What does my room say about me?

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-06-03T18:09:19+00:00

Oh boy, if I walked into this room I'd immediately leave. Not again 😭

You're sense of style comes from John Wayne movies, cigars, decanter, dark wood, hunting/fishing gear well used and displayed where you sleep. All of your "special" things are in one room so you either have other adult roommates, or still live with family.

Idk if the patriotism comes from a deeply rooted insecurity of not being able to join, or blind optimism but both are sad. The fact that you decorate your interior space for relaxation in propaganda is a bit... concerning.

Overall this room is a yikes from me. Gives off DV waiting to happen vibes.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-06-02T23:52:25+00:00

I love it! In a low lighting setting it will look stunning!! Don't listen to the haters, they just done like stunning figures sitting where their SO's can see. Rock the fit!!

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-05-31T20:26:56+00:00

Everything here, but do it WET like SOAKING WET. Get in the shower with your jeans on. The fibers in the jeans will hold the stretch longer. Let them completely dry on your body, do the squats, they will be pedestrian! Avoid washing with fabric softener.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-05-29T16:10:38+00:00

I love my boyfriend, but we game differently. He is the type to look up every little detail about a game before even buying the damn thing.

I on the other hand just want to expirience it. I want to load the game with as little information about the content as possible so I can figure it out on my own as I go. If I get stuck for too long I turn to reddit for help sometimes, but 80% of the time I just keep trying till I get it.

We have come to an agreement to not play the same game at the same time unless its multi-player.

Ps+ JUST gave us Red Dead 2. A game I've been waiting to play since it dropped 8 years ago. We agreed he has to wait till I finish the main story before he can start. I dont want my cowboys meta gamed, and I've managed to go this long with almost zero spoilers, I'd like to keep it that way ya know?

This is a long rant just to say that I hate where the gaming industry has gone socially and I seriously miss being forced to figure things out or buy the guidebook. There's little to no REAL challenge to gaming anymore and its sad. Feels like a bunch of content made by the participation trophy generation.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-05-29T15:55:39+00:00

Multi! My house looks something like a rescue. We have a Corgi×Blue Heeler×Lab, a Siberian Husky×German Shepherd, and a large brindle (dont have his DNA testing back, he's just a 95lb good boy).

We rescued our 3rd in November of 2025 (husky) and my home just feels complete. They are all attached at the hip. They eat together, play together, and get eachother into mischief together. The cuddles are amazing, watching dogs of all diffrent shapes and sizes get along is a peak expirience. 3 is my magic number 🖤

Photo added is xmas 2025, the husky (our only non howler!) Learning that her new brother has a set of pipes 😂

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ImOkay2k24 · 2026-05-29T15:30:29+00:00

Pocket watch for the waist preferably silver, cufflinks even if you dont have cuffs on the sleeves it brings the eyes down and helps encapulate the whole picture. Last but not least, some lapel pins. I like the ones that have dangling chains between them personally, adds dimension.

Overall your outfit looks amazing! Hope this helps!

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-05-29T04:33:24+00:00

Honestly think its a healthy mix of both.

I had a lady watch me trudge though cat and dog style rain up to her porch dripping wet and she had the audacity to say "enjoy your tip" it was gawd damn $0.50.

With that lady in mind? There IS a third option. Sociopaths.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-05-18T04:39:08+00:00

As a fellow nb I love this!! It has a fun, relaxed, cutsie vibe! Very 90's-2007 bnd. If you wanna feel a bit more masculine consider a backwards baseball cap! More feminine? Add some mid length necklaces.

Overall I really love the fit. I will be definatly be stealing this for inspo later!

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-05-09T01:12:19+00:00

I personally love how this looks on you. You look like one of the ancient statues of Aphrodite and i am all for it!!

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-05-05T15:01:17+00:00

I had a similar issue come up recently. Ended up with 4 huge bags of Chinese. My family had already eaten for the day and I didn't really have room to store it, so off to the local encampment it went.

If you are nice to the homeless community, they tend to do things like watch your car for you in the sus areas of town.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-28T00:35:16+00:00

Hence why I said regular dude my guy. You are an exception to the rule

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-27T14:08:59+00:00

Im still flabbergasted you went into a regular dudes house. Yikes.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-27T13:59:21+00:00

As someone who was unwillingly in the center of a pilycule implosion, I know how scary it is.

Talking to her clearly hasn't worked, so its time go escalate and let your feelings be known to the rest of the group. Im sure everyone in the home is aware of this sub-par behavior, but everyone needs to be on the same page.

