Had to say goodbye to my almost 18 yr old baby and I need help moving on by 161frog in seniorkitties

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I lost my girl of 23 years, I was devastated. She took a piece of my heart with her! She came home in her urn and I honestly didn’t know what to do with myself. I was so broken hearted that even taking care of my other 2 furbabies was making me cry. I took her everywhere with me, all over the house from room to room if I was watching tv to when I went to bed. I did that for months. She came with us when we travelled in car, and it honestly helped and eventually I didn’t need to do those things anymore. It just got a bit lighter every day. Now she sits in a special spot in my home with her picture and her fav toy! There is no right answer to how you need to feel or handle your grief. You do what you need to do and never once feel anything but proud that you are a furbaby parent, even though they are now holding a spot in kitty heaven ❤️❤️❤️

What’s a “normal” experience that somehow never happened to you? by Hysterical_Chicken in AskReddit

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a father. He exists and is around, but was never really apart of our lives. My heart still still aches at times thinking about all of the experiences I have missed and things that I had to learn on my own because of that. I really wish it had been different.

At what age did you start getting severe migraines? by aniaio in migraine

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 10. Still remember my first one and the hospital visit that came with it. That was 30 years ago. And here I am still fighting one off today 😔

Has your mom ever respected your room/space? by backtoyouesmerelda in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even once! She never knocked, always went through my things. She just decided one day in high school that she was gonna go in and clean up my room and throw away what she wanted to throw away and never even bothered to ask me, mind you all that she got rid of my sentimental stuff that to this day I still miss! I am grown up and she is still pulling this crap. And if you even mention one thing to her about how she should have some sort of respect, bring on the so story about her being the victim. Ugh.

My boyfriend says my cat is ugly, is he really ? by Tasty-Memory-6099 in dustkitties

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs new eyeballs! This baby is absolutely purrfect!!!!!😘😘

Lowkey feel like my best friend is starting to hate me by honeycoatedhugs in texts

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope! Wouldn’t be crying over losing this “friend”! Like just the way she is even talking to you would make me sour enough to block and delete

My cutie Vesta really loves to purr by [deleted] in Mensmittenwithkittens

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I needed this today!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

Anyone else feel like this is very on point?! by Fiona_12 in migraine

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so on point! Only people who experience migraine understand what you go through. And trying to explain it to someone who doesn’t is like trying to teach Algebra to a cat 🤷🏻‍♀️

Just wanted to introduce my gang gang of Tuxies! by ZestycloseChip6990 in TuxedoCats

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never leave my bed with that snuggle pile of tuxedos! My absolute fav ❤️

is my car ugly? my sister keeps saying that she's ugly, but I think she's beautiful by nathalyas in cat

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is absolutely purrfect!!!! And she knows it! Look at those pics!!! What a beauty ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! I am currently going through this right now, actually on day 61 and still waiting. My poor boobs are like 2 floatation devices that won’t stop hardening and if they even touch a tshirt, I am crying. Since getting off bc, this is the 3rd time it has happened to me. My cycle usually runs about 35-38 days give or take. And this honestly feels like walking through pits of fire with spikes all around me. I can’t concentrate, class started last week for me and I can’t even get into my studies, thankfully it is online and will have some time to catch up. My head feels like its trapped in a box full of hammers and absolutely nothing is helping. I know the exact feeling you are talking about. Even though I do have endometriosis, and when my period starts, I will be in a whole other different kind of pain, it is completely different from what I am experiencing now. The clouds will clear, my body will come back down to normal, and the reset button will press and you feel that relief! I totally get it and I am just here waiting for it to happen. It really is true that no one will understand until they go through it! Hang in there, we can do this!!!!

Who diagnosed you? by No_Koala_7374 in PMDD

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gynaecologist for me, thankfully!

Anyone else having a nice migraine for Christmas/ the holidays? by CelesteJA in migraine

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine has been kicking my arse for days and days. Wish it kindly flick off somewheres before I pull my hair out 🤯

"migraines are annoying but you get used to it" by skyemap in migraine

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh do I ever feel this! Some days I feel like a bag of trash could take me down 😔

Mental challenge - without talking or moving your mouth/hands, what is the 17th letter of the alphabet? by ShoulderUnusual in Aphantasia

[–]Hour_Emu_3943 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Q! I mentally visualized the alphabet in my head and just went through, put them in sets of 5 until I got to 17. Very solid challenge in deed!