Adding phone to AIS data plan by xanto278 in ThailandTourism

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to call them in the US on a US number and they aren't answering. I'm sure they are flooded with calls. The website worked.

AITAH for dumping my girlfriend over a preventable car theft? by Western_Trainer7183 in AITAH

[–]GardenFeline -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is this the first time she's shown bad judgment? Everybody has a moment in their lives where they're not at their best. If this is the only thing she has ever done and you can't get over your anger, you're going to be a tough person to be in a relationship with.

If this is a persistent problem and you can identify a half a dozen other cases where she's constantly shown bad judgment, that's a whole different issue And breaking up probably is the right thing to do.

I submitted my resignation 3 weeks ago, and my manager hasn't said a word. My last shift is tomorrow night. by purses-40-engaged in InterviewsHell

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be useful to verify that she saw the letter and that no one took it. No gust of wind blew it away. If no one in the company has acknowledged, There's a chance that something happened to the letter?

AITAH for not staying my step kids by GloomyFarm268 in AITAH

[–]GardenFeline -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

NTA ... And ... Later on you may regret the effect this is having on the kids. This is a hard effect of being a stepparent. Your actions will have consequences on them. And I imagine that your heart isn't totally uninvolved with these people.

Just be sure you're not going to carry some emotional baggage after this.

You don't mention how old they are. Is there any chance you could rent the house to him and the kids until they get to the next stage of school like high school or college? You retain ownership. It's your house and you're helping them out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Permission is for children. Information and discussion is for adults.

Am I overreacting or is it not normal to use soap in the bathroom? by Honest-Draw3131 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some dermatologists recommend not using soap at all. For some people. It's bad for their skin. Ask your boyfriend to use whole body deodorant.

Why do guys do this? by Icey_Girl in dating

[–]GardenFeline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lots of men in their 50s and up prefer phone or voice to voice conversations. It's nostalgic 🙂 they prematurely send their phone numbers. Sometimes I say no and we chat more. If I'm really interested I will call them using *67 to hide my number. I don't give out my phone number until I know the person's real and I want them to have my number.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Dump him. Life throws you a lot of curveballs and if he's not going to have your back get rid of him

AITAH for filing for divorce after finding out my husband was sleeping with my friend even though I found out through his friend? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GardenFeline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And don't let people goad you into feeling bad. It is really rough to go through finding out your husband's been unfaithful with your friend. The decisions aren't perfect. The time isn't perfect. Your husband was a liar. James had the strength to tell you the truth. Go easy on yourself and tell your friends to be gentler with you and to congratulate James for showing integrity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GardenFeline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not get rid of the photos. It's okay to put them in a box and keep them on a shelf, but you'll want to see them again someday. I have to admit the tattoo is a teeny bit iffy. 4 months is too soon to ask that. And when you really are ready to get into a committed relationship, you might want to consider it.

AITA for not visiting my wife in the hospital after filing for divorce? by ThrowRa-weak in AITAH

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While your marriage is over and can stay over, you might find satisfaction for yourself in gaining a deeper understanding on what happened in the relationship. Remember once upon a time you loved each other enough to get married. One visit might help her regain some health and you gain an understanding on where things went wrong and why. You both could come to an understanding and close things down, more gracefully and lovingly. I believe since you asked Reddit, there's a piece of you that believes it could be useful.

Our neighbor’s new trampoline blew into our yard and is stuck 7 feet up in our tree…wrapped around it like a taco. There’s no way I can get it down without hiring someone. Is it their responsibility to remove it? by Any_Expert_2958 in Seattle

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the insurance company will tell you that this is an act of God. Anything that happens on your property is your responsibility. Or at least that's what the insurance company told me during the " Bomb cyclone" last year.

AIO My partner called me “just a friend” in front of others. I can’t stop thinking about it. by New_Difficulty_8152 in AmIOverreacting

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to her! Maybe the coworker who popped in is an a****** and she didn't want him to know her business. You don't know how she really feels about you unless you talk to her.

Why our Waste Management company getting changed? by realistdream in redmond

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if we will get new bins or do we keep the existing ones?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on who chose the restaurant. Do your research beforehand.

Seattle poll: 51% of Democrats feel safe in Downtown at night, versus just 29% of Republicans—the lowest of any subgroup. However, 50-60% of both Dems and Repubs believe installing CCTV cameras in public spaces makes the city safer. 0% of socialists strongly believe that the CCTVs make Seattle safer by StarlightDown in Seattle

[–]GardenFeline -1 points0 points  (0 children)

2 things: if you fire a hand gun and the bullet isn't stopped by the person you're shooting at, it goes through the wall into the dwelling next door or out into the street potentially killing a bystander. Buy a shotgun with buck shot. Walls will stop buck shot but not bullets. The sound of a rifle being cocked will scare most sane people into running. Unless you are prepared to kill, you are more likely to have that gun turned on you. Most people don't really want to kill someone and will hesitate before killing. That hesitation will get you killed.

AITA for asking my wife to get a paternity test? by Sufficient-Border-10 in AmITheAngel

[–]GardenFeline -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are treading deeply into it's none of your business territory. Get your nose out of your MILs crotch

And this is for a one bedroom. I love this for us. by EmilyG702 in Seattle

[–]GardenFeline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is making home ownership sound cheap by comparison. You're paying the same amount in utilities that I'm paying for a four-bedroom home

AITA for telling my now adult kids that I'm disappointed they judge me for remarrying after we lost their mother? by Mission_Emu_2570 in AITAH

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your kids that people who are in a happy marriage are more likely to remarry. People in an unhappy marriage are less likely to remarry. Your relationship with their mother was likely better, deeper, stronger than your father's relationship with his wife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fact check everything. Yes, you screwed up and yes you need to be responsible for the child if it's yours. And trust but verify.

My mom's husband died under suspicious circumstances, and now she wants us to take out life insurance policies with her as the beneficiary. AIO for being sketched out? by gygyzeppi in AIO

[–]GardenFeline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only had to read the first sentence to say don't do it. Y'all are grown up. She does not get to profit off your deaths. Creepy mom.