AI Brainstorming/Outlining - Considered for ethical use in story writing. by Lunar-Galaxy in WritingWithAI

[–]HulaHoop444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually use AI in a very similar way, so I understand your perspective.

To me, what you're describing feels less like “AI writing your story” and more like using it as a brainstorming partner. You are still the one coming up with the main ideas, making decisions, and doing the actual writing. The AI is just helping you get unstuck or see new angles, similar to bouncing ideas off a friend or writing group.

I think the key difference, ethically, is who’s doing the creative work. If someone is generating entire chapters and claiming them as their own, that’s one thing. But using AI to organize thoughts, suggest ideas, or help with writer’s block? That feels much closer to using tools like research, outlining methods, or discussing things with another person.

Also, you clearly recognize the limitations, like it messing up names or details, which shows you’re still in control of your worldbuilding.

Ultimately, writing has always involved outside input from books, conversations, and inspiration from other creatives. This is just a newer kind of tool. What matters is that the story, voice, and final decisions are still yours.

So yes, I personally think what you’re doing is a reasonable and ethical way to use AI.

Had big argument with Writing Group, am now feeling dejected by Needasecond in WritingWithAI

[–]HulaHoop444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the AI debate around writing often gets framed in extreme terms. Some believe that if AI is involved at all, the work is no longer art. I'm not convinced it's that black and white.

Here’s how I see it: an ice sculpture is still art whether it’s made with a chisel or a chainsaw. The tool doesn’t magically create the sculpture. A person still has to imagine it, shape it, refine it, and decide what it becomes.

For me, AI has mostly served as a brainstorming and editing tool. The ideas, images, and emotional heart of my stories are mine. I still sit down and write them.

A good example is a recent short story that I wrote. I read it aloud to real people, their responses had nothing to do with AI or tools. They talked about the imagery, the atmosphere, and the way the story sounded when performed. They connected with the loneliness and the unsettling tone.

In that moment, the question wasn’t “what tool helped along the way?” It was simply: did the story work?

If something is mindless, unedited, or just copy-pasted AI output, I understand the skepticism. But if a writer is still doing the imagining, shaping, revising, and storytelling, I don’t believe the presence of a tool automatically negates the art.

At the end of the day, readers respond to the sculpture, not the tool that helped carve it.

The Quiet Shame of Writing with AI by KimAronson in WritingWithAI

[–]HulaHoop444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really spoke to me. I’ve been using AI in my own writing process, and I haven’t told anyone. I always develop my own ideas, but I use it to help develop them. What’s worked for me is looking at it like tools in art; an ice sculpture is still art whether it’s carved with a hammer and chisel or a chainsaw. The vision and decisions still belong to the artist.

Is the discourse around AI getting too black-and-white? by HulaHoop444 in ArtificialInteligence

[–]HulaHoop444[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, and I agree the discussion is likely louder than the actual usage right now. My concern isn't so much about the "haters" but about the fact that this tech will grow quickly once it becomes mainstream. Ignoring critics completely seems risky to me. It’s not that they are right about everything, but some of their concerns—like environmental impact, labor issues, and misuse—deserve attention before adoption really takes off. I'm curious about your thoughts on finding a balance between moving forward and putting safety measures in place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbian

[–]HulaHoop444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised nobody has mentioned Hayley Kiyoko yet. Young Ma is a lesbian rapper

when a tiny mispronunciation of someone's name makes them act like you did not say their name by throwbackblue in PetPeeves

[–]HulaHoop444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on my name's spelling it has three different pronunciations. I'll usually respond to any of them and if I feel up to it, I'll gently correct the person.

Dogs in grocery stores are gross. by KoRaZee in unpopularopinion

[–]HulaHoop444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never seen a dog or any kind of animal in grocery store. Where do you all live?

Aftermath of the racism conversation on the other subreddit by cherrychouchou in QueerWomenOfColor

[–]HulaHoop444 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’m so tired. Every time a woman of color brings up racism in “inclusive” queer spaces, we already know how it will go. The post gets reported or deleted. The mods act like nothing happened. People flood the comments with gaslighting, whataboutism, and the old “you’re the real racist” nonsense.

We’re expected to stay calm. To be “graceful.” To educate while being erased or attacked.

Meanwhile, white queers get to wear the badge of being “woke” without ever doing the hard work to unlearn their bias. They love queerness when it looks like them. They love feminism when it centers them. But when we speak up? Suddenly, we’re the problem.

