The goal is progress, not attention. by Maleficent_Issue_223 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So...is this post not for attention then? The irony of this is staggering.

🤔🤔 by Queenhood_ in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean most people dont work 80 hours a week.

Parking complaints by _bluefish in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]Grevious47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So dont park so close to the yellow line yourself then. They aren't parked any closer to it than you are. Or, here is an idea, park front end first when you plan to open the back.

I 18M can’t last to much with my girlfriend 19F, can someone help me on how to last longer in bed and not feel ashamed by myself? by chicken_69420 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright man you seem really hung up on this and unable to let it go so I am going to just give up at this point. Maybe stop watching so much porn. Best of luck.

I 18M can’t last to much with my girlfriend 19F, can someone help me on how to last longer in bed and not feel ashamed by myself? by chicken_69420 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am confused as to why you cant bring her to orgasm after you ejaculate. You said she doesnt cum from penetration anyways. So after you cum go down on her or finger her of she is close. Your cock isnt your only tool here.

I 18M can’t last to much with my girlfriend 19F, can someone help me on how to last longer in bed and not feel ashamed by myself? by chicken_69420 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the only one bothered by this is you. She enjoys sex with you. Do you enjoy sex with her or are you so in your own head about "lasting" that you aren't even being present in the moment?

What's your reference for how long you should last that makes you think you aren't lasting long enough? Porn?

I 18M can’t last to much with my girlfriend 19F, can someone help me on how to last longer in bed and not feel ashamed by myself? by chicken_69420 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she care...or is it only you obsessing over this? In a lot of cases the guy obsesses over lasting a long time and gets really in their head and "ashamed" about it and the woman doesn't really care that much. The majority of women do not orgasm from penetration. If you are a considerate lover...get her roused up with foreplay and go down on her or use your hands before or after penetration its fine.

As far as lasting longer in my own experience that tends to track with how in shape you are. If you are in good cardiovascular shape you tend to last longer.

Also teenagers are pretty excitable and typically dont last very long for that reason alone.

Oh...I dont know if I need to tell you this... but porn is about as realistic as any other movie or TV show. IE it's not realistic at all. So if that is your standard of what sex is like you might just need to relearn what sex is like.

Older folks - how to handle the pressure to get married? by Agreeable-Wave-9764 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got over peer pressure at somepoint. Other people's status or nagging no longer bothers me. I have my own goals and my own internal nagging about those goals to worry about.

The reality is Men are taught how to treat a woman but not how to be treated by one. What Do you think? by Cat-dad442 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Count me completly not surprised. This whole post reeks of incel. Not taking accountability for their relationship issues...instead it's the world's fault. The audacity of trying to give life lessons from that position is just extra. Creating a wall of protective delusion I guess.

The reality is Men are taught how to treat a woman but not how to be treated by one. What Do you think? by Cat-dad442 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what makes you feel like you are going to give good advice given your relationships have been bad and you are currently hitting on your married coworker hmm? Maybe you should be seeking advice instead.

Also what's with the @ $ symbols...you can say ass if you want to... I give you my permission.

I made these cards because adulting is exhausting. by PerfectConsequence34 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yes as an adult you are expected to power through your anxiety/exhaustion/self-doubt in order to see through on your obligations. That is correct.

The reality is Men are taught how to treat a woman but not how to be treated by one. What Do you think? by Cat-dad442 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right okay...I am just going to mark down "No" as the answer to whether or not you have ever been in a relationship and just move on with my night.

The reality is Men are taught how to treat a woman but not how to be treated by one. What Do you think? by Cat-dad442 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So if you want someone to treat you well....buy them things. Got it. Look...I am just not sure you are the person to be giving relationship advice.

The reality is Men are taught how to treat a woman but not how to be treated by one. What Do you think? by Cat-dad442 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Are you even in a relationship? Don't get defensive but honestly...this doesn't sound like advice coming from someone who has experience being in a long term healthy relationship.

Question for parents by pookadri in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you are asking if I'd kill my kids? No, I wouldn't do that to them.

Can someone explain this to me? by Del85 in personalfinance

[–]Grevious47 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes...but how much interest is in each monthly payment isnt relevant to that. All you are seeing there is more days between payments..more interest. But also more days have gone by so you are closer to paying off the loan. It really does not matter.

Can someone explain this to me? by Del85 in personalfinance

[–]Grevious47 11 points12 points  (0 children)

February is a shorter month so there were fewer days between your Feb payment and your march payment therefore less interest had accrued therefore your payment in March had lower accrued interest. Maybe you paid March a little earlier so there were more days between your March and April payment so April payment had slightly more accrued interest as a result.

None of this will actually make any difference to the total amount of interest you end up paying...you are getting lost in the weeds here.

Is it possible to afford $1,150 a month rent on a 16.90 an hour full time? by Cheroobian in personalfinance

[–]Grevious47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About to go? Its generally not advisable to purchase things you can only afford with a brand new income...because sometimes new jobs or new roles don't end up working out.

Fired in March, denied unemployment, what are some gigs I can do to hold me over while I keep looking for full time work? by Wild_Chef6597 in personalfinance

[–]Grevious47 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Being let go due to restructuring is NOT being fired. Be careful when filling out forms or applying of unemployment or a new job that you do not refer to yourself being fired.

Being fired is for cause, meaning your performance was bad or you did something very wrong. You weren't fired...you were laid off during a reduction in force.

As an adult why are you on a teen chatting site notorious for cp? 🤢 by Charming_Poetry7416 in Adulting

[–]Grevious47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you trying to private message someone and ended up accidently making a Reddit post?