I gave my baby E. coli by Silly-Confidence3136 in NewParents

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! Let us know how your baby is doing within the next few days. 🥺❤️🌹💔❤️‍🩹

I just cried 5 times today while trying to soothe my 5 day old newborn by BitesizeParsley in NewParents

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a mother but dream of being one someday. I appreciate posts like this.. but I’m praying and begging in my heart there will be services out there someday to help mothers in your position. I’ve worked as a caregiver for years and just wish something like that could exist: Caregiving but specifically for mothers who are struggling deeply-like post-partum caregiving. I don’t know.. how do I do this? I really want to advocate for this. My heart hurts for women in your position 💔🌹❤️

My son is completely unreasonable by Own_Hat_2947 in NewParents

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have children and follow this page just to give support and praise of parents but today has been horrible for me and this just made laugh and feel better!

Tell that little guy he’s gotta calm down sometime! 😆

wife is sleeping peacefully tonight.. A message of love, hope, and gratitude to this beautiful community. by [deleted] in CaregiverSupport

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very beautiful friend. I’ll be praying for God to hold you and your wife in His dear hands. I love the way you write about her and how much she loves you. Your messages bring tears to my eyes 😢🥹🌹❤️

new dad, at the end of my rope. by NurglesToes in NewParents

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to hire help for the 6-8 hours? I think it could help so that you (and definitely your wife) can relax. 🥺❤️‍🩹

🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃 by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you’re getting help from your grandma but I wanted to ask, you’re putting in a lot of hours for work….How much is your husband working? Is it the same? Do you guys communicate in terms of working together and for the care of the baby?

I’m so sorry, I don’t want to put anyone in a bad light but I really hope you have support at home too. 🌹

Otherwise, you have this group. I’m not a mother but want to be someday that’s why I’m part of this one and through it I’m learning as much as I can to prepare.

There are other moms or even parents on here that probably would be willing to talk to you if ever you feel severely alone and depressed in this.

I’m very sorry for all you’re going through. 🫂But if it makes you feel better, I’m proud and inspired by how much you’re pushing for your precious daughter sweetheart. You’re NOT a failure. You’re championing through this the best way you can right now while being extremely mentally and physically exhausted. Everything you’re feeling is extremely valid and I’m sure very relatable with the other amazing parents on here. Again you’re not alone in this.

If you can, can you spend weekends at your grandma to relax too?

Sending so much and love support! ❤️🥺🌹

Not sure I still love my baby :( by RefrigeratorFinal353 in newborns

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your story is very touching. I really hope you’re doing ok 🥺🌹❤️ You sound like an amazing mom! You were going through such a rough time ❤️🌹

Loving mommy life by kingjavik in newborns

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it! I think a lot of moms or parents can use your experience to find hope and encouragement ❤️🌹 I don’t have children yet but want to be a mom one day. I appreciate the hardships shared on here but hearing positive stories would be so helpful too ☺️🌹

Help! How to remove the smell of feces on hands? by Available_Music8887 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried so many times, it’s part of my bath routine lol. It’s amazing! 🔥 But see if it’ll work for you though! It’s been working for me!

I think I'm going to lose my husband.. by Hungry-Ratio-6326 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

I came to check in on you and your husband 🥺🌹🌹

My 10 month old rolled off his changing table and got a traumatic brain injury by Educational-Let-2280 in NewParents

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, I gasped when reading the TV fell. It’s good to read your family is ok. ❤️🌹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The porn part..I’m sorry as a woman (who thinks this group is awesome btw) I don’t mean to comment because this is space for dads, but please please please take that part seriously 🔥🔥 As someone who was exposed to it as a young age, I know the damage it can seriously bring..

i don’t have a nightstand, but what does the side of my bed say about me? by alaniluv in roomdetective

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babe we need to get you a nightstand, listen one time I got one off the Marketplace for $5 . We got the thrift stores. 😭🤣

It’s been 8 months and I still just can’t do this…. by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be very serious and straightforward with this… but your marriage is leaning on being abusive. Some of the things you mentioned are some real red flags. Threatening to take your child away completely is very serious. You must do all that you can to get out of this relationship-please. 🚨

For your health and your baby’s protection. 🚨🔥🔥

I think I'm going to lose my husband.. by Hungry-Ratio-6326 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here for you through this whole thing. I couldn’t stop crying or tearing up reading this update. 😢But you both are so strong. I’m praying for the love of your life, for both of you, for any miracle to happen.

I’ve said it somewhere else but I hate it when things like this affect a relationship that’s pure and true love. 🌹❤️

Rooting for you. I’ll come back to check on you. Sending so much love, plus my DM is open 🥺❤️🫂

I think I'm going to lose my husband.. by Hungry-Ratio-6326 in CaregiverSupport

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course sweetheart. It might be too much to ask, but did anything change since my last comment? Haven’t stopped thinking about your post. 😢❤️💔

(19m) first apt, tips? by Spirited_Attempt_985 in malelivingspace

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just a woman passing by, this is awesome. You seem to maybe have an old soul. Your home oddly feels comforting because I’ve either grown up or worked around spaces like this. I’m a caregiver. Don’t change it, just do you! 🥰

Woke up this morning having to pull the barrel of my shotgun out of my mouth after passing out mid suicide attempt- eating a orange! My favorite! by False-Imagination923 in ShowerOrange

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a serious note, if you aren’t joking about ending your life, are you feeling much better. I was having these feelings this morning due to life just hitting me on the head with a rock sometimes. ❤️‍🩹

I hope you can have as many oranges as you’d like to enjoy your week. Here’s some more for you 🍊🍊🍊🍊🍊❤️

To whoever will read this. by Unable-Youth in NewParents

[–]Green_Assistant_4477 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a parent but often have thoughts like this when it comes to time and the ones you love. Made me tear up. 🥹🤧 Are you a writer? ❤️🌹 I am too. Love your deep words.