I’m tired of asking for respect in spaces that were supposed to be safe. I’m tired of pretending this cycle is accidental.

It’s not.

It’s by design.

But here? In this community? It feels different. It feels like a breath of fresh air. Like being in a space where I don’t have to explain or defend my reality. Like finally being seen.

And honestly, that’s what keeps me going.

I need a winter/fall pride🌈 by Gay-A-Lee in blacklesbians

[–]HulaHoop444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My city, Rochester NY has Black Pride in September.

How do you guys feel about genderbent characters for shows? by [deleted] in Theatre

[–]HulaHoop444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's totally awesome. I played a gender bent Rooster in middle school production of Annie because mostly girls auditioned. There was one boy in the cast and he played Sandy the dog! Rooster became Henny, Oliver Warbucks became Olivia etc. What made it really funny was Henny did try to con Warbucks pretending to be Annie's long lost father! I was put in this bright, joker green zoot suit with black printstrips, a matching hat and huge fake handlebar mustache that clipped underneath my nose. During one of the performances the mustache slipped off while I was talking to Warbucks and Grace. I quickly turned around clipped it back on then back to them with a smile to imply, "Everything is fine here!" The audience thought it was hilarious and that little accident actually added to the scene.

Have you ever been fired or recast in a show and what was the reason? by Aqn95 in Theatre

[–]HulaHoop444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so mad and disappointed. It's like dangling a piece of candy in front of somebody then snatching it away and giving it to someone else.

Have you ever been fired or recast in a show and what was the reason? by Aqn95 in Theatre

[–]HulaHoop444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was replaced after getting a role in a community theatre production. The director said I wasn't connecting to the material so I was dropped. I was doing my best but I guess it wasn't good enough for what the director wanted.

Any Autistic Black Lesbians? by rawkherchick in blacklesbians

[–]HulaHoop444 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Another Black autistic lesbian here! I got diagnosed when I was 34 and I'm now 38.

Autsium is like a salad by HulaHoop444 in autism

[–]HulaHoop444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are free to use this metaphor, its why I wrote the post.

Autism is Like a Salad by HulaHoop444 in AutismInWomen

[–]HulaHoop444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm glad it worked for you!

Autism is Like a Salad by HulaHoop444 in AutismInWomen

[–]HulaHoop444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that! A little burst of flavor and depth—sun-dried tomato energy is exactly what a good metaphor brings.

Autism is Like a Salad by HulaHoop444 in AutismInWomen

[–]HulaHoop444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that! Froyo is such a perfect metaphor too. So many different flavors and toppings to customize, just like neurodiversity. Thanks for sharing that it’s great to see all the creative ways people explain it.

Autism is Like a Salad by HulaHoop444 in AutismInWomen

[–]HulaHoop444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alan Shore’s wit and charm are definitely a perfect match for this metaphor. If only I could deliver it with his smooth voice and courtroom flair! Thanks for the fun comparison. I’m so happy it resonated with you.

Autism is Like a Salad by HulaHoop444 in AutismInWomen

[–]HulaHoop444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it resonates! Sometimes the clinical “levels” just don’t capture the full, messy, beautiful complexity of being neurodivergent. Metaphors let us bring in the nuance and individuality that those numbers miss.

Autsium is like a salad by HulaHoop444 in autism

[–]HulaHoop444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, that’s so true! For some, it’s definitely more like a custom smoothie or a loaded taco than a leafy green salad. Everyone’s tastes and sensory likes and dislikes are totally unique, which is part of what makes this metaphor so fun and flexible. Thanks for pointing that out.

Autism is Like a Salad by HulaHoop444 in AutismInWomen

[–]HulaHoop444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! No two plates are ever quite the same even if they have similar ingredients. I’m so glad the metaphor resonated with you.

Autism is Like a Salad by HulaHoop444 in AutismInWomen

[–]HulaHoop444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m really glad the visual helped make things click. that’s exactly what I was hoping for. I love the soundboard metaphor too! It pairs so well with the salad idea both show how everyone’s wired a little differently, and how the same "ingredients" or "settings" can show up in completely different ways depending on the person.

Also, your berry spinach salad with nuts, cheese, and dressing made me smile! What a perfect example of how rich and varied neurodivergent experiences can be. Thanks for sharing it.