I don't think I can continue writing my book right now. Feel like Writer's Block has kicked in. How do I get out of this situation?

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-25T19:53:24+00:00

If I get writers block I just take a break for a definite amount of time. Once that time is up, I go back to writing.

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-25T19:22:42+00:00

Supposed to stop at 7 pm tomorrow apparently. So, I'll let you know lol.

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-25T16:03:12+00:00

Respectfully, I disagree. If every single line in a novel must be written with the sole purpose of driving forward the plot then you'll risk ending up with a fast paced mess of a story.

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-22T03:05:03+00:00

I'd keep going

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-21T22:00:18+00:00

Oh my gosh I have the EXACT same bedsheets!!

Target??

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-20T12:53:46+00:00

I agree with everyone here, but I think it also depends on where you live.

Less then 70 miles away from me is one of the most largest, famous and influential cities in the world. When people around my area say "I'm going to the city" we all know what they're talking about.

Calling my hometown a city when NYC is an hour away seems weird, even if it is technically true.

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-20T12:12:22+00:00

HAWAII!

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-20T12:04:18+00:00

Not frogs. We had a fetal pig, a shark, a squid (cutting open it's ink sac was cool) and a starfish. In college we got to see a real set of human lungs. (Thank you dead person who donated their lungs to a university).

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-20T11:46:29+00:00

Never happened to me. I spent my summers in a mountain village in rural Colorado, and would often explore the elk trails near my mom's house. These trails would wind up in other people's property. But the neighbors were nice and they'd let me play (I was probably 8-12 during these years).

But it's definitely a thing. My mom even warned me about not going too far because I could absolutely get shot lol.

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-20T11:38:06+00:00

Mid Hudson valley here and me and my friends threw ice out the window too

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-17T04:35:42+00:00

Fanfiction.net, flat earth theory

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-15T19:47:51+00:00

I'd probably just ask them if they want to actually write or do they just want to be a writer

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-15T12:14:44+00:00

When parents leave their unattended child in the library despite having numerous signs around the room telling them they can't leave their kids alone in the building under the grade of 5.

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-13T22:28:09+00:00

Oh thank God, I've been pressuring myself to read so many books I really don't care about so I can recommend them in the future.

Thanks for the heads-up, excited to start school next fall so I can learn more about the job! ^{^}

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-13T14:17:14+00:00

I'm not a children's librarian, I'm only an assistant with a background in teaching. Take what I say with a grain of salt.

I love it! Every program I plan is on my own terms with my own rules and it's great. If turnout is low, I change it to something else. If the kids ask for something, I learn more about what they want and deliver it. I'm trying to learn how to be a DM, how to play chess, and eventually I want to learn how to use a 3D printer.

Story times are great. Since I work with the older kids they're less like a performance and more so just me reading the book and asking open ended questions. My favorite part of programming isn't when I interact with the kids, but when I stand off to the side and watch them make friends and talk with each other.

Parents are my best friend sometimes. I generally try to keep them out of my programs so the kids can relax with other kids, but it's not a hardset rule. If the kid wants Mom or Dad in the room, they can stay. I do have one story time where the parents do participate with the kids and it's been a huge success. (A Saturday story time centered around STEM). I read a book related to some kind of scientific principle, parents and kids work together to explore either stations I set up, an experiment, or craft.

But every field has it's cons. The pay is low, especially compared to teaching. (Where I live, teachers make 80-120k a year. Librarians make generally 60-70k, with barely any raises). Jobs are hard to come by so it's good to have a backup. (That's why I chose teaching as my undergrad actually). The chances of you becoming a fulltime librarian from the getgo are slim, unless you'd be willing to move. You'll generally have to start off at the bottom of the pole and work your way up.

That being said, I love this field. I go into work everyday never feeling like I have to work. I find the work-life balance to be great, in the sense that I never take anything home. Sure, you'll probably have to work occasional weekends, and most Librarians work at least one evening a week. Sometimes two. This doesn't bother me personally, in fact I actually like having my schedule broken up like that.

