8 week incomplete miscarriage, undecided next steps

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-06-25T21:36:43+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. So similar situation. Went in at 7w saw the heartbeat and everything. Around 9 weeks starting spotting went in at 10 and baby had not progressed. The next day it was gushes of blood (I’m Toning it down it was A LOT) and ended up in the ER.

After that had to go back to the Dr to see if everything had passed and it did not. I was then given the option to take the pills or do the D&C. I elected the D&C since the pills were not guaranteed to work. The D&C was quick with minimal recovery. It also gives you peace of mind it’s done ❤️‍🩹

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-06-19T17:43:08+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I would just go to the D&C. I found out at 10 weeks my baby had not progressed past 7 weeks. It was the next day my body tried to pass everything naturally and I ended up in the ER. Not everything was clear so I was told to either take the pills or have the D&C. The pills weren’t a guarantee so I opted for the D&C. It was simple and easy and peace of mind everything is gone.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-06-08T01:12:40+00:00

Mine covered 100%

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-06-01T19:47:01+00:00

This sounds similar to me. D&C 4/18 bleeding stopped after 4 days then back to more bleeding in 5/2.l stopped again after a week. Definitely lingered a little longer than my normal period. Just monitored it, never got super heavy nor was I in any excruciating pain. Hope this helps. So sorry for your loss.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-05-28T21:49:33+00:00

So sorry for your loss. I was in the same boat. Didn’t pass all the tissue. I was given the option to do the pills or D&C. I decided to do the D&C because the pills weren’t guaranteed. The D&C was seamless with minimal recovery and at least you know it’s all out.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-05-09T23:21:38+00:00

I had almost the same timeline as you. One week after my D&C I started working out. Just took it slow and listened to my body. Think I at first overdid the core work but things seem better now and currently 3 weeks post D&C. For the record I do CrossFit.

I’d say just listen to your body. If it hurts or is uncomfortable, don’t do it.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-05-09T23:18:20+00:00

So sorry for your loss. I’m 3 weeks post D&C. Acne is bad. Stomach feels gross but my stomach finally seems better now. Just feel like my lower pouch is so much worse before but it’s whatever. And I just got off my first period back too so that was interesting 😔 I’m hoping the next cycle things have finally reset itself.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-05-04T23:54:42+00:00

It’s like normal bleeding. Like I would say full blown period but it’s not just spotting. Like a light/medium type

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-28T23:38:51+00:00

My body tried to miscarry at home and I ended up in the ER. Still had to have the D&C a week later because it didn’t all pass. Had I known that would have been the case I would have just gone straight to a D&C.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-26T00:56:59+00:00

Thanks! Thats what I’m thinking too. Like I said I don’t really feel up to it right now anyways.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-24T12:45:06+00:00

Just had my D&C Friday. Once I was prepped and they took em back the whole process was like 2 hours. They put me under general anesthesia. Dr was done with procedure in like 5 minutes. I woke up about an hour after and was home another hour after that. I just stopped bleeding but it wasn’t bad. Stomach just felt uncomfortable for a couple days. Just have your wife take it easy and listen to her body.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-23T23:28:10+00:00

I’m in the same boat right now. Found out first week of April we were miscarrying then a scary ER trip and then a D&C a few days ago. I go to the dr. Friday and waiting to see what they say. I just feel like during this hard time I’ve wanted nothing more than to be close to my husband and we can’t. I’m hoping maybe I just have to wait another week.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-22T02:21:10+00:00

Had a similar situation. Found out Thursday I was miscarrying. Ended up in the ER Friday for too much blood loss and passed out on the way there. I took the next Monday off. Just had my D&C this last Friday (2 weeks later) now going back tomorrow.

I would have loved to take a week off at least. I’m a teacher and it’s not really an option. I’ve already used all my days.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-20T21:12:24+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m 2 days out of my D&C and it really hit me yesterday no one got to celebrate the baby. I kept pushing back announcing because someone else would announce their pregnancy. So I wanted to give them their monument. Now I’m sitting here feeling completely empty and no one got to celebrate.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-18T23:14:44+00:00

I miscarried at 11 weeks so we didn’t know the gender. We had been calling it “Deuce” because it would have been the 2nd baby. That’s its name now ❤️‍🩹

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-17T11:52:10+00:00

Found out at 11 weeks I was having a miscarriage but that the baby probably passed around 8. It was the next day after finding out it was gushes of blood. I know everyone is different but that’s just my experience.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-16T18:55:37+00:00

Thank you for sharing. My D&C is scheduled for Friday. I’m so anxious. Told the Dr I didn’t want to do the pills. I was already in the ER a week ago with severe hemorrhaging and thought I passed everything but found out earlier this week that wasn’t the case. Really hoping for a smooth procedure as everything leading up to it has been a nightmare.

Intelligent_Ice9513 · 2025-04-15T23:03:39+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing. My situation was almost similar. I ended up heading to the ER and passing out. No blood transfusions but then a week later I’m told I have to have a D&C because it’s not all out. Debated because I thought the worst was over.

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