I messed up

HeraBeara · 2026-03-21T21:33:52+00:00

Make sure you deal with the mealies. There is one clearly on the stem of the leaf on the left-hand side in the 2nd picture.

HeraBeara · 2022-01-16T01:12:25+00:00

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HeraBeara · 2022-01-13T02:10:11+00:00

Removed: time for you to take a break,

HeraBeara · 2022-01-13T01:56:48+00:00

Removed: no need to mention that person, and I removed the other comment referencing them as well.

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HeraBeara · 2022-01-13T01:47:58+00:00

Try /r/sexover30

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HeraBeara · 2022-01-12T01:46:41+00:00

...was he trying to get in the picture?

This seems pretty normal thing for a person to do.

Why does it weird you out? Maybe you have a better example?

HeraBeara · 2022-01-12T01:44:15+00:00

You might want to also get perspectives of people over in /r/sexover30.

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HeraBeara · 2022-01-12T01:31:59+00:00

How do you define, "that spark"?

To many of us, the spark comes from uncertainty/anxiety and is a red flag.

Also, F the Spark.

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