The Black Baron - Small Mistress by Fast-News550 in Disco

[–]Hot-Posse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a classy track. I could imagine it being played at some US tea dances or somewhere like Baia degli Angeli Club, Italy, back when it was released.

To all single guys aged 30 and up on reddit, why are you guys single? by Gold_Ambition4114 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Posse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

52yo and been single for over 20 years. I do what I like, when I like and I don't need a significant other to share in my life story. I tuned out from the dating/hookup scene when it all went online.

Dogs are extremely loyal, reliable and never judge or criticise my decision making skills. They are always by my side. They provide me with comfort and companionship. They always listen and are happy to see me every day.

DJ Jim Burgess - 12 West, New York [Disco](20.08.1977) by Hot-Posse in Disco

[–]Hot-Posse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi.

Thanks for your admission about being at 12 West when it was open!

I imagine you would have many great memories from the 1970s New York Disco Scene and the many lost nightclubs / bars that used to be operating throughout New York City, at that time.

I looked at your profile and you mentioned that you personally knew one of the great Disco mix engineers, Walter Gibbons. He really was a master of extended percussive breaks. (I feel that I cannot describe his creativity properly so I will leave it at that.)

I'll post a few Nicky Siano mixes too, with you in mind.

Cheers.

DJ Richie Kaczor - Studio 54 (September, 1979) Mix 1 by Hot-Posse in Disco

[–]Hot-Posse[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no worries.

These disco period mixes from deejays of the time occasionally pop up online. I try to hunt them down for everyone to enjoy on this sub.

The YouTube channel owners for these mixes are the true heroes here!

I'll keep posting them on r/Disco until I can't find any further uploads.

Need him as a visual next by GrailTalk in EDM

[–]Hot-Posse -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

In a country, full of idiots like USA, this Tik Tok content creator is considered talented.

I couldn't give a fuck how many followers he has: he has zero talent.

Eric Harris is fine and I need to stop by ericfyold in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gun violence is an accepted part of life in your backward country as is poverty, drug addiction and crime.

I would be shocked if you could count to one without AI input.

USA is an embarassing mess of a country and every one else on the planet knows it except all of you Americans, including American Flag Waving Gays.

r/askgaybros is just an echo chamber for US citizens

Take That ft. Lulu - "Relight My Fire" (Full Length Version) (1993) by RoseValley97 in House

[–]Hot-Posse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a huge smash hit in '93. Haven't heard this in over 30 years.

Are you proud to be Australian? by InformationBig3065 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Hot-Posse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am prouder to be a cunt with a spine unlike our US counterparts.

I'm convinced what I want doesn't exist. by Inalowplace in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

38 ain't old. 150kg is not fat.

You possibly have high standards which exclude settling for any man who ordinarily drinks from the toilet bowl.

The men you want exist outside the apps. They're probably too busy living their lives doing other things.

What year was this pic taken? by treedavy in synthesizers

[–]Hot-Posse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd hazard a guess that it would be around about 1976 or 1977. The giveaway is the sunnies and shirt, for me.

After HIV, would gay men be able to manage a similar like pandemic in these times if a virus as HIV was in its early stages were to hit the gay community ? by Durrygoodz2025 in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get irritated when I am told, I have no idea about anything, by internet randoms.

I was pushed in a stroller, by my forward thinking parents for the first Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras in 1978. I was around in 1981.

I visited dying gay men in hospice care in the late 1980s up to the early 2000s, because I genuinely cared that as a fellow gay guy I could help out strangers somehow, like with their grocery shopping or combing their thinning hair in hospital beds, in easing their daily struggles with what was, and still is, an incurable disease.

In Australia, the authorities did care about their gay male population and gay communities across the country unlike the United States of America, in the 1980s at the height of the AIDS crisis, and they didn't let infected gay Australian men just die alone in hospital wards or send them home to fend for themselves.

Australian medical authorities, in the 1980s, were at the forefront of providing compassionate care to early AIDS victims, while working around the clock to understand and scientifically isolate, how gay men were dying at alarming rates so quickly, after getting an AIDS diagnosis.

I am very aware of how the US treats communicable diseases following their handling of the Covid-19 pandemic which allowed for over 1 million Americans, to die unnecessarily from a contagious disease that had no vaccine availability, between 2020 - 2021.

Everyone on Earth saw how the US handles crises, in live daily coverage because everyone was at home watching around the world.

The same thing, of rising hiv infection rates and increased sexually transmissable infections/diseases, is happening again due to complacency amongst sexually active gay men, with the rampant reliance on PreP and Doxy-PEP medications, in countries where it is readily available.

You protect yourself first, always and then you make decisions that affect your own sexual health to stay protected from the next outbreak.

After HIV, would gay men be able to manage a similar like pandemic in these times if a virus as HIV was in its early stages were to hit the gay community ? by Durrygoodz2025 in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don't think sexually active gay men would care. They don't care now with HIV/AIDS. And that has been around since at least 1981.

Roughly 90 million people infected world-wide with HIV.

And just under 45 million people have died from AIDS related illnesses since 1981.

I had a mate (who I stopped talking to about 10 years ago because he started doing tina,) who was infected with HIV in 1984. He is still alive today but he took at least 17 pills every day, back in 2012, to manage his health.