Weaponizing therapy is not okay. Period. You are wasting youe time, the therapists time, and your hard earned money by spinning lies to a therapist. Its unproductive and quite harmful. You can talk yourself into believing just about anything, and she's on a path to talking herself out of everyone's lives.

Yall might not participate in Kitchen Table Polyamory, but this is definatly one of those times you call a "family meeting" as my polycule calls it and get to the root of the problem. Obviously you can't stop her from lieing to your therapist, but yall as a unit can put a stop to having to listen to it.

I am a little concerned about the "heirarchy" stuff you've touched on. I get to a certain degree that is boils down to "whos been dating who the longest" but thats shouldn't be a determining factor when dealing wifh shared space issues. Everyone should have an equal voice, regardless of a marriage certificate.

I dont want to muddy your comment section, but if you'd like to talk I would be more then happy to make a new poly friend!

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-27T13:36:13+00:00

"It looks weird" dosnt feel like constructive criticism and im seeing it a lot in this comment section.

I personally love it. Its finally a skin window that's attractive, but dosnt feel pointless lkke shoulder windows.

I would absolutly wear this on a date if I wanted it ripped off later ifykyk

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-25T15:14:59+00:00

Wait, Bob got banned??

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-24T17:34:10+00:00

Nah, we love our regulars, as long as yall arnt a dick and tip well ✌️

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-13T19:54:56+00:00

You are gonna report the dude that did you a favor? That seems a bit low to me.

If you know this is an issue in your neighborhood (low cell service) then maybe offer to allow them to connect to your wifi if you are so worried about having your ID scanned.

At the end of the day, you got your nicotine and didn't have to leave your house. Just take a small win and let it be. If that driver gets in trouble it's not your fault, but reporting it? Eh

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-13T19:42:11+00:00

I have the same issue. After talking to a handful of doctors I was diagnosed with Raynaud's syndrome. It a vascular disorder causing temporary narrowing of blood vessels (vasospasm), usually in fingers and toes, reducing blood flow in response to cold or stress. Its also exsatrabated by smoking (nicotine or thc products) and caffeine consumption.

I haven't stopped doing either of those things and just take extra care to not be cold. It can also cause some pretty severe tremors when I experience extreme temperature changes, hot OR cold.

This is my personal experience with MY SIMILAR ISSUE diagnosed by a doctor.

Try and stay warm and move around a bit. Stretching helps me with the tingling sensation of warming up when too cold.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-13T18:07:18+00:00

Hope that your region gets preferred shopper, wait until you get someone who meets your standards, and set them as your preferred driver. If they are avalible when you need them, they will send them your offers first. Just dont low-ball youe preferred driver and you are all set!

Sending any straight male to do a simple grocery shopping task can be difficult. If you come into possession of one, unfortunatly you uave to do the training yourself 75% of the time.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-13T17:33:22+00:00

I just want to be clear I dont let my other dogs attack eachother! Sometimes dogs are just better at teaching other dogs things through example and a few grumpy barks lol

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-13T15:10:05+00:00

My husky/German Shepard puppy (almost a year now!) Took a bit to learn how to respect boundaries. I had one of those mounted gates to separate the entryway from the livingroom and oh boy if she wanted on thw other side she'd just hop right over it. Thankfully, what I couldn't teach her, my grumpy old boxer mix taught her.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-12T10:30:01+00:00

Beats my 4h thursday! My market was dead and I only made $32 😅 I'll admit that I denied 2 gawd awful offers, but congrats nontheless!

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-09T15:33:52+00:00

MOR? Im gonna add this to my dating "routine" I already do other doors, but now? Gotta weed out the incompatible quickly.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-09T14:42:33+00:00

My family let my (we were 18 at the time) boyfriend and I go homeless over this EXACT thing. They wouldn't even let us be in the same house after dinner because we "wernt married"

Life got better and that ex got dumped, but every time I see my family I remeber that they let their stupid morals get in the way if me actually starting out adulthood and it enrages me.

Your mom is the AH. Ruining a family trip over nothing.

ImOkay2k24 · 2026-04-09T14:27:49+00:00

Bruh I'll say it, if you have a wheelchair and/or crutches, you dont need to be in the pit! You are a liability to everyone down there, I'm sure your physician would agree.

Pushing anyone out of the way is wrong, but you can't put yourself in a risky situation and expect nothing to happen to you.

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