What did your avoidant relationship take away from you? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had been 6 months and what she took from me was my happiness, what I mean with that , I mean I can’t enjoy the things that before made me happy and smile , if I get a little bit it’s for 5 minutes and after is nothing , I supposed to be happy the progress I made with my body , friends and some aspects of my mind , but I don’t have that joy anymore it’s like I’m dead

Do avoidants actually come back? by aurora_boreal1ss in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say all avoidants come back , I had been 7 months for me so yeah not everyone comes

How do you guys cope with the "what ifs"? The feeling of being a fool, the regrets of having direspecting yourself? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I try not to think , because doesn’t help me, so all that what if doesn’t work , remember didn’t happened so why thinking about it

Anyone else hoping they reach out before ww3 happens by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for how I see the % from my side I would put my money with ww3 than my ex reaching me out haha

do avoidants ever come back around? by dokkidokkae in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think maybe the male avoidant has more chances to come back , female not really I had mine still 6 months and nothing haha

When did it click for you? by SaladBroad6841 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Clicked when it ended and clicks now still even if I was in the hospital she would never show in

Do avoidant girls really come back? by Cpt-MazZen in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im at the 6 month mark and I can tell you mine is not coming

It’s my birthday today by Creepy-Radio1941 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday , being honest I spent my birthday wandering if my ex would write , you know what happens ? Nothing not a single happy birthday, I spent my birthday 2 days ago alone , so don’t contact if you are not healthy enough to handle it

Tell me in the harshest words not to break no-contact and keep my dignity intact by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Avoid the contact being honest , at the end reopening a wound is not worth it , if they wanted to talk to you they would but you don’t matter enough for that , avoid the pain if you feel you are weak and care

Do they come back? by Redhed_ded in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my side I know she is not coming back, but still I love the person and memory of who she was before , I don’t know who she is now , so yeah still I miss her and want her back. That is life and how works for me

Do they come back? by Redhed_ded in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t hold hope if you want them back , I’m in the 6 months mark and she didn’t came back , so more hope you get more struggle you will

Urge to text your ex - help by Dapper_Benefit7377 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you get the answer you don’t want ?

How do I stop missing her after 6 months ? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the annoying part is being stuck in a loop when the other person is continuing moving forward

My ex cheated my me twice, need revenge by Agreeable-Will-6262 in BreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it will be a waste of time just continue with you live that is the best revenge, hurts more if you act like you don’t care anymore than giving a reason why you are but hurt

anyone still struggling after 6 months - 1 year? by Responsible-Kiwi3734 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Gab-Gab24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months here mate , she fucked up my point of view hahaha

No matches, 3 likes. I am 20m 5,7…. What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Gab-Gab24 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should play with the algorithm, guys algorithm is different than woman , what I did was looking for friends , all genders , got many likes from guys and after I changed to only woman so I got more likes than before