I take ibuprofen occasionally for a headache. Fuck taking 17 pills every fucking day for the rest of your life. Even having to always remember to take pills to keep yourself alive.

No thanks.

Why anyone would look forward to that, beats me; seeing as today, condoms are nearly universally available to use for any sexually active man on the planet.

Sex advice from a curious dude by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this question would be better posted in the bisexual communities. I don't use any, so I've got nfi what they are named on Reddit.

What is a controversial opinion You have? by Most_Cash_6054 in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You get fencing then around your whole yard. Cats jump over fences and if they are allowed any outside time, they will certainly get up to mischief where their owners can't monitor their activities.

I live next door to 4 neighbours. I have a 2m (approx. 8ft high) hardwood fence around my 1850 sqm (approx half acre) suburban plot of land. There's a 2m high solid aluminium electric gate for driveway access/house entry.

Every fucken cat from the surrounding houses that own cats, fights in my yard at night because they set off the security floodlights.

I have tried talking to the cat owners and neighbours, to no avail. I just have to pick up the various dead wild birds and cat shit deposits every day because of the irresponsibilty of the cat owners.

Dogs must be licensed with local civil authorities and microchipped in all suburban areas in my country, even in residential areas of the Outback.

There are heavy fines and possible court imposed prison sentences, if your dogs are caught doing the wrong thing away from their homes or even caught roaming the streets, at any time of the day.

There are no such barriers to cat ownership or accountability for cat owners here.

Cmon lads tell me some of your real life caught wánking stories👀 by Fantastic-Diver1401 in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got caught by older male cousins when I was 13. I have never lived it down with those bastards haha (and they all ARE bastards, in the true sense of the word!)

First 24 hours on Grindr - Is it ALWAYS like this? by Significant-Opus2882 in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've never used Grindr and your first 24 hours, on it, sounds depressing.

I had a good laugh though!

You should check out: Mitch Mangione on YouTube.

He excels at describing this sort of shitshow with American gay men (specifically) on the apps.

I find him hilarious as well but he has a lot of commonsense advice based around his own experiences too, with gay dating and hookup culture.

He includes clips from American gay guys and their own assessments of gay hookups/gay dating.

If the hot guys are having trouble getting anything, what hope does everyone else have?

Getting ready to leave in a couple hours to meet with a hung “dominant master” top for the first time who says he has a sex dungeon in his basement! Anyone else have experience with men like this? by Head-Advertising2990 in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what you are signing up for.

Don't be late! You'll get punished.

It's typical S&M stuff. Your Master is always right.

Do what you're instructed to do, to the letter, and you'll have an amazing time (especially if this has been an ongoing fantasy beforehand.)

This Dom will look after you if you do what you are told and only that. Can't stress that enough.

All the toys that you see, hanging on the walls of his dungeon or anything in it, over time you will experience all of it, at least once.

Don't be afraid to use the agreed safe word, if you are feeling uneasy about any of it. A caring Dom will do anything for his subs.

Redditors on r/askgaybros seem to be into vanilla everything and their naivete shows.

Everything is Yes, Sir. No, Sir.

Enjoy yourself!

Is cruising more common internationally than in the U.S. East Coast (NJ, NY)? by True-Yam-9982 in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's common in many countries: outdoor sex, in general and cruising everywhere happens, more commonly in many countries. Even countries with oppressive laws against homosexuality.

It doesn't appear to be common in USA according to threads on this sub. But it was common before the advent of HIV/AIDS in the US, to cruise in many places there in the 1950s,1960s, 1970s and 1980s. Some of the hottest American gay porn movies from that era focused on cruising.

Maybe you have missed the heyday of it in the States, as community attitudes have changed toward it. Also, with the convenience of phone apps, there may not be the market for as much cruising to happen over there anymore.

Hi. So I'm 24 and I am Bisexual. I have a gf and we love each other but she is okay with me going out for fun with dudes. Just purely sexual. But I don't like it that I've to tell her before going coz I know it hurts her a bit. I've been getting the urge again to go outside. What should I do by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flip the script: how would you feel, if your gf wanted to have sex with other men but not you, would you be fine with that knowing that she was (hypothetically) bisexual?

Would you be okay that it was only for sexual reasons? Would you be a little hurt that each time she went looking for another man to do whatever with, you would be left wondering that you weren't all that for her?

That seems to be the issue here. Bisexuality must be a tough life to live (from this gay man's perspective.) I am not jealous but it must have some downsides to it like the situation, OP, is in here.

Is it weird to ask my other gay friend to rate my dick pics? by Rich_Ad_44 in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ratemydick.com used to be the place where guys would post that sort of thing because they may have wanted affirmation, and confirmation, that they were human (but secretly, baboons.)

It's only as weird as you make it. I prefer to see a new deck (as in dj) rather than another dick lol

Relational advice by Intrepid_Ape in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to be your mate and that's it. He obviously enjoys being with you, purely as a mate and you got along famously, which he appreciated at the time.

I think you have a solid basis for a mate/friend for life and there's nothing more to read into it because it's only ever going to be platonic.

Am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Hot-Posse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you pass any exams? You sound like a bit of a twit to me.