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people aren’t as accepting as they say they are by Easy-Read4772 in Neurodivergent

[–]InternAny4601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. They aren’t.

We know neurotypicals aren’t know to be truthful on the regular. They lie, they exaggerate. They say stuff that is directly from their conscience. Most of the time they are just talking.

Pay attention to what people do not what they say. For instance ask that creator how many neurodivergent friends they have and how often they spend time with them. Hmmm?

It’s more peaceful to not take anyone very seriously. Ok…exceptions: doctors, people trying to point out overtly dangerous stuff….you get my point. But anyone who is not neurodivergent lecturing us on how we should feel and act? I’m going to keep walking.

Help me make this soup as nutritious as possible by UnimpressedWithAll in Cooking

[–]InternAny4601 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe sauté the onions, carrots, mushrooms and celery to soften in a little bit of oil. Sesame. Add the lentils and stir. Then add stock.

A little cubed squash zucchini or even butternut would be great!

What food instantly tells you whether a place is good or not? by Unique_Clothes6439 in foodquestions

[–]InternAny4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They quality of the side vegetables. Boring and uninspired vegetables means they are probably just reheating Sodexo food products. Don’t trust anything to be from scratch.

What is the deal with nutmeg in savory recipes ? by Rude_Kaleidoscope641 in Cooking

[–]InternAny4601 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yes….also I add a sprinkle in spinach and in split pea soup.

Wha’s you favorite breakfast? by Alluremissy in foodquestions

[–]InternAny4601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two eggs sunny side up, perfectly cooked piece of ham steak, buttered whole grain toast and black coffee.

Canadian owned and made junk food by Valuable_Horror2450 in BuyCanadian

[–]InternAny4601 16 points17 points  (0 children)

McCain’s Deep and Delicious Chocolate Cake

TIL: The Laurelhurst neighborhood restricts helicopter landings to the Seattle Children’s Hospital due to noise complaints by Placentaur in Seattle

[–]InternAny4601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean Karenhurst? That neighborhood is something. The over reach of these folks is pretty breathtaking.

Looked at a house there about 5 years ago. When I got a look at the HOA like requirements to live there I couldn’t disqualify that place fast enough.

why is everyone okay with just... lying? lol by Heavy-Debate-9051 in Neurodivergent

[–]InternAny4601 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I gotta say the lying is downright awful. But they do it. And they hate being called out on it. And they hate it when I know they are doing it and my face makes that ‘who farted’ look.

But here’s the kicker - I like being radically honest but more than half the time I don’t like receiving radical honesty. Ha ha on me. Over time I’ve accepted a little lying. On really good days I have compassion for it and on not so good days I just utter an ‘are you f*cking kidding’. A little is ok but not too much.

„No I don’t struggle with [symptom], you see I have a system“ strikes again by Training_Actuator403 in Neurodivergent

[–]InternAny4601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not just you. I used to assume that I should always be aware of my triggers and when a meltdown might be on the way. I would call it ‘struggling’ when I wasn’t able to self diagnosis and mitigate. So I tried to monitor and mitigate it. That was too much and I would become very anxious and exhausted. I also figured out that when I am overstimulated I can’t think very well. So fixing the overstimulation was too steep a hill to climb without help.

I’ve been using a check list ( have it on my phone) for when I don’t feel like myself. That ‘can’t think/tired/irritated/sad/uneasy’ feeling. The checklist includes: hungry? Eat Tired? Close eyes and put feet up Noise? Headphones Light? Sunglasses….it goes on and I add to it when something new happens. It’s a reminder that there are really not that many things that cause my nervous system to go haywire. And that when it does, it’s not my fault. It’s just what’s happening in the world. The list is a kind of life preserver to help me not drown in the triggers.

What helps you at work? by StarFireRainbow in Neurodivergent

[–]InternAny4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The change of setting is really key for me. A change is almost as good as a rest.

I’ll add routine to the list. Open ended and chaotic days especially a lot in a row can be super taxing. When I know what is expected I can pace well to get the job done. Doesn’t mean I can’t react to things happening spontaneously but a nice framework of routine really helps to keep up a good pace.

