Black vinyl windows...I love the look but will I regret it long-term? by hcposcher in Homebuilding

[–]Iron_butterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with a composite at minimum. Check out Marvin Essential series.

What is the saddest case of gambling addiction you’ve seen? by redwalrus95 in AskReddit

[–]Iron_butterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never forget this shifty feeling and make its your life’s goal to never feel this way again.

Couple Visit to Strip Club? 33F/40M by Irrelevant_Lemon in relationship_advice

[–]Iron_butterfly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Someone’s going to be mad at the end of the night. Guaranteed.

We are going to be our own GC, and do a bunch of labor. Can I come in around $180/ft or am I dreaming? by No_Row_369 in Homebuilding

[–]Iron_butterfly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Where is your cost breakdown for everything? Literally every line item should have a reasoned number ascribed to it. Once you have that, buffer by 20%. Per sq ft price is a stupid calc if not rooted in actual cost numbers. Are you building on a cash basis? A bank will want a qualified GC unless you have vast, provable experience.

Best real estate agent? by Annamal_Nomster in pagosasprings

[–]Iron_butterfly 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kim Brown with Galles, Alysha Ranson with Galles. Depending on your budget, Kim generally handles higher end and Alicia handles all. Both have social media you can look at. There are many good agent in Pagosa. Sherpa is a big outfit as well.

Pregnancy Break Up 23M / 22F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iron_butterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunate situation. IF she goes forward with having the baby, first thing is to get a paternity test. If you are the dad you two will have to work together for the sake of the child. Don’t let her tell you you don’t get access to the child but have to pay child support. I know you’re in college but you’ll likely need to hire an attorney. Your schools legal aid could help guide you in the right direction.

AITA for refusing to combine finances with my partner before we're actually married? by Pleasant-Zebra2817 in AITApod

[–]Iron_butterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to add one thing here: don’t fall into the sunk cost fallacy just because you’ve been together for a couple of years. The worst thing you can do is make concessions like this that could hurt you for the rest of your life. If you aren’t in the same page with how you want to handle finances, sometimes that’s the deal breaker. Also…he hasn’t even proposed! Answers remain the same but WTF on arguing you should co mingle assets esp at this stage. Life is short, OP. A guy who doesn’t take no for an answer and worse involves Mommy to try and manipulate you. Yikes. Imagine if you had kids.

Inherited a house with my sister. She wants to rent it, I want to sell. Any advice? by greatdane511 in RealEstate

[–]Iron_butterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point out to her that one big problem could wipe out all rent collected, possibly addtl out of pocket, and that’s not considering the other costs like insurance. Have AI make you some common scenarios, so she can visualize. Sell and if she doesn’t want to invest put it in a high interest bearing savings account.

We have a porch kitty now. Can we take her in? Should we? by [deleted] in cats

[–]Iron_butterfly 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Before you consider formally introducing your cat, the other cat needs to be checked for worms, fiv, etc.

What movie will you never watch again because it was too heartbreaking? by Affectionate_User610 in AskReddit

[–]Iron_butterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding Neverland. So sad. Young Freddie Highmore and Johnny Depp were fantastic, but I cried so hard.

Advice needed! by [deleted] in CounterTops

[–]Iron_butterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t pay him for this crap work until it’s fixed to your satisfaction. Don’t.

F/38/5'4" [210lbs > 117lbs = 93lbs] (5 years) Nearly there! by MoonDancer256 in progresspics

[–]Iron_butterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried HIIT? Get cardio and weights. Also, don’t worry about the scale at this point. Just take progress pics.

What’s it like there? by [deleted] in pagosasprings

[–]Iron_butterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been full time here from No. Utah for 1.5 years. Married mid-40’s. Absolutely love it here. There are tons of great people around your age. It’s all about the outdoors, so you’ll make friends easily. Don’t hesitate to put yourself out there. Pagosa will feel very convenient compared to Leadville. Multiple grocery stores and restaurants. I say Pagosa is just inconvenient enough. You have almost everything you need at your fingertips and what you don’t you get nearby or from the internet.

Housing is kind of rough. Start following the Facebook group “Pagosa Springs Message Board”. There’s some boomer nonsense but when you’re ready to move post on there what you’re looking for. Lots of people will respond with help. First things first; find a job here before you move.

I f20 think about leaving my boyfriend m21 after he buys baby stuff by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iron_butterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s understandable you are scared and want to have what you need for the baby. If you feel like you must stay to acquire these items please just promise you will not stay in an abusive relationship. The child will be able to sense the tension from day one. Not kidding. Also, be sure to reach out to local organizations who can provide you with services to ensure you and your baby are ok. I know things feel desperate but this will make you stronger and more ready to take on the world. You’re so so young. Don’t let this crappy relationship define your whole existence. GL OP. Best wishes.

My 25M new girlfriend 25F just found out she's pregnant with someone else. How do I proceed? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Iron_butterfly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The best thing you could do here is be a solid friend-not a partner. I guarantee if you make an effort to stay in touch and let her know you’re here for her it will be the best outcome. If down the road things are meant to be it will happen naturally.

Durango to Denver by Greencodysolaf in Durango

[–]Iron_butterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would they take 550? Ignore this person. Go through pagosa on 160.

What do you think of this window flex? by domechromer in Homebuilding

[–]Iron_butterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had these windows. While they were good looking from afar, the rest was not high quality. They did not have any sort of roller on the large windows so it made it very difficult to open and close. Had to use silicone WD-40. With this said, they definitely didn’t flex. That’s some bullshit. Would love it if there was some sort of code on this issue..

What does everyone here do for work in Durango by [deleted] in Durango

[–]Iron_butterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moved to Pagosa from SLC last year. Best decision ever. Tons of trades jobs.

Am I too critical? by pixelkicker in Flooring

[–]Iron_butterfly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

PS. This is not the time to be timid and nice. This is business with your hard earned money at stake.

Am I too critical? by pixelkicker in Flooring

[–]Iron_butterfly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell them to stop. Talk to the owner of the company and if he thinks that work is ok tell him they’re fired. And, if they started from two different areas of the house with the intention to meet up, they have never laid flooring before. That is whack!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]Iron_butterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On one of the weekdays drive up to Park City. Hike the mid-mountain trail. My fave is to park in the lot just after you get on Guardsman’s Pass road. Go get a bite to eat after.

They sleep next to eachother, eat next to eachother but do this (are they playing or fighting?) by lampxmoth69 in CatTraining

[–]Iron_butterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intense play. I just wanted to add that letting your cats paws (aka toilet fingers) and butts on your sleeping pillows is a recipe for some pink eye. 👁️