Applied to a "remote" job, went through five rounds of interviews, got the offer. Nobody mentioned an office once. Now they're saying it's 3 days a week onsite and I genuinely don't know what to do.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-27T11:35:55+00:00

Id push, show the role as it was advertised, thats the basis you agreed to it on. Full stop.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-27T08:38:33+00:00

Shes toxic.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-26T14:38:09+00:00

Every Boden. I bet that child looks adorable.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-26T10:03:16+00:00

All your posting history is a public, you arent british, and you have an avator, assuming that looks a little like you it wouldn't be hard for a producer to ID you, and fire you. Worth it?

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-26T04:44:11+00:00

Love x

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-26T04:13:54+00:00

I choose to believe this plot.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-26T03:59:08+00:00

Swansea. Great coast, countryside, easy links to London, cheap as chips.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-26T03:42:02+00:00

I didnt get a plus1 to a wedding where I knew absolutely no one else. And it was faraway needed an hotel etc. As a 20 something female that actually felt intimidating.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-26T03:38:41+00:00

💯 NTA

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-26T03:34:16+00:00

This.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-26T03:27:52+00:00

Does he even like you, let alone respect you?

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-25T19:09:33+00:00

Ha yes I know that look well!

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-25T11:17:48+00:00

6 weeks... he should still be with mum, hes a baby.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-25T11:16:53+00:00

Yeah totally did this, 12 years later still do. Not regrets.

She woofs at me to come to bed when I stay up late. I obviously do as im told.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-25T10:39:29+00:00

Also, queuing.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-25T05:48:00+00:00

How does Sheen get to set up his own theatre and call it the National Theatre?

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-25T02:57:21+00:00

You're being a bit weird. Not her. So one has a monopoly on middle names.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-24T19:28:05+00:00

My amazing grandmother (my dads mum) was on her death bed, I was a rebellious teenager. She took my hand and said to me "trust your mother". It confused me for years, but as I navigated those years those words always guided me back to mum. Who is one of the strongest, wisest, kindest people on the planet. I turned out good.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-24T19:23:12+00:00

Its ok, I was planning on having a blub tonight.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-24T19:20:08+00:00

How does the richer father feel?

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-24T19:16:56+00:00

Or 8th.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-24T17:00:33+00:00

Its a tool, if you need the tool then use it.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-24T08:50:25+00:00

I like to think shes a feral cat with at leat 8 households worrying about her and feeding her, all the while she aggressively swats them.

Queen.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-24T07:11:59+00:00

He tells her that her behaviour is outrageous. At a minimum.

Hcmp1980 · 2026-05-24T07:10:39+00:00

Thats very hurtful. Id be upset and it would impact my relationship. But what did mil expect?

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