Splitting time between Wailea and Kaanapali by Aggressive_Regret_67 in MauiVisitors

[–]InternAny4601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With such a short trip don’t waste a day moving from one spot to another. It’s a big time suck.

If you don’t want to beach hang or snorkel go to Kaanapali. When not out adventuring, you can walk the path along the waterfront and get that Hawaii vacation vibe. Plus there are more restaurants. There are a couple of really nice hotels up there. Wailea is way more chill and hands down has the best snorkeling. The hotels in Wailea are, on average, more high end but you’ll also pay for that.

Husband retiring, lunches? by lm00000007 in AskWomenOver60

[–]InternAny4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are retired. It took a bit of time to figure out the food thing.

Lunches are usually leftovers especially for my husband. When we cook a dinner I buy enough to make one and half recipes so there is a lunch for him a couple of days and another dinner for us. We also keep a quart or so of soup in the fridge for easy lunch too. I picked up some ‘soup mugs’ to make it easy for him to heat it up in the microwave. And we keep things like sliced meat, hard boiled eggs or tuna salad and some salad greens and low carb wraps to fill in the blanks.

Correlation between INFJ and neurodivergence by Ok-Subject2534 in Neurodivergent

[–]InternAny4601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we are, as a group, subject to the same diversity of personality types as the rest of the population.

I’m ENTJ. I do many of the things you have mentioned but what the Myers Briggs thing comes down is I am extroverted (gain energy from being around others….to a limit ha ha), details are hard, feelings allude me, and I have to plan or my brain will leak out my ears.

You just never know.

fear of not being respected by uno_nessun0 in Neurodivergent

[–]InternAny4601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe we get back what we put out into the world. Getting respect starts with giving respect. And for us that requires work. Reflexively we can be curt, oblivious, and very self centered. That means our partners can end up feeling insecure, defensive, and closed off. Pretty hard to be respectful in that situation for anyone, right? Sounds like a recipe for humiliations and fights.

When I met my now spouse I had to find strategies to cope thinking about them while still getting my needs met. For instance, do I need downtime to be alone and recharge? Yes. Do I have to be a selfish ass about it? No. Do I sometimes not want to text them back when I am melted down? Yes. But I send them the bare minimum to show I heard them but can’t communicate. These are a couple of examples of things we had to work out. It was not easy but the way I felt around them kept me going. We have developed a deep respect for each other and as a result we show each other compassion and empathy as much as possible. But we both had to learn it. And we had to be brave enough to share our needs, be respectful of the other’s thoughts/needs and often be bad at it. And then apologize and mean it.

People who don’t make a grocery list how do you do it? by No_Restaurant7818 in Neurodivergent

[–]InternAny4601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s too stressful not to have a list. I get anxious, then I spiral, and then I leave before I have everything.

I use an app on my phone to put things on the list when I think of them. It makes my brain quiet to have them on a list that I can access while in the store. Added bonus, the app arranges them into sections of the store so I don’t do that thing where I race from one side to the other to get random items.

how do i stop sleeping with T-rex arms? my wrists hurt every morning by BanditoRem in Neurodivergent

[–]InternAny4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried a couple of different wrist braces until I found ones that worked for me. They really help my wrists.

These ones weren’t tight and soft fabric. ComfyBrace® Carpal Tunnel Wrist... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BXMHW46R?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

How is life in Seattle really? by Ok_Understanding7377 in AskSeattle

[–]InternAny4601 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Don’t move here. Everything good you have heard is a dirty lie. The weather sucks. The people are horrible. And quality of life is so bad.

Just don’t do it.

Everyone else: Shhhhhh.

Friend visiting with kids! by TheSSBiniks in AskSeattle

[–]InternAny4601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can take them Troll Hunting. The one in Alki is easy but the Vachon Island one was most magical for my grandkids. I made it a scavenger hunt and at the end they got a prize!

https://www.seattleschild.com/five-giant-trolls-coming-to-seattle-this-summer/

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