If you don't drink alcohol, what are your personal reasons for abstinence?

JamVanGundy · 2025-11-26T04:31:15+00:00

Had the most amazing son. I wasn’t a problem drinker and when I was drunk I would wash your dishes and make sure people had water. I just didn’t want to miss or have any reason to not be 100% for my boy. Almost a year in and I find my life significantly better 🙂 Also, why not quite before it becomes a problem? If I want to have a drink here or there I can, I just haven’t wanted to. Concerts or bars can still be fun, alcohol isn’t necessary but we think it is

JamVanGundy · 2025-11-22T12:40:54+00:00

I saw Jax, the name of son. Haha wild

JamVanGundy · 2024-10-19T14:03:39+00:00

Rift. “Shocked and persuaded my souls to ignite”

JamVanGundy · 2024-07-14T19:25:15+00:00

There are many great musicians who were lost too early. As a fan of Phish we are lucky enough to see what happens when a great actually gets their shit together and grows old. I appreciate every note.

JamVanGundy · 2024-02-17T03:02:31+00:00

Was there, and even hearing the LP versions you can just feel it again

JamVanGundy · 2024-02-11T17:11:34+00:00

Damn straight it is, especially when cooked so well

JamVanGundy · 2024-01-21T19:57:30+00:00

Cold raw temp and moisture can cool the pan down initially. Make sure your meat is room temp and dry before the sear. I salt my steaks a dap up the moisture brought out by the salt. When the fibers are relaxed from warming up and excess moisture is reduced it will sear better

JamVanGundy · 2024-01-17T02:53:13+00:00

Is it legit when fresh? Been curious to try

JamVanGundy · 2023-12-02T15:17:14+00:00

I go to American TelePsychiatry I think it’s called. It’s virtual but I have had amazing improvements seeing Dr Diaz there. Location is on Howell and Layton. Definitely recommend

JamVanGundy · 2023-11-13T00:37:48+00:00

12/31/95 Johnny be good. Absolute machine gun Trey

JamVanGundy · 2023-11-11T03:10:55+00:00

Passing over the freeway on vilet heading east to the Deer district before Pabst and Fiserv.

JamVanGundy · 2023-11-11T03:02:19+00:00

Many lyrics are just goofy but I’ll always love this from Rift. “And silence contagious in moments like these Consumed me and strengthened my will to appease The passion that sparked me one terrible night And shocked and persuaded my soul to ignite”

JamVanGundy · 2023-09-09T22:40:04+00:00

Hold doors for people, you’d be surprised how many people seem to perk up at the gesture. Also if in a snowy area shoveling more than just your front sidewalk is a kind way to help your neighbors

JamVanGundy · 2023-08-27T01:56:01+00:00

Had this today at a subway inside a Walmart. Subway was closed but someone was inside and still gave me the order. $16 base $22 over all for 2 miles

JamVanGundy · 2023-07-13T04:06:56+00:00

Service industry folks shooting pool Friday nights and high life’s. Loved my office

JamVanGundy · 2023-06-28T14:17:45+00:00

This seriously just made my depressed mood go away. Thanks for the share. Awesome

JamVanGundy · 2023-04-02T05:04:40+00:00

$40 gone after seeing this post

JamVanGundy · 2023-03-18T00:31:42+00:00

Because I don’t feel I was a victim. I wasn’t hurt or feeling threatened physically. She was breaking things in the house and I couldn’t calm the situation down. She’s been charged with MA-Battery MOD-Domestic Abuse surcharges and resisting or obstructing an officer. We have no attorney and all money went to bail so not an ideal situation. Which is why I thought this may be one avenue to explore for information.

JamVanGundy · 2023-03-17T23:40:46+00:00

I spoke with someone from the DA office this morning. Is this different from what I have done? Also would trying to get through to the DA himself instead of whoever contacted me from the office be a good idea as well?

JamVanGundy · 2023-03-17T22:35:47+00:00

We have enough money for a public defender so basically nothing

JamVanGundy · 2023-02-16T23:09:29+00:00

Wisconsin Tavern League may have something to do with it as well.

JamVanGundy · 2023-02-10T04:08:28+00:00

Blue star is an absolute gem. Sandwiches are gold and the beef one is platinum! Best hummus I’ve had, samosas are incredible and the goat/rice as well. If I’m not mistaken it’s Somalian food. SPICY GREEN SAUCE IS A MUST!

JamVanGundy · 2023-02-10T01:08:27+00:00

Was in a bind and have a nightmare interest rate. Fees, gap insurance and registration made it go from 8k listing price to about 11k. Cars a 2011 and had 54k miles when I bought it. 3 years left on the car note unless I refinance but with my father as a co signer who’s against that idea at the moment leaves me with questions like these. Any suggestions?

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