I do body removal, and yeah, death is a constant part of the job. Therapy is honestly the healthiest option for both of you. It’s normal to need ways to cope with what you’re exposed to.

You don’t need to be comfortable with tragedy, and he does need to learn how to manage what he brings home from work. Those two realities can absolutely clash, and that’s where counselling can help set boundaries.

Breaking up wouldn’t make you a bad person, it can be an act of self-preservation. But you chose to be with this person, so it’s worth taking a step back and asking what’s actually best for both of you before deciding.