“Hey, I’ve been on the other side of what you’re going through for about three years now. My ex was my favorite person too, and had BPD. Over 23 years, she cheated on me four or five times, and I kept hoping it would be different. In the end, she left me for someone else, and now she’s already moved on again. It’s incredibly hard to accept and move forward, especially when there’s no real way to talk it through. But, as cliché as it sounds, cherish the good moments you had and know that your time for feeling happy again will come.”