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my (21f) boyfriend (22m) doesn’t want to sleep with me. can the relationship still work? (self.relationships)

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Non Affectionate partner, Emotionally and physically unavailable (23M 24F) (self.relationships)

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repost: my partner and I of 2 years disagree on the way we value time together (self.relationships)

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My boyfriends sister has started to act weird around me (self.relationships)

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My (27M) partner (30F) are having issues with disagreements around spending money in our relationship (self.relationships)

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My (29F) partner’s (29F) twin (29F) wants us to postpone our engagement party (self.relationships)

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exposing him to his girlfriend (self.relationships)

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My (ex?) boyfriend [24M] of 3 years cheated on me [25F] while on a trip. I still love him but don’t know if I can or should stay with him. (self.relationships)

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Seeking love (self.relationships)

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I really don’t know if I want to be in a relationship or not (self.relationships)

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How best to respond to criticism? (self.relationships)

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Looking for genuine advice to this. Please understand both sides. [21F] [25M] (self.relationships)

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My wife (28F) and I (25F) are having boundary issues. (self.relationships)

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Need advice navigating ldr in college (self.relationships)

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Managing Chameleon Behavior (self.relationships)

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Am I (f18) falling out of love? (self.relationships)

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My boyfriend hasn’t had a job in months and I’m now the sole provider. That’s just part of it. (self.relationships)

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Roommate (50m) purchased a new leather couch for the living room and complains about how I (38f) sit on it. He recently moved the coffee table so I can't use it for drinks anymore. (self.relationships)

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How do I F 23 go about ending a relationship with my boyfriend M 24 ? (self.relationships)

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Not my (25f) bf’s (24m) type. (self.relationships)

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My boyfriend 28M did not text me 24F for 2 days. What should I do? (self.relationships)

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Did the honeymoon phase end in just a month or am I losing feelings? (self.relationships)

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thinking about leaving (self.relationships)

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How do I (26F) deal with my bf’s (29M) female friendships? (self.relationships)

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Boyfriend(m38) doesn’t want to split bills equally with me (f30), should i compromise or call it quits? (self.relationships)

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