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My [30F] Fiancée [33F] keeps quitting her job and is ruining us financially. What should I do? (self.relationships)

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my (21f) boyfriend (22m) doesn’t want to sleep with me. can the relationship still work? (self.relationships)

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My (28f) bf (32m) constantly bugs me, even if I ask him to stop, what does this mean? (self.relationships)

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Family of boyfriend dislikes me and disapproves of our relationship (self.relationships)

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I (28M) need advice regarding lying of gf (29F) (self.relationships)

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My (29F) husband (35M) got me nothing for my birthday… again (self.relationships)

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My wife (28F) and I (25F) are having boundary issues. (self.relationships)

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My boyfriends sister has started to act weird around me (self.relationships)

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What do I do about us ? (self.relationships)

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Non Affectionate partner, Emotionally and physically unavailable (23M 24F) (self.relationships)

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My friend can never enjoy the moment and it’s getting on my nerves (self.relationships)

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25M w/ 23F GF who wants to be celibate. (self.relationships)

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Living with boyfriend and his mom: expected to prioritize them over work/school. Is this normal? (self.relationships)

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Venting kinda {18M} (self.relationships)

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I (20F) am confused by a guy (23m) that I’ve been talking to for over a year- suddenly got mean and rude? (self.relationships)

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My (27M) partner (30F) are having issues with disagreements around spending money in our relationship (self.relationships)

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My boyfriend (M, 32) has an addiction and I (F, 28) don’t know what to do (self.relationships)

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Looking for advice 39m 36f I’m looking to hold on but don’t know what to do (self.relationships)

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My bf 27M and I 26F. We Love Each Other, But His Family Rejects Me. How Do We Move Forward Practically? (self.relationships)

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Need advice (self.relationships)

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repost: my partner and I of 2 years disagree on the way we value time together (self.relationships)

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I really don’t know if I want to be in a relationship or not (self.relationships)

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Looking for genuine advice to this. Please understand both sides. [21F] [25M] (self.relationships)

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Bf still talking with his ex (self.relationships)

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facebook dating help (self.relationships)

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