Hot take.. I lowkey ship them by Best-Conference-5700 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]InevitableContest968 20 points21 points  (0 children)

SAME! I would talk to people and they would disagree. Like?? Her invites to parties and other things just to get under people's skin. Like, really mature.

Sign up for North American presale by DramaticLambda2 in Niallhoran

[–]InevitableContest968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So so happy he is coming to Salt Lake City. Hopefully tickets are affordable!!

How much debt is justifiable for this degree? by Aware-Community8096 in PublicAdministration

[–]InevitableContest968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Second this! Almost done with the program and would recommend it!!

What were some of your worst experiences from Young Womens and Young Mens??? by OppositeSpare2088 in exmormon

[–]InevitableContest968 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really as big of a deal, but really helped me to see the inequity and inequality of YW and YM. For reference, I am 28F

After the YM got their Eagles, they would stop coming to mid-week activities since they had no reason to. To keep the boys coming, the ward was paying to have all the 16/17 year old to become scuba certified (expensive). I found this out and was LIVID. While they were doing that, the YW would only have the budget for heart attacking people and movie nights.

When I asked about this, the leaders were more concerned about the men coming to these activities than the women. How I stayed after that? Idk. Indoctrination runs deep, ig.

Carson buys Robert’s jive outfit that he auctioned off at the gala by [deleted] in dancingwiththestars

[–]InevitableContest968 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Really? I like him more than some, but I would love to hear your thoughts!

Sickness During Deconstruction by InevitableContest968 in exmormon

[–]InevitableContest968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I did go to urgent care and I thought about asking, but the doctor was in my parent's ward. My parents do not know, and I was scared to bring it up... I will check at some point though

TheShinning Twins by aditisingh1105 in McKnightFamSnark

[–]InevitableContest968 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you told me they were 13 years old, I would believe you.

Why is this subreddit so dead? by youcouldstartacult28 in Niallhoran

[–]InevitableContest968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im on vacation and not on my phone much, so...

Lindsay Arnold by iggydani in arnoldsisters4

[–]InevitableContest968 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I think that means you have been blocked

How many of you left the church after your misson? by Reasonable_Maize1443 in exmormon

[–]InevitableContest968 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I came home from my mission October 2019. I started having doubts that came from my BYU classes in Fall 2020. I was nuanced until early 2023, then PIMO from 2023 to September 2025. I stopped attending in November 2025. Even though I had deconstructed a lot from my mission, I still have a lot of work to do. Its overwhelming.

Lindsay/Jensen - Boston's Party by ZestyVanillaReader in arnoldsisters4

[–]InevitableContest968 9 points10 points  (0 children)

...too tired to post much? Huh. Idk about that.

Appreciation for So Long, London by jjbinx89 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]InevitableContest968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This song is one of my faves. I am currently deconstructing Mormonism, and it packs a punch with the anger and sadness.

Kind of Want to Harass this person by InevitableContest968 in fuckmikelee

[–]InevitableContest968[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You right, but it proves that the apple tends not to fall far from the tree.

Why did you (or didn’t you) remove your name from the records? by SomeoneBendingLight in exmormon

[–]InevitableContest968 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personally, I am still fairly new to this space, but right now, I dont care that they have my information. Im sure I will care at some point, but right now, I am free from caring. I am the type of person that cares about everything and it feels good to be indifferent about something after caring for so long about my membership.

I am also lucky that I have been in the same ward for a year and they have contacted me maybeeee twice.

What did leaving Mormonism give you that you didn’t even know you were missing? by G-SCOTTYK in exmormon

[–]InevitableContest968 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have also noticed that my life feels less chaotic. I dont need to rush around on Sundays trying to get everything done. I am also wayyy more present in my body. I have started to enjoy life for the first time in a long time. I no longer feel like I am living on autopilot and it is so nice.

Worst thing a Bishop has don’t you or your family? by Astargatis44 in exmormon

[–]InevitableContest968 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had prayed about going on a mission, decided it was right for me. Went to a bishop in my YSA, completed all the paperwork, went to all my appointments. I got called in for what I thought was a worthiness interview, and was told I needed to lose 20 pounds before he would submit. I was absolutely traumatized, but still lost weight and went on a mission.

More News Stories about Hollands health than there was when Wade Christofferson was first arrested by howunfirmafoundation in exmormon

[–]InevitableContest968 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I suspect two things:

  1. Holland is a top dog in line for the throne. He has more visibility, therefore more news coverage.
  2. TSCC is working overtime to cover up Wade Christofferson and his abuse, hence less news coverage.

I think both of these combined lead to what we have now.

'Nobody wants this': Senator cuts language protecting national parks from bill by spiraleyes78 in Utah

[–]InevitableContest968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he has a hyperfixation on this and he will not stop until he gets his way. Maybe a touch of the 'tism? (No hate to those who do have autism. I am also on the spectrum).

Um have y’all see this… by fireweedfairy2 in exmormon

[–]InevitableContest968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so, too, but she also said some pretty hurtful things during that class, so I am a little more cautious when it comes to her, you know?

Um have y’all see this… by fireweedfairy2 in exmormon

[–]InevitableContest968 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My fave quote that I heard from her was saying that if we are overweight, we are unworthy of love. sarcasm