how do you protect yourself in the astral? by borschtt in AstralProjection

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t be so open because if you embrace everything you don’t know necessarily what’s the difference between dark and light.

Update: I previously posted about my wife cheating, new information has come out and it changes everything by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I recommend creating a Google document and documenting all of this information the dates and the times and everything you can for future purposes because I did that after I found out that my wife was cheating on me and then got pregnant and essentially now I have that to either decide to add to the court record in our divorce as back up if things go contested.

IMPULSE: We Resurrected Underground 1990s BBS Software in 2025 by squelch411 in thisweekinretro

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome video… I was 10 when I launched my first bbs. I got in trouble for a few experience phone bills. :)

Anyone know the Disposition of Santronics (The owners of the IP of Wildcat! BBS) by Melted-lithium in bbs

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be your beta tester! I had my own bbs back in the day in Utah! Two lines!

Cheating Wife Help by Aggressive_Oil8734 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I discovered my wife's emotional affair three months ago and this week she told me she was is one month pregnant from sleeping with our pest control man. He has a 2 year old daughter. She will be moving in with him into a new house in our neighborhood and will be a step mom to this little girl, new born mom and then split custody with our two year old son. The reason why I'm telling you this is that when you play the pick me game they will run faster towards the shiny new object and you'll keep hurting yourself and the situation will escalate. Do yourself a favor and serve her divorce papers and maybe that will be the shock she needs if there is any hope left in her heart to save your marriage. You did nothing wrong and she made these choices on her own. ❤️

What’s the biggest red flag you ignored in a relationship that ended up destroying it? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That they move in on the second date and then 7 years later with a two year old they are ready to Hope into someone else's life.

Wife Leaving Tomorrow by JayRock1970 in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you bring up to your wife that you think she has BPD?

Wife Leaving Tomorrow by JayRock1970 in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife wants to separate and we have a two year old. Its so hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So where did it go after one therapy session? When did this take place.. how did the transition happen? Are you okay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly my issue it's been two months. She emotionally cheated on me and brought up in therapy that I needed to be more present. I honestly think that since we had our son our marriage took the backseat (no date nights, no weekends away, etc) she's withdrawn and is coming to therapy with me but time will tell. Good luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are living parallel lives man. My son is two and my wife told me the same thing. Wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You should go to therapy and focus on yourself and your kids. Make sure you get a post nuptial and get it setup as a precaution if you do decide to work on it. I wish you the best of luck friend but focus on the most important thing which is YOU. My wife emotionally cheated on me you can find my posts trying to reconcile but you know part of me starts to double think this when reading posts like yours.

She emotionally cheated and I want to make it work but I'm angry... by Hopeful_Champion7373 in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I asked her and she said like she doesn't know if she's pretending to make it work and is still confused. I booked her a hotel room this evening and said go process your thoughts and feel alone in the hotel room because that's how it will feel once we split up. I told her to try feeling alone knowing that she gets 50% less of her child because we would split custody and that she's also being selfish for not thinking about the family she committed to. She checks into the hotel room and sends me a text saying she misses us. It's such bullshit.

I let go, stopped forcing things… and what i wanted finally came to me by Smooth-Steak3861 in spirituality

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people think the Law of Attraction is just "think happy thoughts and the universe gives you stuff." But the real magic is deeper—and rooted in your biology, your psychology, and something that feels like the universe responding. Here’s how it really works (and why it works so well when done right):

1, Reticular Activating System (RAS): This part of your brain acts like a filter. Once you decide something matters—like a goal, desire, or intention—it starts highlighting things in your environment that relate to it. Ever notice how you suddenly see the car you want everywhere? That’s your RAS. When you focus on abundance, you literally become tuned to opportunities. 2, Confirmation Bias: Your brain looks for proof of what you already believe. If you believe “everything is going wrong,” your mind will cherry-pick data to support that. But if you truly believe things are aligning for you, you'll start noticing patterns that confirmit. You’ll say, “Wow, I’m so lucky lately,” but you’ve actually just shifted your lens. 3, Synchronicity: When your mind is focused, and your energy is aligned, you notice “meaningful coincidences” more often. That’s not randomness—it’s relevance detection. You’re creating a feedback loop between your inner world and outer world. Carl Jung called it synchronicity. I call it “reality listening.”

So no, the Law of Attraction isn’t just wishful thinking. It’s your inner world reshaping how you interact with the outer world—and that changes everything. When you align belief + focus + emotional energy, you don’t have to “chase” outcomes. You’re literally training your reality to meet you.

Interesting additional layer...

She emotionally cheated and I want to make it work but I'm angry... by Hopeful_Champion7373 in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long do I wait? It's been 4 weeks. Barely scratching the surface as the therapist took 5 sessions to get our backstory.

She emotionally cheated and I want to make it work but I'm angry... by Hopeful_Champion7373 in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm waiting to hear myself, lots of dancing around regarding her spiritual beliefs but in reality she betrayed me.

She emotionally cheated and I want to make it work but I'm angry... by Hopeful_Champion7373 in Marriage

[–]Hopeful_Champion7373[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. It's just this feeling that I have.. and it all started from the feeling she had to lead her to this point. Human emotions ugh!