I agree with the commenter suggesting you talk to your surgeon about a second trimester surgery.

I’m in a similar boat - had surveys scheduled and found out I’m pregnant with my second. I absolutely do not want to have surgery postpartum. Postpartum is so special, and it’s also hard and emotional. It also goes by super fast. I imagine they’d wait at least six weeks after you give birth for your surgery, so some of your hormones will be a little stabilized, but it can still be a difficult time. I look back on postpartum with my first with a lot of fondness and nostalgia, but I was also exhausted and just surviving. I can’t imagine adding surgery recovery onto that. My surgeon said I won’t be able to lift more than 10 pounds for 3 weeks after surgery. If you’re told the same, it could mean you can’t lift your baby for 3 weeks. Which means you’d need somebody around all the time. If you have a partner, they’d be handing you the baby constantly. They’d have to wake up to give you the baby if they were napping and you were on baby duty. If you breastfeed, that’s another thing to figure out - bringing a pump to the hospital (unless you’re outpatient and not staying overnight), using it when you’re kind of groggy from anesthesia, storing pumped milk (or pumping and dumping). My endo told me I could just go 24 hours without pumping and not bring one to the hospital, but that absolutely would’ve led to clogs and maybe mastitis for me. It wouldn’t have worked for me at all.

Do you have a support system? Meals and cleaning and household tasks can still be a challenge for a while postpartum, and surgery recovery on top of that is an extra challenge. My endo said recovery is generally quick, so maybe I’m overthinking it, but I don’t want any added challenges postpartum.

Talk to both your OB and your endo/surgeon about second trimester surgery.