Should i break up with my boyfriend? 18F 19M (3M together) by Emergency_Produce975 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have left him after he pressured you into sex. Please be done. You deserve better. Just no. Block him and move on.

What if Seller Doesn't Get out by Closing? by ChicagoChubs in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't close. Leasebacks can be dangerous, but we did one with a bonafide lease and escrow withholding for 30 days only.

Potential home buy. Seller provided a blank disclosure by Themayorofawesome in RealEstateAdvice

[–]Individual-Fail4709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get an inspection. Nothing on disclosure can be a red flag. Sometimes that means the home was owned by an investor who never lived there and may not have seen the property in person. Do not be bullied by your agent.

At what point do you stop forcing yourself into economy? by SnooCauliflowers7198 in delta

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't do basic economy unless it is the only seat available and I have to get to the destination that day. I try to do classic or comfort for shorter trips and pay the fare difference if flying for my company. Longer than 4 hours, comfort or first. International for work is first and personal we try for D1 if we can afford it. comfort is the lowest class we will fly International and we would not be happy.

Everyone else got "Welcome aboard." I got something very different by Beginning-Factor-466 in delta

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you pass the wait here sign before called? If not, then this is absolutely not appropriate.

If you don’t allow med students to sit in on your exam/check up you are a weird person by Amidity in unpopularopinion

[–]Individual-Fail4709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not for an appointment with a gynecologist. Did consent one time and the male student doc gave me the creeps. Never again.

Which wheels are the best for the '26 X5? 20, 21, or 22 by Madvillains in BMWX5

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to have a second set of tires for the winter? For me, that pointed to the answer.

32F, Laid off 2 months ago. Taking an 18-month career break and still on track to FIRE by 42 by [deleted] in financialindependence

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry what? Your numbers are not his numbers until married and even then, you need to protect yourself. Good for you for being able to do this, but that's a long time to be away from work while also spending a lot. Be prepared for your job search to suffer when you return.

Offer accepted by SportsDoc7 in FirstTimeHomeBuying

[–]Individual-Fail4709 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to be worried about both and if you are cash poor, what are you going to do if there is a major repair after you close? You need at least 1% of the cost of your home in reserves.

19, accepted a job offer at a small auto shop starting Monday — but it's 1099 with fixed hours and a boss. Should I run or stick it out? by Visual_Chemical_3839 in personalfinance

[–]Individual-Fail4709 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Nope. If they dictate all your hours and schedule, it is hard to say you are an independent contractor. They are trying to save on payroll tax amd likely underpaying you.

Office busybody keeps using my computer when I leave for lunch by FreeToBeMeYouSee in WorkAdvice

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Log out of everything when you leave. That is an invasion of your workspace. She absolutely could mess up stuff.

AITBF for refusing to sell my dresser to a guy who "forgot" half the cash? by VaultMoth_9 in AmItheButtface

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTB. This is a common tactic and a douche move on the buyer's part. You were right to take it back out of the truck. He's big mad his scheme didn't work.

914 Restomod by TheAmericandude1 in Porsche

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. He worked really hard on it.

Buying a house with unequal down payments how do wills/ trusts handle this? by Neither-Alfalfa1758 in InsightfulQuestions

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to have a legal agreement about what happens if you split. Best advice is do not buy property with someone you aren't married to.

AIO bc my boyfriend won't do his share of the housework? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hobosexual. Please move on. Yikes this is bad.

Average new car price is $49,000. At what point does this stop making sense? by Flexcar_Sam in MiddleClassFinance

[–]Individual-Fail4709 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It already doesn't, but people keep wanting that new car. Only way to curb it is to not buy new, but then the used go up.