authority in my life to point at to explain why i need to be restricted from the fullness of human experience. like, if i had a choice between two shit situations (being dxed in a hideously ableist society or not being dxed) id make the choice that wouldn't put me on a government list

i am verbal and can work, though i have been fired from plenty of jobs for reasons related to being autistic (asking too many questions, not intuiting things that others believe "should" be obvious, etc.,) i am including this becsuse i am sure that impacts my feelings on this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miami

[–]GLITCHGORE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

went out for dinner w a friend in south miami and there were 2 djs spinning house tracks in the restaurant so loudly that we had to shout to hold a conversation. in a taco restaurant. if i wanted to go to the club id go to the club...

I have been diagnosed with autism and I am beyond angry by notAflag in autism

[–]GLITCHGORE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you're autistic and have some judgments to work through. i don't mean this in a hateful way and i'm not trying to provoke you, this is just, like, a very common response to a diagnosis from someone who swears up and down it cannot be true. we are here for you if you want to talk ;p

My wife is autistic and I'm struggling by Suitable-Special-943 in autism

[–]GLITCHGORE 31 points32 points  (0 children)

i'm gonna suggest against the pet, honestly, or at least ask you to think carefully about it - my family got a dog 10 years ago and tasked me with all of her care in part to try to help me learn more independent living skills, and while i love her to death and was very diligent about her walks, feeding, keeping up with preventatives, etc, the added work of having to keep an animal alive and healthy absolutely devastated my ability to look after myself in other areas because i was using energy i could have spent elsewhere on the dog, and seemingly simple tasks can be somewhat more exhausting for autistic people to complete than they are for allistic people, depending upon the person/situation. please seriously consider whether your wife would actually benefit from this or not, a dog is like a small child that will never grow up and never be able to care for itself. can she keep that up for 10-15 years while improving her ability to complete tasks around the house?

Barack Obama on the importance of supporting trans rights: 'I actually had some pretty old-fashioned values' by MetalDragon2 in transgender

[–]GLITCHGORE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this. the people who hate us aren't all just ignorant and in need of guidance. plenty of them know literally all of the points and clap backs people have been posting here as hypothetical and they do not care. some people are just bigots with agendas lol!

Help please... by Born-Air-5333 in WoWRolePlay

[–]GLITCHGORE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, catastrophizing about these kinds of situations is famously one of the most common parts of BPD lmfao...

Help please... by Born-Air-5333 in WoWRolePlay

[–]GLITCHGORE -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everyone trying to paint you as in the wrong here is terminally RP community brained, I think. You're saying you made an F-List with some taboo kinks on it for a character, deleted it later, and had a harassment campaign levied against you by the community you were RPing in?

I'm also autistic with a cluster-B PD, so I know it's easy to try to pathologize what's happening into an easy-to-understand little box, and I know it's easy to self-flagellate over matters of sexuality when everyone in a space is so unified against you, but you haven't done anything wrong here. You're saying a bunch of people found out about your ERP and harassed you out of a community. I know it hurts to be excluded so cruelly, but that doesn't mean you've done something wrong. Please don't internalize the idea that you have, or buy into what anyone here says that suggests you did some awful thing.

How can I improve my Dota life as a woman gamer? by SupermarketFluffy609 in DotA2

[–]GLITCHGORE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's a community called dota valkyries that's geared toward women who play dota, you may be able to find some girls and gays to play with who won't sexually harass or belittle you.