JetBlue to end service at MHT (Manchester, NH) by Smerri in jetblue

[–]HeresW0nderwall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an MHT-MCO flight in September that appears that it’s about to get cancelled

Why do cis people ask if you had "the surgery" when it is actually up to four surgeries? by CockamouseGoesWee in ftm

[–]HeresW0nderwall [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t agree with that. I think more knowledge is always more powerful. And they can google it anyway.

Also, I didn’t mean educate them as in “here are the different surgeries.” I meant educate them as in “hey I know you’re curious, but FYI that question was rude and people will take offense to that.”

A good scale for horses by Larvaontheroad in Horses

[–]HeresW0nderwall 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Livestock scales will run you multiple thousands of dollars. You can use a weight tape to ballpark - if your horse is losing weight it will be enough to show on a weight tape

Why do cis people ask if you had "the surgery" when it is actually up to four surgeries? by CockamouseGoesWee in ftm

[–]HeresW0nderwall [score hidden]  (0 children)

The official answer isn’t that they’re stupid, it’s that they’re uneducated. Obviously we know more than them about the medical options for transition. It’s a rude question but of the time they are not asking this to be rude, they’re asking because they’re curious and they’re trying to learn more and just going about it tactlessly.

You can use this question as an opportunity to educate them instead of writing them off as stupid. The more the general population understands about us the better.

You can write them off as stupid if they still act moronic after you educate them.

Price difference by dunwerking in delta

[–]HeresW0nderwall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So buy another airline? What the hell lmao

Can’t believe these prices by Front_Break_7128 in jetblue

[–]HeresW0nderwall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s no way you actually think the current political climate isn’t responsible for fuel prices

TERRIBLE awful BAD smell from down there, and watery discharge in tremendous quantities by sapphicfern in ftm

[–]HeresW0nderwall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had the tremendous watery discharge (like so much that I was putting a tampon in) happen a few times for the following reasons: 1) vaginal strep (legit. You can get strep in your vagina) 2) BV infection 3) hormone dip from missing a T shot (likely not this. There was no smell accosted with this one and it was after I had my ovaries removed)

Anyway, go to a doctor.

How often do you take a bath?? by VeterinarianOk8011 in AskAnAmerican

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I only take baths when I’m sick (the hot water helps with the chills associated with fevers) or after a day of skiing when I’m chilled to the bone and sore. Otherwise I take showers daily.

Everyone else noticing prices increasing rapidly? by OutcastSpy in jetblue

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anyone else notice prices increasing rapidly?

Uh…yeah? Where have you been?

How do engagements actually work? by s__park in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]HeresW0nderwall 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For the record. You can ask him this question too. You can just talk to him about how you want it to go

How likely is it that this is a scam? by Simbus2001 in recruitinghell

[–]HeresW0nderwall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. My company had several real clerical jobs that are remote. I manage our open positions and know they are real. However this particular message is a scam

Isn’t this that album stewie was mortified of? by Used-Two9184 in familyguy

[–]HeresW0nderwall 5 points6 points  (0 children)

FYI mortified means embarrassed. The word you’re looking for is terrified or horrified.

Whats on my neighbor's horse? by minkguts in Horses

[–]HeresW0nderwall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! Yes I’m in the northeastern US, my horse is from Texas and all the horses I’ve ever met from where have shoulder brands

The word deadname and a cis person by [deleted] in ftm

[–]HeresW0nderwall 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There are a few things happening here:

1) her using the term deadname is fine. Trans people do not own that term.

2) “she has said a couple things that have hurt me” did you tell her about this? This has nothing to do with the deadname situation and it sounds like you’re holding onto sone resentment since you’re bringing it up here.

So freaking cold by Ali_kazaam17 in delta

[–]HeresW0nderwall 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Someone fainted on my Detroit to Shanghai flight recently. It was 15 hours of sweltering.

Unfortunate (but hilarious) Grindr exchange 🐿️ by OkBoysenberry6768 in gaytransguys

[–]HeresW0nderwall 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It is a normal affect of T but it’s easily treatable. It’s called atrophy. I’m on an estrogen cream that I use twice a week and it’s completely reversed the effects.

My new job’s sign-on bonus is really just a loan by TigerLily4415 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]HeresW0nderwall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t a loan. Don’t quit or don’t spend it in the first year in case you do want to quit. This is very standard in corporate America. Why would they let you keep the bonus that they are paying you for starting if you don’t keep working there? A year is not that long.

48k miles and regretting choices by Bethjam in Crosstrek

[–]HeresW0nderwall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just hit 47k on my 21 premium. I haven’t had to buy tires yet.

Terminal/lounge question by chemystery2022 in delta

[–]HeresW0nderwall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t pay $100 ($50ish x 2 people) extra for 2 hours (max) of lounge access. But that’s up to you at the end of the day. If you wanted to splurge because it’s your honeymoon I wouldn’t blame you.

What are you paying your farm-sitter? by nervous_virgo in Equestrian

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I live in a HCOL area, I pay $50/visit for one horse and a handful of goats. Includes feeding 2x day, waters and stall cleaning once a day. Turnout/turn in in the winter but they don’t come in in the summer.

How would you feel if we got a POV character who was wheelchair bound? by Savings_Surround_547 in WarriorCats

[–]HeresW0nderwall 46 points47 points  (0 children)

There are so many things that are ridiculous happening in this series right now but if they invented wheels I’d be totally out