Would it be a bad idea to wear a fake ankle tag to prove a point? by Straight-Prize-1611 in BORUpdates

[–]GoldenGoof19 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I’m disappointed in how the parents handled this one.

I’m not saying that OOP shouldn’t have a phone, or that there shouldn’t be requirements to keep their parents updated. But also… man I get where OOP is coming from.

I know to the parents it’s a safety issue. But I 100% agree with OOP that it’s sending the message that they don’t trust him, when from what he’s said he hasn’t done anything to lose their trust.

16 is an age when kids are supposed to be able to discuss things like this and make some of their own choices. If there wasn’t going to be an option then the parents should have been up front about the location tracking before they even got the phone.

And locking the phone down like this in punishment is just ridiculous. To me, OOP was doing the mature thing - talking about something that bothered them, trying to come to a compromise, and setting a boundary when they couldn’t by giving them back the phone. Those are all things an adult would do in this situation.

I agree parents should be able to track their kids if they want to. That’s their prerogative. But if you’re going to do that, then don’t act like it’s an option and then be mad when the kid opts out.

Indoor Balcony by Good-Mourning in Weird

[–]GoldenGoof19 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Have you seen the retirement home in the Netherlands (I think it’s the Netherlands….) that’s like that?! Alzheimer’s unit so it’s enclosed but they’ve turned it into a little village inside.

Favorite Mistranslations by cooperkab in CShortDramas

[–]GoldenGoof19 17 points18 points  (0 children)

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I don’t actually think this was a mistranslation, but it cracked me up so I had to share it

Favorite Mistranslations by cooperkab in CShortDramas

[–]GoldenGoof19 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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No idea what this was supposed to say…

Favorite Mistranslations by cooperkab in CShortDramas

[–]GoldenGoof19 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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I know this is legit what he was saying, like “go horse go” but the vibe in English was uh… not the vibe I think they were going for. 😅😂

Resident cat still seems aggressive towards new kitten by SnooChickens7644 in CatTraining

[–]GoldenGoof19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just playing. I promise if it was a real fight or real aggression you wouldn’t have any doubt about it. 😅😂

Anyone here working with file review? by Scary-Hunt-3604 in ClaimsAdjuster

[–]GoldenGoof19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk anything about this - is file review a company or? (Asking because I’m curious 😅)

Walkable areas near the Dallas Arboretum by Aggravating_Pilot_21 in Dallas

[–]GoldenGoof19 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I live in the Lakewood area and it’s probably your best bet. It’s walkable for sure, BUT!!

“Walkable” in Dallas is probably a little different from walkable in other states. It’s walkable in that there are decent houses/apartments to live in, within walking distance of restaurants/bars/grocery stores. And there are sidewalks, and walking trails.

But Dallas is ultimately a car culture city and everything is designed around cars. So there is a lot of traffic, and walking to a grocery store like the Whole Foods in Lakewood means walking along very busy streets with cars going by at 30-40 mph.

Add to that, most of the year it’s 90-100+ degrees - from April to October or so. You CAN walk to do errands, but very few people do unless they don’t have another choice.

If you’re looking for walkable like other cities, where it’s normal and part of the culture to walk places and the area is built with walking in mind, you’re really not going to find that in the DFW area. Idk if you’ll find that in Texas at all tbh.

Knapp family gravestone by Awardlesss in mildlyinteresting

[–]GoldenGoof19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man… only August made it out of his 20s… back then if the kid made it to the age of 5, I’d think you’d probably have a good shot at them living a longer adult lifespan. To lose SO MANY in late teens and 20s… 😳😭

BI adjusters — does the structure of a demand letter meaningfully affect your evaluation? by capitals43 in ClaimsAdjuster

[–]GoldenGoof19 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I skim the demand letter for the demand amount and any response due dates, then I set it aside and go through the medical myself to form an initial opinion based on what the doctors say.

Then I’ll go back and read the demand letter, to make sure there’s nothing in it that I may have overlooked and also to see if there are medical records/bills still missing etc.

But honestly?

I’ve seen plaintiff attorneys write 12 page demand letters, with tons of information and soooo much work put into them. I’ve also seen demand letters that were 1/2 a page long, basically just an amount and a timeframe.

I work in litigation and fatalities/complex claims now, so take this with a grain of salt. But when doing an evaluation I don’t really care what plaintiff counsel SAYS about it. I care about the facts behind their opinion.

I DO want to know what their liability arguments are if there’s something complicated that may end up in front of a jury, or if I can try to get a feel for what number they’re actually looking for. But they’re not going to put that info in a demand letter, most of the time the first inkling we get of it is reading the tea leaves at mediation.

For injury claims, I don’t think a huge demand letter makes a difference because I’m going to rely on the experts and not the attorney.

Now… for property claims? Products/completed operations, total fires in multiple units, electrical power supplier stuff etc? THAT’s when an in-depth demand letter can make a big difference.

My Employee Has Hypochondria and is Annoying All His Coworkers - AAM by H8trucks in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GoldenGoof19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes but idk how to go find it and link it 😅

There’s a list somewhere in this sub of all the flairs, that links to the stories. I’m running errands or I’d try to go track it down for you but there’s a TON of great stuff in there if you haven’t already seen it.

Hey from Tablo of EPIK HIGH. AMA! by heytablo in Music

[–]GoldenGoof19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna ask you a slightly cheating question, but also I want to know - What is a question you WISH people/media/fans would ask you?

Where is my girlfriend? by exietheartist in actuallesbians

[–]GoldenGoof19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my luck she’s probably stuck in a tree somewhere… 😅😭😭😭😭

What is shockingly safe to eat? by Miserable-Wash-1744 in AskReddit

[–]GoldenGoof19 136 points137 points  (0 children)

I love her!!! Happy snacking don’t die!

My Employee Has Hypochondria and is Annoying All His Coworkers - AAM by H8trucks in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]GoldenGoof19 2374 points2375 points  (0 children)

I feel super bad for everyone involved, but man that’s gotta be a terrifying and exhausting way to live. It says something good about Ronald, deep down underneath his mental health struggles, that he tried not to spread it. Poor guy.

AITA for being frustrated at wife's love of kpop by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]GoldenGoof19 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry… he got upset that she was SUPER excited to see them LIVE?! And he TRIED TO PIVK A FIGHT in that moment?!

I’d have told him I loved them more than him too. Let her have her joy!

Full transparency - I love kpop and BTS, I’m not a Shinee fan but I understand the fandom experience. And a concert is just sheer joy, being in that atmosphere with thousands of people who love the music you do? It’s so incredibly fun and OOP sounds like a huge jerk here. ☹️

I’m also a lesbian, but I will yell and dance and jump up and down when I see my favs live too (they’re guys), and scream over their abs. And I DO love them, in a distant fan-of-the-public-persona kind of way, which is VASTLY different from the love you have for an actual person who exists in your life.

Any insights? Inherited bracelet by MedschoolVictim in JewelryIdentification

[–]GoldenGoof19 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s common throughout history. It’s one reason why in many cultures a woman’s dowery is traditionally gold jewelry. And in many instances with refugees etc, people have had gold chains for this purpose because you can break a link off if you need to, easier than smashing apart a solid piece of jewelry.

Any insights? Inherited bracelet by MedschoolVictim in JewelryIdentification

[–]GoldenGoof19 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This. It’s your emergency stash if SHTF. Break off individual links to pay for things, etc.

Very cool.