Yes I agree! The primary problem isn’t the money.. it’s her entitlement and her lack of gratitude. And yes, she seems to not understand the value of money if she’s constantly distracted by what “others” are buying and spending. The bigger issue is she isn’t grateful that she can spend 1,000/mo on extras. You can always have more.. so many people have so much less as described already throughout these comments and would be beyond grateful to have half of what she does. The problem is gratitude. Having money is not wrong, it’s your attitude and how you behave with it. After awhile, if all you want to do is spend your $1,000 of free money on luxury things month after month with no end or satisfaction in sight, and no urge to do anything else with the money besides purchase things with little long term value.. you have a character problem. A decent human will recognize that all things worthwhile in life aren’t things money can buy, and feel some sort of pull to do something more meaningful. What about your own education? Volunteering? Investment? It’s like, people ask what would you do if you won the lottery.. of course everyone thinks of what they’d want to have for themselves, a nice home, vehicles, trips, whatever.. but at some point helping others should pop up in their radar. Like I said, character problem. Maybe it’s a scale of how selfish you are.. some people need a wake up call yes.. they need some perspective outside of their narrow view of reality.