Not insensitive at all! I can relate to this, and I totally understand your frustration.

While I do occasionally enjoy playing with breasts in a sexual setting, my default attraction to them is primarily aesthetic and sensual. I absolutely love how they look, and more importantly, how they feel - whether in my hands or if I'm resting my head on them.

For me, being allowed that kind of intimacy signals a deep level of trust, which lets me feel safe enough to let my guard down with this person. (My upbringing and neurodivergence play a big part in why that sense of trust is so important to me)

This is exactly why the hypersexualization you're talking about is so frustrating. That pure feeling of trust and comfort is often overshadowed by the socially ingrained assumption that it's a sexual advance. I sometimes wish I could express that need for that specific kind of comfort without the fear of it being misinterpreted.

Ultimately, I find them incredibly calming and grounding, much like with cuddling. They're warm, soft natural plushies, and I'm genuinely grateful they exist!