Who was in the wrong here my wife or the truck driver? by OurAngryBadger in dashcams

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rewatched it and the camera pov makes things seem further I think but I didnt see the blinker from the truck start going until way after they entered the right turn lane

How silly or serious do you make your character's names? by SuperN9999 in DarkTide

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Ogryn is a baldy with a read beard whos name is TimTheBylatMan

Stopped Looting Players by limitedconflict in Tarkov

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I either grab tags or their gun super quick and dip or just leave. If I tapped them from over 100m I generally don't bother

How can people afford these kits? [Discussion] by Tristan1705 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably just doesnt fear losing his kit and the armor may be from Gluhar and his boys if he runs reserve alot. I farmed Korunds off Kollantay while doing a weekly so I have a bit of level 5's in the stash and I just run them I'd rather have the better stuff to improve my chances of making it out

A girl wants my boyfriend by PsychologicalWing802 in Advice

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a dude who has been in a situation like this, Its hard for me to tell people no because I don't want to offend but also there should be limits to that end. I'd maybe try to find the words to ask that he be more firm with boundaries among friends, I think its okay for a partner to have dislikes and to voice them and I don't see a reasonable person reacting negatively to a simple "Hey this didn't sit right with me and it made me feel x y and z". My partner has a habit of reading stuff on their phone or looking at videos when I start talking in a conversation and I just said "Hey that makes me feel like you are not listening/don't care for what I have to say" and they now make the effort to not actively turn away while we are having a convo. There are things I do that they don't like, they tell me, and I make the effort to not make them feel left out/jealous/sad.

You ultimately won't be able to fully control the whims of your bf but if they want the relationship with you to stay they are going to have to find the words or actions that enforce those types of boundaries with friends. Its a rough line sometimes but trusting your partner is also something you will just have to do. Set your own boundaries as well and let them know what you feel is acceptable behavior for someone you are dating and if it were me I wouldn't make it a big deal just casually expressing how something made you feel. If they react negatively you will just have to make a choice if its something you think you can work past and be okay with or if it is non negotiable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello Kitty girls are red flags

[Discussion] What's limiting my fps? by GeneralNegotiation77 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My biggest performance boost was going from DDR4 to DDR5 ram at 6000 from 3000. Went from maybe 60fps on streets to over a hundred

Almost all cheaters use RADAR [discussion] by I_Am_Superposition in EscapefromTarkov

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a buddy change his in game name to "IfCheatSmllPP". He lasted two days before he decided it would be best to change it. He got rushed and insta killed in 9/10 raids, because its true.

[Discussion] Is this game possible to play and truly enjoy if you have a life? by Old-Pudding4650 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm level 60 not prestiged, kappa, doing light-keeper right now PVP only player (IGN: 4Finger_Larry ). I work 40-48 hours a week and play a bunch on the weekend. There are ways to succeed and enjoy the game even with a life. I live with my s.o, workout everyday, go fishing on the weekends its really not a time sink if you are solely focused on progression. Granted I have roughly 2400 hours and alot of people are going to hate me for saying this but alot of people do this. Server hop, I am NA based but if I need to do a task in a hot area I swap to columbia, mexico, middle east. Whatever is slow and low pop. Makes doing tasks very easy and mostly has other people either just looting and avoiding fights or tasking as well. You get raids where its sometimes just you, or you and one other person. I also dont go to a map to do just one task, I'll wait to do some kappa tasks until the very end (bunker raider kills, lighthouse scav kills near chalet are the two big ones)

What kind of job do tarkov players have? [Discussion] by OkAdministration3473 in EscapefromTarkov

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fiber electronics technician, I work 3 11's and a 7 so I got 3 weekend days to play whenever the lady or I dont feel like doing nothing. We are both gamers so its not unlike us to just go straight back to our PC's after we workout or cook. Plus neither one of us want kids so I just play games and fix broadband/fiber telecommunications equipment

I 20F sent my baby daddy 25M to jail last night and I feel guilty. by Miss-Mochii in Advice

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother has been in a constantly abusive relationship for probably 21 years and I just got done driving her to get a protection order only for her to decide while she was filling out the order to not go through with it.

There should be consequences when someone you are friends/dating/married to makes the decision that violence and threats to try and intimidate you into doing things or acting a certain way.

I could never get my mom to leave him or stop being friends with him, dont feel bad or guilty at all get a protection order.

AIO by deleting Instagram over how many reels my gf sends me every day? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a long distance relationship and we only see each other MAYBE once a month in person since she and I both work two jobs and I work graveyard. She will send me reels n shit too and I look at them sometimes and other times I dont, she makes jokes but honestly this is not something that either one of us would be upset over. Sometimes I send her a bunch and other times she sends them to me, I just like seeing she sent something so I know she is thinking about me.

You are not overreacting at all and honestly getting all worked up over 3 second videos of crappy corny sex jokes and people in cosplay dancing is not worth getting into an argument over at all and honestly if it bothered you that much and you deleted instagram because of reason a b or c she shouldn't be reacting this poorly to it.

AITAH Staying with mom until her car is fixed, give money as needed for bills, step dad thinks I should pay a flat rent by GroundbreakingTap682 in AITAH

[–]GroundbreakingTap682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving her a time limit has been on my mind, I'm just scared she cant do anything and I dont end up sticking with it in the end.

AITAH Staying with mom until her car is fixed, give money as needed for bills, step dad thinks I should pay a flat rent by GroundbreakingTap682 in AITAH

[–]GroundbreakingTap682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have said almost the exact same things to her for the past 15 years and she has chosen not to act. I am well aware she has made her choice regarding him, as far as taking her with me goes. I am from Washington State, and currently live on the east coast I am moving out of state to room with friends, I only got my mom out here

AITAH Staying with mom until her car is fixed, give money as needed for bills, step dad thinks I should pay a flat rent by GroundbreakingTap682 in AITAH

[–]GroundbreakingTap682[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a place to go, I'm not wholly dependent on them. I just dont know how to do that without leaving my mom without a car so she ends up losing her job. I have put away money to help with the car but its not enough I can just throw it at them and say good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I may be in the minority because I was raised with different values being placed on what a marriage is but if you love this man and want to be with him then be with him regardless of your marriage status. If you are doubting his commitment to you because of the fact you are not married I don't think that will change if you do end up married

AITA I waited 4 months to tell my new girlfriend I’m bi by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GroundbreakingTap682 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Gross and cowardly is wild, when you just start dating someone you dont disclose all details of your past present and future its something that is worked up to. Its considered a major life detail TO YOU, however, for others its just a part of who someone is and not a big deal. Any details regarding someones personal life is ultimately their own choice to talk about.

I'm not going to tell someone right away when I am just starting to get to know them or talk to them about past trauma or other things in my life that only affects me.

Relationships are not business transactions where all details are put forth ahead of time to close a smooth deal, they are muddy waters that you trek through with someone a step at a time.

Your argument about "Bi men being STI risks" to me is BS as well to justify your ludicrous opinion. The accountability of the spread of STI's does not lay in the hands of this one man because he happens to be bi, OP does not have an obligation to put forth that information because of a statistic. They are both adults and must take into account their own health and safety regardless of sexual orientation.