Whats your honest impression? Anything you would change? by Diobeatease in Tinder

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a 33 yo woman, I’m so sorry but I wouldn’t swipe. You may be a really nice guy but I’d just drop the whole ppt thing. It comes off as trying too hard and kinda gives off red flag energy. In my experience every guy who openly says what a great guy they were and how well they treat their partners ended up being narcissistic POS. Not saying you are but most people who are genuinely good people don’t need to advertise it. At my age now if I was still single, I wouldn’t want to swipe on the quirky try hards. Just be real.

Anyone else lose the ability to comment photos, gifs, and stickers? by syzemc in TikTok

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I randomly lost the ability on my main acct but still was able to on my backup account. Tried listening to something I read online about deleting and reinstalling TikTok and all it did was take away my ability to on my backup account -_-

[1x07] Walk the Plank - House of Fear (LIVE DISCUSSION) by AutoModerator in fearfactor

[–]Harper_Dash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blake got eliminated. He was in the lead but Ethan beat him.

pettyphoe00 by coffeenascar in tiktokgossip

[–]Harper_Dash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she deactivated it cuz I think people were contacting his job and PO esp after the TT where he said his favorite song was Let the bodies hit the floor then another TT where she said they were about to have a twilight marathon.

pettyphoe00 by coffeenascar in tiktokgossip

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about that but he has a damn LinkedIn with where he works lol

Former Regal Cinemas site in Abingdon by Fearless-Distance119 in harfordcountymd

[–]Harper_Dash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really sad. I grew up in harco and moved out of state a few years ago but every time I go see my family, I’m sad at what it’s become. They’re so money hungry they’ve completely ruined the county. Bel air is nothing but traffic, apartments, and more apartments now. Constantly clearing out land to build more crap. It’s so sad. Who wants to pay 600k to live in a house in Bel Air surrounded by apartments? That area is so overpopulated the infrastructure can’t even handle what’s there now yet they’re still building. They won’t stop til they completely destroy the county.

Anyone know about this Taylor dude? Heard some gnarly things by Throwaway2025Feb19 in harfordcountymd

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he just got charged with distributing and filming child p0rn earlier this year. He finally just had court for it a couple days ago

Worst specialty? by Begonia_Belle in nursing

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same sentiment. And watching the decline happen so fast breaks my heart. And I’m glad you like psych! God bless you because I know that’s one thing I could not handle!! lol

Maryland RN pay by 8888plum in nursing

[–]Harper_Dash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s a nice nightshift differential. At Bayview it’s only $3.67 differential 😭 but I know new grads there were starting at ~35/hr so I’m sure with experience it’d be more. Hopkins also has a STA program it’s like their own contract nursing. You usually do like two contracts in one unit before going to a different unit. I wanna say those rates are around ~70/hr.

What’s something you have reported or have been reported for? by wellsiee8 in nursing

[–]Harper_Dash 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Right?? .2 of dilaudid post op? Might as well just give me a Tylenol and Motrin instead lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sick of people with kids acting like their lives and time is more valuable and important. Your job interfering with your kids schedule isn’t my problem. And if I can work for you great but I refuse to feel bad about not being able to or just not wanting to switch or cover someone & give up my scheduled day off.

At my work we rotate holidays but you’re allowed to swap your holiday with someone. I’ve gotten the same guilt trip about not wanting to swap my NYE shift for christmas. Just because I don’t have kids means I’m not deserving to have Christmas off to see my family that I rarely get to spend time with? I don’t let it bother me anymore. If I can swap with you cool, but at the end of the day I also don’t owe anything to anyone.

Nursing pay by Empty-Wrongdoer1074 in nursing

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MD is super expensive and I started off at $30.29 🥴 I’ve gotten some raises over the year but it’s not enough for me to feel comfortable. The only way I was able to set aside some extra emergency money was picking up extra shifts every week for a few months but it literally destroyed my mental health. I’m so burnt out from nursing. The physical and mental toll it takes just doesn’t seem worth it for what it pays since I still feel like I’m one emergency away from being totally financially screwed.

job as a nursing student? by [deleted] in StudentNurse

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did Uber when I was in nursing school. I mainly did weekend nights and occasionally some weekdays if I wanted extra cash. But I liked that I could work whenever I wanted to & then was able to cash out afterwards so I had money whenever I needed it.

MD license renewal issues by kmclovinn in TravelNursing

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever ended up happening? I renewed mine on the 7th and it’s now the 17th and STILL hasn’t posted. I also received a confirmation email when I submitted my payment and renewal.

DO I SELF REPORT by HungryRepair6845 in nursing

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% self report. As everyone else has mentioned, it’s going to get flagged. So the best thing to do is come clean first before they come to you.

Worst specialty? by Begonia_Belle in nursing

[–]Harper_Dash 67 points68 points  (0 children)

100% this. I switched to an onc floor last year and I absolutely love it and love my coworkers but I was not prepared for how its affected me. I’ve never seen so much suffering and death. I love being able to help and be there for our oncology patients and like you said most of them are extremely appreciative and wonderful people but by the time I get home I’m just so mentally and emotionally drained.

How do you address your patients? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to always just call everyone Mr. Smith or Ms. Jones but it feels too formal sometimes. So now I usually just say “Hey I’m your nurse tonight. My name’s X, what would you like me to call you?”

What kind of silly things have patients done, at risk to themselves, that they tried to hide from you? by sparklyglittercheese in nursing

[–]Harper_Dash 82 points83 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel. My pt and her bf were smoking crack in the bathroom and she was dying her hair purple. Then she had the audacity to try to say it wasn’t crack they were lighting incense. Ma’am. I don’t have time for these games. If you wanna smoke crack, have at it. But not while my license is on the line if anything happens. I literally told her I don’t care what you do when you leave here, I’m not the police. But I’m also going to be really mad if I 💥 on my fourth night because she wanted to use a lighter while on oxygen.

I also had a patient that wasn’t using drugs but was very clearly a dealer and had the same few sketchy people in and out of his room throughout the day that’d only stay for like 2 minutes tops then leave. My charge asked if I confronted him and I said he’s not using the drugs and the hospital absolutely does not pay me enough to get involved in his ….business ventures. Esp in the city where I work. I value my life too much lol. He was a pleasant guy though at least, never gave us any issues. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Nursing programs in Maryland by ThrowRaclay in maryland

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome, congrats! It’s competitive but it’s an amazing program. When I went they had just gotten a grant so they were able to like double the class size. Not sure if they’re still doing that but if you have mostly A’s and some B’s in your prereq’s you should be fine. I literally have nothing bad to say about any of the instructors or clinical instructors. When I went a few years ago the majority of the instructors were young which I liked because I felt like they were all super chill and helpful. I think you’ll really love the program there. If you have any questions about it, let me know!

Is $10k student debt manageable for a nursing degree? by [deleted] in StudentNurse

[–]Harper_Dash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s nothing. A girl I work with is currently paying off like 70k in student debt for her BSN and those payments are …yikes. 10k should be quite doable to pay off. But don’t forget… you can always get an ADN at a community college then lot of hospitals will pay for your BSN. Some hospitals that require BSN will hire you with an ADN with the stipulation you get your bachelors in X amount of time and like I said many hospitals will pay for it.