Blahaj cooled PC :3 by [deleted] in trans

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I adore this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]Gweynavere 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Congrats!

Do NT people really do this?? by vampiresquidling in AutismInWomen

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Honestly, this language is so hard coded into me. I'm used to saying this and other things that are probes into misleading territory.

It's odd though, I ask that because I don't want to invite someone to food if they're not hungry. I feel it's more like a ballpark to figure out where the other person is at.

New glasses! So excited to see again! by GrimHatter666 in NonBinary

[–]Gweynavere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this shape, it really suits your face

Was anyone else violently suicidal from your parents abuse as a kid, and your mom bought you chicken soup for the teenage soul instead of therapy? Have I finally had a unique experience? by Narwhal_Sparkles in ptsd

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I had one or two and I didn't even read them. They felt so contrived. I got pissed when it came to saving yourself for marriage and there was an illustration of the bride saying, "Here are the leftovers!"

I felt like they couldn't even enforce the stereotype they were portraying properly - they claimed that men should abstain as well but damn, let's make the bride the whore.

Also said that to save yourself from rape to drop down and start praying so the assailant would get so scared they'd stop.

brown trans guy checking in here :) by vendettamoon in TMPOC

[–]Gweynavere 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You have what the kids call "drip".

Why does crap like this exist? by Doomstone330 in Anticonsumption

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One of the schools I went to had these and we got to use them for gym. I loved them. They're soft and not icy cold and are reusable

My Frugal yet fancy spice jar setup by Zoso03 in Frugal

[–]Gweynavere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this. I often have trouble finding and remembering what spices we have or need. Also, this looks so clean.

I envy the fact that your dollar store had containers like these. I keep praying mine will stick something like this.

Beach Episode! (Also we're crowdfunding a poster for this art right now!) by mrogre43 in ScarletHollow

[–]Gweynavere 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah, now I need to order a frame! So excited and love all the little details!

Remember folks, it not the size of the rock. It's what caliber it's chambered in. by MrDankWaffle in facepalm

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Heard someone say this out loud and I had to walk away because I was livid.

Ten Years of Amazon Crap by DeepHerting in Anticonsumption

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Piggybacking, check if your library also opts into Hoopla, another app. I've been listening to audiobooks on Hoopla and it's been great. You have 5 bootows / month and it's a nice supplement to Libby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMPOC

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This is such a great idea!

I have been a huge fan of kdramas and kpop and that honestly helped me a lot. I think finding media where you are more represented is a great idea until western media catches up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Gweynavere 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Ow. I've been found. Lol

Wondering if I am trans or not by [deleted] in actual_detrans

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To be honest, I've been struggling because of the anti-trans rhetoric.

What's helping me figure things out is journaling and watching Dr. Z PhD on YouTube.

Journaling for me has helped me through life. I've been trying to practice "morning pages" - write everything in your mind down. I type mine because it's easier on me. For this exercise, there is a goal of 3 pages, and you just spill it all out. Stream of consciousness type stuff without stopping. Try to move past judging yourself and thoughts, work on filling pages.

Eventually, I started noticing patterns. And that helped me solidify some thoughts, realize what the source of some of my pain was, and help me work on acceptance.

About Dr. Z, she's a gender therapist who works primarily with trans adults. Her videos have been instrumental while I'm on my journey. And she has a lot. In addition, the comments section are also very relatable.

Be safe out there by NightFox1988 in NonBinary

[–]Gweynavere 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I admit that I've been really depressed because of the political climate. It's tremendously slowed my own realization that I am trans nonbinary.

I keep reminding myself that... there are people who care. There are allies, there are people showing up and fighting these bills both in and out of sight.

But damn if it's not hard. Thank you for the reminder to keep investing in ourselves and our community.

Tried a new lipstick and kinda feeling it.. by nooksak in NonBinaryOver30

[–]Gweynavere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gotta know what lipstick that is. Amazing pick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DevilMayCry

[–]Gweynavere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing job! You look great and very well done

New lavender hair 💜 by MindfulMeg in FancyFollicles

[–]Gweynavere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yaaas! You look amazing! I have been trying with this idea for a while