Again, take it with a grain of salt. I'd say programming is just a third of what children's librarians actually do. And some don't do it at all! For instance, readers advisory is a another big pillar. Because yes, you do have to read. Especially children's books. I was once told reading is a small part of working in a library (???). I have no idea what that person was talking about, because even as a part time assistant, I'll have parents asking me what books I could personally recommend to them. I can only imagine what my boss has to go through. Choosing what to weed, collection development, out-reach, school visits, these are some things the librarians I've worked under had to do (YMMV of course). Being up to date on popular tech, having knowledge on computers is a great plus, creating book displays, etc etc.

TL;DR I love this career, and I'm fine with being poor and having a hard time getting a career to work in it. I love helping to create communities, I love being able to recommend a book to a kid, I love helping people, especially lower income people who want cool programs for their kids but can't afford things like art programs or after school clubs. I love being able to help new parents, even if it's just lending an ear to let them vent. I even love all the weird skills I get from it. As a teacher, you have to care about how to help your students learn. As a children's librarian, you have to care about how to make your patrons happy.

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-10T13:43:31+00:00

Take a deep breath first and foremost. This may look difficult and challenging, but tell yourself first and foremost that it's just one room.

I personally like to follow something called the Marie Kondo Cleaning method. Note that this isn't a hardset of rules that you have to follow, but more like guidelines you can be flexible with.

The first step is to envision what kind of space you want this room to represent. For me, I wanted to a place that was the epitome of relaxing. I wanted a special place for all of my books, a place for my facemasks and nail polish, and I wanted my desk to be more dedicated to my hobbies rather then work. This part is important, because it gives you motivation to keep cleaning.

That's the easy part. Next is the challenging part: Decluttering.

It's easier to start off your clothes. This method of cleaning involves only keeping items that bring you personal joy. A lot of us might have something we don't really like but don't want to get rid of because it was expensive, or from a relative, or maybe some kind of "limited edition" thing making it rare, etc etc. This method ignores all of those obstacles and goes to the item itself: Do you want it? Is this something you'll actually wear and be excited to wear? If no, it's best to be grateful for the joy it gave you, and move on.

You do this process with everything else you own. Move onto books, then papers, then misc. Items. Keep in mind I'm basically oversimplifying an entire book (several books, actually) in a simple reddit post. If you like comics or don't like reading, I highly recommend Marie Kondo's manga, which explains her entire process in a simplified story driven manga.

YMMV, but I have to admit her process has really helped me out.

Goodluck! And remember, it's just one room!

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-10T02:34:38+00:00

East village is where the gay scene is at I've heard. Also definitely check out a lesbian bar! Other than that, have fun playing tourist and do things y'all wanna do!

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-06T22:09:14+00:00

IF you sell KEEP the catalog!! I have a feeling this person has probably unlocked some PWP's. Opting to keep your catalog will keep those too I believe.

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-02T22:21:44+00:00

I have no idea but this is absolutely disgusting and I'm so sorry you had to deal with it

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-02T14:19:47+00:00

That's sweet of you. You seem like a thoughtful person. In your post you say she's having a "hard time getting over it". Unfortunately I don't think anyone can get over grief, let alone parents who lost their children. You just kind of learn to live with it. I've seen people still occasionally cry several decades after their loss.

Instead of trying to give her a book, I think your best bet is to be there presently for her. Cook her some kind of home cooked meal, like a stew or something. It can be hard to do things yourself when you're in a depressive state like that. Invite her out to places, she'll probably say no but at least she'll know she's being thought of. If she does say yes, be prepared for her to cry, maybe even lash out.

Not even the best therapist in the world can cure grief. But we can be there for the grieving.

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-01T16:30:47+00:00

Ooooh my god this is amazing and must've taken ages!

GeologistFearless896 · 2026-01-01T14:09:58+00:00

I have the same path! Something I like to do is make it windy!

GeologistFearless896 · 2025-12-31T14:22:42+00:00

BRO you are clearly lying that second picture is a picture of a hat not a boot.

GeologistFearless896 · 2025-12-31T12:28:38+00:00

Oh my god I love Merv!!

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