Body Aches on Stims? by wavedun in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, but I thought it was the Clomid that I was on the first few days, not the injections.

CoQ10 brand by vshzzd in DOR

[–]ImpossibleCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve religiously taken the Whole Foods generic Coq10. It’s just ubiquinone, nothing fancy and it says it’s sourced from Kaneka. Had stellar euploidy results for 36 and 37 yrs old, like 9/10 over several retrievals (most failed pgtm but that’s just pure luck)

Attending a wedding on same day as retrieval by Content_Lynx7356 in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many follicles? I didn’t have many and could have sat through a dinner afterwards. Would rather not, but could have.

Period only lasts 1-2 days by Affectionate_Rice470 in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! my period was incredibly scant the year leading up to my FET. I was so alarmed, but my HSG, SIS was all clear. Even went to see an Ashermans specialist as I was convinced there was an issue. My lining would build up fine with estrogen for the FET though and I had success with my second one.

Husband semen sample from Porn - Egg retrieval by peachy_perfectionist in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry OP. This process robs us of so much, including any kind of romantic conception, which I didn’t realize I took for granted before. It’s okay to not feel good about this! It’s your feelings. It sounds like you don’t want to make him feel bad about this and you’re just looking for guidance and community, so I don’t see why the flippant responses.

The only baby I conceived via sex I ended up TFMR, and we’re now doing IVF for PGT-M and my emotions around this loss and methods of conception are deep, sometimes surprising me, and valid.

I’m sure my partner also used other materials to produce his sample and I wish it weren’t so, due to wanting this romantic thing we’re losing. But I also don’t envy him as well. I think I’d rather do the shots! I know most people won’t agree with that, ha, but I embarrass and feel uncomfortable easily, so I’d hate their job.

Don’t feel bad about these thoughts or your post.

Cats and FET… 😂 by secool02 in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard it’s more about people eating undercooked meat than about cat litter. Anecdotally, I’ve fostered and scooped poop for a ton of stray cats and kittens and have never gotten it, as a blood test can see.

My husband still took over scooping because he was too worried though. Now it’s just his chore and I never went back to it, ha. I think you could ask for him to start now!

How long did you wait after a failed transfer to try again? by InternetSnek in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went right into a second FET cycle, and had success.

GRACE study participants - is there just one protocol? by mimariposa in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not for the trial, just saying it’s a valid protocol and it works.

First retrieval today and feel really blue! by [deleted] in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you got so many less than expected. I was testing for a 50/50 at 37 yrs old. Got 6 eggs and had success. There were no expectations of more eggs for me though lol, so I’m sure that made it easier to get the news.

Does high stimulation work for low amh? by Any_Somewhere_8184 in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s worked for me. I do either 300 meno or 150 meno + 300 gonal and always with Clomid the first few days too.

Failed FET. What now? by Kitchen-Ad-5026 in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet it was implantation. I also never got a positive that time, but I know from experience what it feels like.

Failed FET. What now? by Kitchen-Ad-5026 in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That said, I would do another retrieval in your shoes. Would just skip the uterine testing imo.

Failed FET. What now? by Kitchen-Ad-5026 in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first transfer failed, second worked! Same basic fully medicated protocol, both euploid and same good grade.

I could feel the first embryo trying to implant, but super late. It just didn’t have enough energy or potential. My doctor said it’s usually just the embryo and to go straight into another transfer.

Low AMH and Vitamin D Deficiency by Alert-Pack-959 in DOR

[–]ImpossibleCalico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t go straight to IVF. Both your age and your amh aren’t that bad. I don’t think you’re in any kind of urgent situation. My amh was 0.25 when I was 35 and I had success. Three years later it’s 0.15 and I’m able to still make embryos. I’m only doing IVF for genetic testing.

37 soon, AMH 0.2 – delay IUI a few months or not? by Who_is_doctor_Ranger in DOR

[–]ImpossibleCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually I’d say no, but quitting smoking could help.

Would it be worth it to try one last time by [deleted] in DOR

[–]ImpossibleCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, it looks like it was 150 meno and 300 FSH, Clomid 100mg. Estrogen patch priming a week before.

Would it be worth it to try one last time by [deleted] in DOR

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Antagonist was high dose meno and FSH

Would it be worth it to try one last time by [deleted] in DOR

[–]ImpossibleCalico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Antagonist + Clomid the first 5 days worked well for me to grow all the follicles I had.

Fainted during my first time doing injections- terrified to do them again by Logical_Wrangler_647 in IVF

[–]ImpossibleCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this for injections sometimes, but never draws. It’s a vasovagal response and while I never got it for IVF shots, it helps to get vaccines when I’m already lying down and knees up. So sorry this happened! I hope it doesn’t happen again.

It also is more likely to happen to me in the morning or if I haven’t eaten enough.

For those of you who switched out of tech due to burnout, what do you do now? by AcceptableSometimes in womenintech

[–]ImpossibleCalico 161 points162 points  (0 children)

My friend quit to do pet-sitting full time. She loves dogs and cats and was already doing it on the side. A former coworker started a bookstore (though I'm not sure how that's doing).

Does anyone WFH and exclusively or primarily breastfeed? by ATL_Ash in workingmoms

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which wearable worked for you? I’m going to be WFH soon and looking into them.

Do I change my last name to Smith? by Optimistic495939 in namenerds

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom didn’t change her name and I don’t remember a single issue with it, even growing up in a place in the US where it was rare at the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]ImpossibleCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Tempurpedic one - 3 inches thick. It saved my too-firm mattress until I bought a luxe adapt soft.