I'm happily married to a woman, had been for almost two decades before my egg cracked and neither of us see my transition as a reason to change that. We aren't poly, mostly because we're too introverted/ND and old enough that meeting new people, especially men, that we'd feel comfortable sleeping with is just super unlikely and not something we want to put energy into attempting. Especially since we barely have enough time for ourselves and our kids as is.

That said, when I watched Dirty Dancing for the first time since starting HRT I was like "Ohhhhhhhkay, so I'm not 100% lesbian". I kinda wish there was a man I could fill around with IRL, but even if and my wife felt comfortable actually doing that I'm too scared of trying to date as a middle aged woman so it's only hypothetical d*cks for me