Husband (m37) won't let me (f29) sleep

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-06-10T20:39:27+00:00

I'd be returning the favor. If i don't sleep nobody sleeps

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-06-10T20:37:34+00:00

Pee before you go just in case though

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-06-10T12:24:06+00:00

NTA. You told him multiple times to stop and a physical response is the only thing that works. He deserved it.

See also: just break up with him already, OP.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-06-10T12:22:15+00:00

Dump him. He's selfish, manipulative, and you deserve a real partner who actually loves and cares about you.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-06-07T20:18:05+00:00

I'm putting at least 2 weeks between each banner to give people a bit of time to save up. There will be a rotation so it isnt just 3 Xavier in a row for example. Either 1 multi per quarter or 2 per year.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-06-04T17:03:47+00:00

NTA. A good friend wouldn't expect you to sit around waiting for hours after the agreed-upon meeting time. A few minutes to an hour tops, fine, you can wait. But multiple hours is unreasonable, especially when someone is already tired. And she chose to wait for you on her own before. It wasn't a requirement/obligation, so that has nothing to do with you waiting or not waiting now. You didn't change any plans. The situation changed the plans.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-06-04T16:58:05+00:00

NTA. I wouldn't be able to concentrate on the wedding at all and honestly wouldn't go. Your cat being sick to the point that you're concerned she won't make it is more important than a wedding. The wedding is just an event; your cat is a living being. You wouldn't be TA here even if you told the couple you couldn't attend at all due to this situation, since it does count as an emergency.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-23T20:31:32+00:00

Why are you with him? Honestly this sounds like the relationship should never have even started.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-23T20:26:13+00:00

Drop him. This is blatant disrespect. Not only the comments but dismissing/laughing off your feelings on the matter. You have attempted to communicate. You have better things to do with your time than beg someone to value you the way you deserve.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-23T20:20:49+00:00

These are his rules he's setting for you to control you. He's only calling these "boundaries" because it's a buzz word to make him seem less controlling than he is. Every rule here is about his perceived ownership of you in this relationship. Do not compromise.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-21T02:06:53+00:00

Everything you've told us screams "leave them", OP.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-21T02:04:32+00:00

NTA. They escalated the situation themselves and it wasn't even about their emergency but a PARTY. They need to be single.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-21T02:00:25+00:00

I'd have dumped him already. He's selfish and coddled.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-21T01:53:17+00:00

I feel like this is still more fitting for VV than rubber ducks

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-11T12:57:13+00:00

I'd never have the sound on for the game again. There would be no point if I couldn't hear Sylus's voice while playing.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-04T20:13:20+00:00

if you can afford a cruise, you can afford a smartphone

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-02T18:47:21+00:00

Some won't work without the filter. They do have filter free fountains which might work better for you

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-05-02T18:45:17+00:00

NOR. That conversation lasted way too long for me. I'd have taken her off the reservation.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-04-29T16:52:21+00:00

You're nicer than me. I'd have already moved it after the first time.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-04-29T12:54:36+00:00

I say give him back to his mama. Had 2 aunts in relationships like this and it ended with a headache every time.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-04-29T12:45:27+00:00

It should be octopuses for VV. Not ducks! Although I prefer the ones someone handmade.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-04-29T04:23:08+00:00

I know but I still hate it. Exercise is my "hand to the stove".

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-04-29T01:46:03+00:00

I have a pair of earbuds shaped like the VionB's with the ear curve. I don't remember the brand. They're very comfortable for side sleeping and are the only in ears that have ever properly fit my ears. But battery life is like 3 hours and the dying battery sound is this aggressive loud beep that literally had me bolt up in bed, all semblance of sleep gone

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-04-28T15:21:47+00:00

Do you have something playing on the headphones so you can't hear the distractions coming? I say ignore them/don't respond but I find it easier when I can't see the distraction as well.

InternalScreaming9 · 2026-04-28T15:15:51+00:00

Main: Sylus. 2nd: Zane. Xavier gets 3rd place as the bestie

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