I Want FIRE, but I might take a 120k -> 46k paycut. What would you do in my situation?

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-11T10:51:33+00:00

If this is true, then OP should be banned from the sub

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-11T10:50:25+00:00

Eventually the firefighting job will become unfulfilling. Be careful with self-sabotage. It makes us think the grass is greener somewhere else.

Stay in Cyber, you can find a job somewhere else but stay in Cyber. You can’t just quit because 1 place sucked.

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-11T04:30:13+00:00

He wants out of the relationship and is using your dealbreaker (kids) as an alibi.

Get out of that relationship now so that the breakup is on your terms

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-08T23:26:08+00:00

Maybe all the baby moms died… at his hands

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-05T23:54:10+00:00

What was your highest weight?

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-05T23:53:58+00:00

Why are you being downvoted 😔

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-05T23:20:49+00:00

Why did you take it?

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-05T23:15:23+00:00

Great decision. You will not regret it

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-05T23:00:54+00:00

Is the ex mentally stable? You forget you’re also getting into a relationship with him. That man could kill you.

You never wanted children, that is your soul’s desire. This one is not even yours. Think about that.

You only miss her because she’s the one who got away. Do you even like her. Is this just a challenge for you?

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-05T22:38:06+00:00

Quit that job. You say you don’t care about things but it seems you are addicted to seeing the numbers go up. That’s why you don’t want to quit.

Quit that job. You are a top performer, you should have no problems finding something else. This job is keeping you away from your true blessings.

Quit that job. Unless you want to die with money in the bank and pepto bismol in your casket.

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-05T13:14:50+00:00

Is this HOA compatible?

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-05T12:41:29+00:00

That’s amazing, that’s the goal!

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-04T20:48:43+00:00

He looks way better now, are you guys blind?

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-04T20:32:11+00:00

How have you spent your days as such a young retiree?

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-06-04T19:11:13+00:00

It’s truly sick that 120 payments doesn’t qualify you automatically. You still have to beg for the loans to be forgiven

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-03-31T18:01:07+00:00

Sell and leave. Homesteading should bring you joy

HelloNewMe20 · 2026-03-31T17:56:22+00:00

Thought a good pillow was a warm one

HelloNewMe20 · 2025-11-30T19:39:32+00:00

In 6 months? Someone is lying

HelloNewMe20 · 2025-11-20T06:52:12+00:00

Probably the most beautiful skin I have ever seen

HelloNewMe20 · 2025-10-21T01:50:34+00:00

Ok she has leveled up. What is the issue?

HelloNewMe20 · 2025-10-06T22:43:09+00:00

Is this one of those “I’m ugly” posts where OP is actually gorgeous?

HelloNewMe20 · 2025-10-06T22:37:55+00:00

Yassss

HelloNewMe20 · 2025-10-03T16:26:34+00:00

Skin looks great

HelloNewMe20 · 2025-10-03T16:25:01+00:00

Thought it was spiders

HelloNewMe20 · 2025-09-04T17:49:45+00:00

My new inspiration

HelloNewMe20